Terminate Membership

[Bator]

Can someone explain how to terminate their membership? I,m an outsider that doesn,t feel that I belong.

 

[melanie2]

tsk tsk now why would you say that..i like your posts..but anyhoo...i don't think you can terminate it..just quit logging in..if you feel left out well, hmm take a break from the forum..

 

[hazelf1]

i think your one of the more sensible, don't go just visit perhaps a little less take i break.

i think you fit well we all struggle from time to time

 

[Dr. Bill Kobb]

Yeah, that's what I do. I was hardly around at all for the last few months, but am back to posting again at the moment. I might disappear again tomorrow, but for now I'm coming around again. You could try that approach(?).

 

[Violetta]

One doesn't terminate their membership, they simply stop coming. Having a membership doesn't mean someone's twisting your arm to make you visit the forum. That said, it's a shame that you feel you don't want to be here. You were a good member of the crew.

 

[Bator]

I,m possibly the only person here who has never indulged in my fetish. I,ve never acted it out and wouldn,t know how to approach the subject with a woman even if I had the opportunity, which I have. If I did and the word got out, I would probably lose my scholarship and be expelled for being a freak. Therefore, without any experience I have nothing to contribute. This and with Christmas almost upon us and nobody to celebrate it with, I,m feeling quite detached, the other students will be going home to spend the holidays with their families and loved ones while I shall remain here, alone as usual.

 

[the_jimmy_james]

If I did and the word got out, I would probably lose my scholarship and be expelled for being a freak.

That spells "LAWSUIT."

 

[Leo Tickles1]

You want to quit coming to a tickling site because you are getting 0 tickling in real life?

What?

I'd stay here for the clips, if nothing else. It also seems that people enjoy reading what you have to say. And I'm sure there are a bunch of people who could help you open up to a female, whenever you decide to find one.

If your problem is being alone and lack of tickling, being alone without tickling isn't going to help.

 

[Pat_the_Baker]

If I did and the word got out, I would probably lose my scholarship and be expelled for being a freak.

Keep in mind Jamie that in some countries, it's against the law for women to be looking at sites like this (which I find completely stupid, moronic, and sexist).

 

[PurpleStyle]

See, people actually want you to stay. If I did one of these threads, the general reaction would be "bye, don't let the door hit you where the good lord split you". xD

 

[Pat_the_Baker]

NOOOOOO...NOOOOOO....

SSSSTTTAAAAAYYYYYYYYY...

NO HARM CAN COME TO YOU HERE!

YES! YES!

soon...now...yes...very soon...

 

[Bator]

You want to quit coming to a tickling site because you are getting 0 tickling in real life?

What?

I'd stay here for the clips, if nothing else. It also seems that people enjoy reading what you have to say. And I'm sure there are a bunch of people who could help you open up to a female, whenever you decide to find one.

If your problem is being alone and lack of tickling, being alone without tickling isn't going to help.

Girls are not the problem, neither is finding one, acting on my desires, the way they might possibly react and the word getting out is. I have never tickled a girlfriend or any female for that matter. You make it sound so easy and almost ridiculous but I assure you that it is much more complicated than that. I,m involved in a very high profile sport and like it or not the majority of students and faculty know who I am even though I may not know all of them, so this and a case of not being able to act on my desires for obvious reasons, the Christmas blues and depression due to the fact that I have no one to go home to and celebrate Christmas with, have suddenly taken their toll on me and I,m having difficuty coming to terms and dealing with them. Thank-you for your concern, it is very much appreciated.

 

[Bator]

Thanks very much Izzy, Hazelf, Rib Tickler, Bella, Jamie, Leo, Crazy Clown, PurpleStyle, I appreciate your advice and concern, hugs to all of you.

 

[Ilohnoh1]

I,m possibly the only person here who has never indulged in my fetish. I,ve never acted it out and wouldn,t know how to approach the subject with a woman even if I had the opportunity, which I have. If I did and the word got out, I would probably lose my scholarship and be expelled for being a freak. Therefore, without any experience I have nothing to contribute. This and with Christmas almost upon us and nobody to celebrate it with, I,m feeling quite detached, the other students will be going home to spend the holidays with their families and loved ones while I shall remain here, alone as usual.

A sound concern.

It is so sad to know (and see) that there are so many people around that don't understand others well enough to know that almost everyone has special likes or attraction to something. When you like e.g. horses (in a not sexual way) there's nothing wrong with that. If you like breasts, you're considered normal because almost everyone thinks those well rounded soft things on a woman's body are pretty and nice. But when it comes to things that some people don't understand, or what's not 'their cup of tea', it gets tricky. Accepting people for who they are is in my book extremely important, however, and if you (they) cannot do that or worse, are not WILLING to do that, I consider that a serious flaw in them. That, however, doesn't mean that you should go wide open with your feelings and ideas, but if they would happen upon this...

Well, there is another chance. Do you think they will really expell you? Or do you know it? Look, it's quite possible that many people will find it strange, or cute... that they will tease you a bit about it or laugh about it... but it may get old and they get used to that you are just a little different than they are. But hey, EVERYONE is different! Perhaps they'll be amused, laugh about it, and then carry on. Then again, to risk your studies because of this is yet another thing so the caution is probably good.

Personally I think tickling is cute, can be fun and sexy. But I don't consider it really as my fetish. I have other things which turn me on more than tickling ever does.

Good luck to you!

 

[Bator]

I,ve seen students lose scholarships for less and with little investigation, the rule here seems to be to rid themselves of the problem, real or imagined. When an accusation is made the philosophy is to shoot first and ask questions later. This university will tolerate no negative publicity or scandle of any kind, big or small. Being a player in such a high profile sport may even exacerbate the situation.

 

[venray1]

I,ve seen students lose scholarships for less and with little investigation, the rule here seems to be to rid themselves of the problem, real or imagined. When an accusation is made the philosophy is to shoot first and ask questions later. This university will tolerate no negative publicity or scandle of any kind, big or small. Being a player in such a high profile sport may even exacerbate the situation.

That doesnt mean you cant visit here and interact with the obvious friends you are making. It may not be a lot, but at least you will have folks to chat with that understand...🙂

 

[melanie2]

That doesnt mean you cant visit here and interact with the obvious friends you are making. It may not be a lot, but at least you will have folks to chat with that understand...🙂

That's what i do..i get absolutely ZERO tickle play..but i come here..interact..read some stories..watch some free preview clips..it's fun.

 

[UBU]

Hey, Rifleman,

None of us is truly understood. None of us is obliged to accept the condemnation of the ignorant. That said, I respect your caution. Public persons are vulnerable in ways that are beyond the experience of those of us who enjoy our anonymity.

I respect that you have learned to keep your public and private personae separate. Does this mean that you must sentence your private self to purgatory?

I long ago reconciled myself to the fact that fantasy women are one thing and real ones entirely another. Another person is a complex phenomenon. You can, and will, compromise when you make room in your life for another. She will, too. Find one who is not threatened by your fantasy. In exchange, do not condition the relationship on it.

I've told my own son this same thing. You're going to live a long time. It's no sure thing, but it's the way to bet. You see change and you will embrace change. Don't embrace your limits.

 

[Bator]

The fetish and tickling really isn,t the major part of the problem, I,ve never indulged in it anyway so I really don,t know what I,m missing out on, although I can,t wait for the time to come when I can be myself without feeling that I,m letting the university down or worrying about repercussions. It,s these wretched holidays and no home to go to and no family to celebrate Christmas with that have me depressed, exacerbate the situation and blow everything out of proportion. I should be accustomed to it by now but unfortunately I,m not. Christmas is a wonderful time for families and that is what I miss the most. I do cherish the friendships that I have made here very much, I didn,t expect to hear from so many. Thanks everyone, it means a lot. Especially now.

 

[paracarl44]

The fetish and tickling really isn,t the major part of the problem, I,ve never indulged in it anyway so I really don,t know what I,m missing out on, although I can,t wait for the time to come when I can be myself without feeling that I,m letting the university down or worrying about repercussions. It,s these wretched holidays and no home to go to and no family to celebrate Christmas with that have me depressed, exacerbate the situation and blow everything out of proportion. I should be accustomed to it by now but unfortunately I,m not. Christmas is a wonderful time for families and that is what I miss the most. I do cherish the friendships that I have made here very much, I didn,t expect to hear from so many. Thanks everyone, it means a lot. Especially now.

^I feel that is a reason to stay here.^ Am I to understand that you've never even lightly tickled a girl?^

 

[BigNorm]

I,m possibly the only person here who has never indulged in my fetish. I,ve never acted it out and wouldn,t know how to approach the subject with a woman even if I had the opportunity, which I have. If I did and the word got out, I would probably lose my scholarship and be expelled for being a freak. Therefore, without any experience I have nothing to contribute. This and with Christmas almost upon us and nobody to celebrate it with, I,m feeling quite detached, the other students will be going home to spend the holidays with their families and loved ones while I shall remain here, alone as usual.

sounds like your having a crisis of conscience.

i'm like you, never acted out my love for tickling, but lemme remind you, tickling or whatever exactly your fetish is is a vanilla one. there are far more freaky fetishes out there. and you cannot whatsoever lose your scholarship because of your fetish. if you love your fetish, don't throw it away for anything. i guarantee you there's someone out there that you can tickle, or whom you can convert to like tickling. i'm in the same boat as you, but i don't give up.

 

[Bator]

^I feel that is a reason to stay here.^ Am I to understand that you've never even lightly tickled a girl?^

I wouldn,t go quite that far, I have crept up behind a girl, a friend usually and startled them by poking them in the ribs or touching their neck. As far as really getting into the tickling aspect in a sexual situation, I,m sorry to say that I have not.

 

[Leo Tickles1]

Alright, so it's not easy. Tell me what in life is then.

Whatever you're in, I doubt they are going to go online and type in your screen name and find this. And if I was presented with your circumstances, I'd find a way around it, but the last thing I would do is quit the one website that allows you to communicate, about your fetish, with people that, if nothing else, have at least that in common with you.

 

[Bator]

sounds like your having a crisis of conscience.

i'm like you, never acted out my love for tickling, but lemme remind you, tickling or whatever exactly your fetish is is a vanilla one. there are far more freaky fetishes out there. and you cannot whatsoever lose your scholarship because of your fetish. if you love your fetish, don't throw it away for anything. i guarantee you there's someone out there that you can tickle, or whom you can convert to like tickling. i'm in the same boat as you, but i don't give up.

It depends on how the girl responds to it, if she doesn,t like it and believes me to be some kind of freak and decides to report me, there is a very good chance that I could lose my scholarship, there is a zero tolerence policy as to sex of any kind here on campass, I,m not willing as this point to test it, I have too much to lose. I really appreciate the advice, many thanks.

 

[Bator]

Alright, so it's not easy. Tell me what in life is then.

Whatever you're in, I doubt they are going to go online and type in your screen name and find this. And if I was presented with your circumstances, I'd find a way around it, but the last thing I would do is quit the one website that allows you to communicate, about your fetish, with people that, if nothing else, have at least that in common with you.

You are right, of course. I,m just going through a very depressing period right now with the holidays and all. Thank-you for the input, it has certainly given me food for thought.