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tehalienfetus

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SO! My boyfriend is coming down to visit for about two weeks. I'm going to teach him fully on my tickle fetish finally and the ins and outs of how to do it. I was wondering if you all could help me make a list of things to mention? Things to use (and where), how to start, how to tie knots :] Links, images, anything is helpful!

He was supposed to be here today, but due to fog they sent him to another state overnight. So I have all night to work on this until he gets here! Plus, while he's here, I'll check in for any ideas and input. I'd really appreciate any help~ It's kind of overwhelming to think about all that I'll have to tell him. I might just share this thread with him when he gets here and let him read!
 
Hi Jupi, you could show him some of the clips in here, you tube has a lot as well, lotion does heighten sensitivity for sure, especially in belly button, I'm not much help on knots, I've never been tied, letting him read it should be a big help, I will look for other links and things
 
http://www.twistedmonk.com/video.htm

Learned a bit from this place. There WAS a super helpful site for rope-tying I've learned all my tricks from, but I can't seem to find it now. I'll update whenever it is I find it again.

Good luck! 🙂
 
First of all allow me to say "That lucky bastard.....(girrrr)"

As for ideas, I'm assuming you've already told him of your interest in tickling, with that being said I think for the first time (and I'm guessing he's very new to this and never really considered it till you) just start off all natural. Just hands, fingers, feather(s), and depending on how you both feel and comfy you both are with this and your relationship, tongue. From their, after he's gotten used to it, move on and try other things.

That's my two cents. Sorry if anything I said is offensive. Wish I had someone.....

Have fun and enjoy yourself ^_^
 
Do what comes natural, then you can move onto tickle toys,etc.
 
Welp~ Tonight went great. We experimented with a wartenburg wheel and IT WAS SUPER EFFECTIVE~! Tried oil, too~

Best part? He really enjoyed himself :33333333
 
Awesome! Keep us posted. Its difficult sometimes to bring in a signif other into tickle play. Im always game for tips & other advise. Lately, I go about things very slowly & casually. Now looking for the right (PG-rated) tickle clips to show her to really cultivate the whole idea in her head.
 
Shows what I know! 🙂

I was going to recommend that you introduce it more mildly, as an experimental thing, in the sense of "here's one of a whole bunch of fun things that I'm sort of into," rather than, "here's a secret, intense fetish that I want you to become obsessed with too."

The point being that if the other person likes it too when introduced mildly, it's a no-brainer to increase the intensity -- that would be easy. On the other hand, if they completely, utterly detest the idea, you'll know that just as quickly too, and there will have been a lot less downside if you treated it like a casual experiment, and didn't put yourself out there so far.

Once I read your update, at least in this case, it seems you may not have needed my brilliant advice -- as whatever you did worked! Good luck!

Still, does anyone else agree with me? Would my advice make more sense in general for the average TT reader in this situation?
 
Well, I introduced him to the fetish last January, but we haven't had time to explore it well together other than the occasional tie up and light tickle.

So with showing him lots of things, and experimenting, we've actually found out a LOT.

I've never been able to orgasm on my back. I bought a hitatchi wand. After two intense hours of tickling and the use of our safe word over four times, he used it on my clit and fingered me. I came five times- On my back. I cried.

I'm absolutely amazed, and he is too. Honestly, we thought it was something we could never have. Our experimenting has learned that he is pretty into watching me squirm around on the bed, and I'm into how he touches and tickles me :3

This thread is really helpful~
 
I'm glad to read that you had fun.

It seems that you have learned how tickling can bring you to an orgasm.:rolleyes
 
I got bored waiting for him to get ready to play with me. The most ineffective rope-work I've ever done... Since I've never done any before. Simply playing around.

What kind of rope do you all suggest is best? We just got this clothesline at CVS :3... Do I really need to spend 20$ on 14 feet of "japanese silk rope"?
 
Hee. They look like presents waiting to be opened or something, with the bows and such. :happy:

Lots of different types of rope give a different experience, I find, though the best basic/comfy/cheapeset ones to use would be nylon-based rope. Twisted feels a bit stronger and keeps its shape better, so that's probably better for tying limbs together or something, but if you want more creative flexibility/softer feel, braided rope is where it's at. Also, twisted rope is easier to chafe skin (though the pattern they leave behind is pretty, so meh 😛 ), whereas braided moves a bit easier on skin, but slightly compromises restraint effectiveness. I guess my advice would be braided nylon for tickle-bondage, and twisted if you just wanna be tied up snuggly for a while. 🙂

A note on braided rope - "solid braid" feels a bit stronger/firmer than the others, and double/diamond braid are softer, but usually have a "core" of rope inside. If you find that this is the case, you can sometimes remove the inner core of material, which makes the outer rope a lot more flexible, but I think it'll break down easier as well, and can "tighten" easier on skin.

As for width, 3/8" or 1/4" seems the best for overall tying, with maybe 1/8" for smaller ties like for toes or fingers or hair or whatever. The rope in your picture looks a bit on the smaller side, so maybe a width larger than that may work better/feel better. If you'll be using the rope a lot in tickle sessions with your man, it's probably best that you plan out the desired lengths, wrap about an inch-in-width of electrical tape several times around that segment of rope, then cut the rope in the middle of the tape, so that each created "end" will be secured to prevent fraying. You can even use different colors of tape to designate different lengths of rope! :happy:

Try varying the lengths of rope you cut. If you end up buying a large roll or something, you can experiment with what lengths work best for what limbs/ties, but the general rule is to leave a little bit of extra length than intended, so that if you accidentally mistake the length, at least you'll have more to work with without having to untie everything.

Only go for jute rope (the Japanese stuff) if you're really into the feel of bondage. That stuff is amazing. No rope burn! :super_hap

I'm not a huge expert on rope for bondage, though, so don't take my word for it - it's only from personal experience, and a bit of curious research. 😉

EDIT: Found this helpful guide for general shibari/bondage, but can be applied to bondage for tickling as well, including making fast "cuffs" from the rope. Perfect for beds!
 
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