interesting that you make that assumption...obviously you have read me incorrectly, for i am looking for an older...not too much older, man to be very very dominant with me. i might be coy and talk a big game, but i'm just a little person who wants to be dominated. of course, he can't be some reclusive pervert, i'd want him to be very normal, yet aggressive publicly, but dominate me in the bedroom. a lot of guys like you who have to be in total control all of the time are insecure about their looks or sexual performance. are you one of those men?