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That dreaded "friend zone"

Not in years bro. But even when it did happen, i'd end up hooking up with her friends. It's not all bad. Sometimes you're just not her type. You'd be surprised though at how many women will come around once they realize that another woman sees you as a legitimate sexual being worthy of attention.
 
Dreaded friend zone?

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Its when a woman you "like" only see's you as a friend and nothing more. There for "Friend Zoned"
 
Let us not go to the Friend Zone, tis a silly place. lol 😀

I feel for you, man...
 
Ah, the friend zone. We have all experienced that in our lifetime, unless of course you are really good-looking and have a friendly personality. Then at least you're given a shot.

From my experience there is only a few reasons why a female would put a guy in the friend zone:

1. She isn't physically attracted to you
2. She doesn't like the way you live (good or bad)
3. She is interested in someone else
4. She believes she is so bad a relationships that she is willing to date guys she doesn't really see a future or friendship but she hopes. (women are trivial)

There really isn't a way to avoid the friend zone once your in it. It may take time for her to realize you are worth dating but that's only if she meets jerks. Dating other girls may not make her jealous if isnt attracted to you physically. Some women are friends with guys because they don't trust them. What I have learned is how you feel about them doesn't effect how they feel about you. In both ways. If she wants to date you or not. As a matter of fact some guys who get to clingy actually become an annoyance. As GQguy said. your best bet is to look for someone else but if you really want her...you may have to tranform yourself into the kind of guys she wants to date. Trying to convince her otherwise will only break the friendship.
 
Ticklerguy4u said:
Ah, the friend zone. We have all experienced that in our lifetime, unless of course you are really good-looking and have a friendly personality. Then at least you're given a shot.

From my experience there is only a few reasons why a female would put a guy in the friend zone:

1. She isn't physically attracted to you
2. She doesn't like the way you live (good or bad)
3. She is interested in someone else
4. She believes she is so bad a relationships that she is willing to date guys she doesn't really see a future or friendship but she hopes. (women are trivial)

There really isn't a way to avoid the friend zone once your in it. It may take time for her to realize you are worth dating but that's only if she meets jerks. Dating other girls may not make her jealous if isnt attracted to you physically. Some women are friends with guys because they don't trust them. What I have learned is how you feel about them doesn't effect how they feel about you. In both ways. If she wants to date you or not. As a matter of fact some guys who get to clingy actually become an annoyance. As GQguy said. your best bet is to look for someone else but if you really want her...you may have to tranform yourself into the kind of guys she wants to date. Trying to convince her otherwise will only break the friendship.
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I have been stuck in the friend zone this past year but I realize that she likes the kind of guys I don't want to be---so I let it go.
 
Interesting article. Knowing absolutely nothing about the world or what makes people behave the way they do, articles like that and threads like this are definitely something to think about very carefully.
 
GQguy said:
Who said anything about nice guys? Or for that matter called women sluts or bitches? Or said women are attracted to assholes? The article while correct in it's premise is WAY off base here.
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i didn't say the article was perfectly on-topic. i merely thought it would be interesting for men to read because it does pertain to the friendzone.
 
Like many men before and after me, I've found myself in the dreaded friendzone before. I just removed myself from the whole relationship nonsense and I spend my time with work and hobbies. I've found life is much more relaxed this way.
 
Revenant said:
Well that's the most retarded thing I've read all week. No offense. The friend zone isn't just for guys, it's gender neutral. And secondly, if someone in the friend zone feels the need to call the person a ****, asshole, bitch, bastard, etc, they are a childish waste of fucking space who should be shot in the genitals.

Just my two cents. 🙂
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The other thing I hate about this article, which sucks in my opinion, is the implication that guys only become friends with girls because we want to get in their pants. That's total bull shit. I met someone and enjoy their company because they are a wonderful person and came to realize it's someone I have feelings for (not just sexual desire.) It's ironic how the writer of that article calls "nice guys" misogynistic while generalizing men into one category.
 
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I hear you, my N.C. brother! I just wish the sexism could end on both sides. I believe in women's rights, but I hate feminists who think all men are tit-crazed dogs. On the other hand, I think any man who says females belong in the kitchen should have their dick and balls cut off; no pain killers.

Anyways, I hope all goes well for you. Try giving it some time, and move on if it doesn't work out. 😀
 
I read the article and I didnt see her bashing all guys. Just the ones that get mad and upset and do insult the woman for not wanting to date them. I think she was just saying if you really like her then be a friend. The only thing you don't get out of the relationship is touching and kissing. If thats what you want then yes...sex is a point of interest. Otherwise, everything else is the same. A girl and guy can go to the movies together without being arm and arm. The movie will still look the same. Dinner will still taste the same. Why bash her for not seeing you in a romantic way.
 
BAH!

Dussicar cares not for human interaction! Dussicar laugh's at you monkeys and your pathetic mating rituals...Now respect my death ray!!!


I'm actually in this situation right now. Not IN the friend zone so much as I have somebody in mine. I'm not interested for both spiritual and philisophical reasons. But try telling something that outlandish to her!
 
My advice? Look elsewhere.

You can either spend your entire life trying to make this girl happy in some passive-aggressive attempt to get her to love you, or you can simply just... move on. That's not to say that you should just leave your new friend out in the cold. Keep her in your life. You can never have too many friends. Just don't focus on trying to get her to like you.

There are plenty of fish in the sea, man.
 
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