The evolution of a tickler/ticklee or from fantasy to reality

[JPie1]

For those of you who play in person how long did it take you to go from just fantasizing about tickling or being tickled to making it a reality? What was it like for you when you finally crossed that line?

A little about my thoughts...

1st I am a 41 year old woman who only begun to turn fantasies into reality over the last year. I found the tickling community over 6 years ago, 1st just lurking and reading everything I could find on the internet. Downloading clips at go to sleep speed. Then came the chats and the forums, slowly I came forward and started to chat with people that shared some of my thoughts and fantasies. Meeting all kinds of interesting people from all over the country and different walks of life, but all with a common passion. Then came TMF, again I mostly lurked at 1st, posting but very rarely. Then I started to chat here become a bit more bold and not as shy about what I liked. But it was only chat, only thoughts, only fantasies. I dreamed of what it would be like to be bound and softly tickled, I dreamed of how I could totally devastate a man with my fingers...but what was I really made of. What would it be like it person? Could I walk the walk, could I tickle as well as I thought I could? Who really knew, I always thought I could. How would I react to really being bound and tickled, by 1, by 2, by many? It was all in my head. It thrilled me but left a hole, a very unexplored region for me.

Then I met some wonderful local people who introduced me to real play. The 1st time I went in with heart pounding and trepidation. I was made to relax with very comfortable people. They let me experience tickling someone 1st. And I enjoyed it, something in me was being released. The more laughter and reactions I got the more I got into it. I found that my desire for tickling was far beyond my dreams. Then it was my 1st time to go down, they were very gentle on me my 1st time, but it was wonderful. I remember the feeling of euphoria the following couple of days, like I was on a natural high. But this was only the start.

Next time I went in I was ready to be a better tickler, to be a more relaxed ticklee. I love the power of tickling, I love watching reactions, the twitches, the laughter, everything associated with tickling.

My last outing was at CAT mentioned in another thread. Wow this gathering took me to new heights. I feel like the tickler in me has really emerged full force, the more I tickle the more I love it. I also had the best outing as a ticklee, skillfully tickled but tickled with care and tenderness so I was able to hold on for a long time and enjoy the tickling bliss, I learned in me that I love to be tickled for the sensation not to be broken.

A tickler/ticklee has definitely arrived!


JPie

 

[milagros317]

Originally posted by JPie1 (most deleted)
For those of you who play in person how long did it take you to go from just fantasizing about tickling or being tickled to making it a reality? What was it like for you when you finally crossed that line?

It took too long for me to make it a reality, but that is a very long story. My first time in a tickle session as an adult, at the hands of Mistress Zara, was far better than I had fantasized about. She more than realized my dreams, and it got better for me as she learned all of my best spots, and how to push me to the edge.

What was my reaction? It was "Why didn't I do this ten years ago?"

I also had the best outing as a ticklee, skillfully tickled but tickled with care and tenderness so I was able to hold on for a long time and enjoy the tickling bliss, I learned in me that I love to be tickled for the sensation not to be broken.

A tickler/ticklee has definitely arrived!

JPie

Glad I could be a part of your best outing. It's only the best so far; it will likely get even better for you. 😀

 

[Havsoker]

For those of you who play in person how long did it take you to go from just fantasizing about tickling or being tickled to making it a reality? What was it like for you when you finally crossed that line?

Well, it wasn't until I was 46 that I discovered internet. That was about 6 years ago. Shortly thereafter I discovered that there was a whole community of like minded individuals. That was a remarkable and welcome discovery! Until then, I thought I was largely alone and had only fantasized about tickling for about 40 years. Hey, I never said I was fast!

Shortly after going online, I met my GF in a Tk chatroom. We got to know each other online, graduated to phone calls, then finally met in person. We decided to try tickling on our second meeting. As we were both self professed Lee's, I wondered if we wouldn't end up staring at each other. LOL!! It turned out that both of us had more Ler in us than we thought and were very happy giving and receiving, though lately she seems more interested in giving than receiving!! But I digress!

I had often wondered what it would be like to tickled, or if I was even ticklish enough to make it worth it. At our first effort, I discovered that the experience was greater than I ever imagined. I also discovered that I should stay away from espionage as a career! LOL!! She is even worse than I am! We've been happily tickling each other ever since. 🙂



Hav

 

[shygirl]

turning the fantasy into the reality REALLY changed my life,I wound up getting a divorce and fell madly in love with another!

 

[tommytikl]

I feel like the tickler in me has really emerged full force, the more I tickle the more I love it.

It emerged full force on ME! 😀
And let me tell you, she can walk the walk! OH and if you DON'T want to masterfully tickled, Don't get tied up between JPie and Venraya(Tracy)...Holy Cow!!!

Actually, I didn't even know being tickled by two women was a fantasy I wanted to have fulfilled, until I thought about it the next day!

I must say that any fantasy I ever imagined has never lived up to the real thing. My first NEST blew away any fantasies I ever had.
There is no substitution for real live tickling and once you get a taste you want more!
As described by JPie above!

 

[Knox The Hatter]

"I dreamed of how I could totally devastate a man with my fingers..."

Talk about turning dreams into reality...LOL!

I don't have much to add to Tommy's, it pretty much says it all...there's no substitute for really good people having great fun. Tell ya the truth, I wouldn't have minded this gathering going on until, like...
Friday!

 

[Phineas]

I have yet to really turn fantasy into reality, at least as far as our "community" is concerned. I've only met one person from the TMF, despite trying to connect with fellow forumers for pretty much my entire membership duration (must be my charming personality what drives 'em away). My wife isn't one of us, so I pretty much have to settle for the type of "social tickling" we all get into at one time or another with folks we know - which, naturally, doesn't happen that often.

 

[JPie1]

I must say that any fantasy I ever imagined has never lived up to the real thing. My first NEST blew away any fantasies I ever had.
There is no substitution for real live tickling and once you get a taste you want more!
As described by JPie above!

It may not be fantasy anymore, but I certainly lay awake in my bed at night (at work, driving, etc) and think about last weekend. I can't get it out of my mind. I am ready for another...now!!! LOL

 

[chrisheaven]

Sounds like you had real fun J-Pie

 

[tommytikl]

JPie, no longer counts sheep, she counts feathers 😀

 

[milagros317]

Originally posted by JPie1 (most deleted)
I am ready for another...now!!! LOL

Another chance to tickle your very lovely feet and nibble on your gorgeous toes would be just wonderful. 😀

 

[tommytikl]

Post gathering blues!

Poor JPie is suffering from Post-gathering blues!
Happens all the time after a NEST or any gathering for that matter.
For one or two days you are surrounded by people that understand your facination with tickling and might get the chance to indulge a bit,but then Monday comes around and it is back to work and it is really hard to resist tickling the lady stretching for a file in a filing cabinet!
This happened to me this Tuesday.
Our intern was stretching out to get a file deep in a cabinet and her armpit was just stretched out and asking for it! 😱
I had to turn around and walk the other way to the rest room.

I could feel my fingers vibrate as I got closer to her...
Poor Jpie...what about me 🙁
😀

 

[JPie1]

Monday comes around and it is back to work and it is really hard to resist tickling the lady stretching for a file in a filing cabinet!

Oh tom my friend would you love working where I do!!! The ladies here come dressed in anything from cutoffs, flip flops, teeny tiny shirts etc. Young crowd, pretty nice looking bunch. But anyway that doesn't get me its all the guys in their tight tee shirts or cute little hawaiian style shits and nice sandals, my buddy who is working late with me tonight has his tootsies up on his desk in these nice teva type sandals, his little toes sticking out are looking ripe for the picking right now!!! Oh god....get me to another tickle worthy body!!!! I am having withdrawals alright!

 

[Knox The Hatter]

There are a couple of ladies at work I'm actively plotting to get. Any opportunity in which an outstretched underarm or foot presents itself, well, I'm there...mwuahahahhahhaha!

 

[Havsoker]

..................... Oh god....get me to another tickle worthy body!!!! I am having withdrawals alright!

JPie, I think a monster really has been created!

I have a mental picture of a scene from an old horror picture. The FankenPie monster is chased into a tower by frightened villagers who are wielding torches and feathers! LOL!!🙂


Hav

 

[terorizer]

Great question

I must have been about 24 when I got my first computer and signed on to AOL. I had been online at friends' computers and had bought a video or two, so I knew there were websites out there dealing with tickling. Even though I never really knew anyone into tickling the way I was growing up, I just assumed there HAD to be droves of us out there, so when I got on the internet, I actually expected to find lots more than I did! LOL

A little background on my "evolution". I'm one of those "from birth" tickle folk, as there isn't a time I can remember that I wasn't fascinated with watching, hearing, doing anything related to tickling. When I reached adolescence though, I had an experience where my sexual awareness and my tickle love crossed paths. I didn't understand it at the time, so for years I really didn't acknowledge or feed the interest, because I couldn't reconcile this new added erotic dimension to something that had always just been fascinating and fun. Good Lord, when I think of all the tickle fights, attacks and ambushes I kept myself out of!! I pretty much never tickled anyone except girls I had a crush on, though for the most part, I didn't think much about tickling, but it was always a part of me.

So back to the internet. The old days of the AOL tickling room was my first foray. Little by little, I grew more familiar with certain people. Discussions I had were exclusively sexual. I connected deeply with several people, but they were all on the east coast, while I'm in California. Chats grew into phone conversations. I think I would have honestly met with people much sooner if I'd have come across anyone in my state, but the more I talked with folks, the more I had a desire to connect with people in person.

I think it was within that year of getting on AOL that I went to my first gathering hosted by DVNC. It was 5 of us, 4 guys and a woman and we sat around talking for about 4 hours, and most of the conversation wasn't tickling related. A few months later I was invited to my first "play" party. I was never nervous, I just had some concerns, because I knew that people into tickling relate to it in many different ways and I wasn't sure how everyone in the room related to it. There was also some trepidation on my part because I wasn't sure how I'd react to tickling a woman in bondage, since there still the whole sexual aspect I hadn't really confronted.

The night progressed and I played quite a bit and I realized some things. For one, there's a weeee difference between a boy going through puberty and a fully grown man. As I began to tickle, I kept expecting that tingle of sexual excitement to arrive...and it never did. I realized that for me, the effect tickling has on me is exclusively linked to the relationship I have with the person I'm sharing the tickling with. If I don't have an intimate/sexual relationship with a woman, then my deep, intimate/sexual feelings don't come into play when I tickle her.

So to answer your question, I guess it took about a year between first meeting folks online and sharing fantasies, to actually meeting and playing with them. It was the final step in the maturation of something deeply rooted in my person. And in a world where maybe 8 out of 10 people when tickled will say and want it to stop...and mean it, I'm still fascinated and enamored by those wonderful creations who the more they are tickled, the happier they are!

 

[JPie1]

JPie, I think a monster really has been created!

I have a mental picture of a scene from an old horror picture. The FankenPie monster is chased into a tower by frightened villagers who are wielding torches and feathers! LOL!!🙂


Hav

LOL too funny!!

 

[Knox The Hatter]

Terorizer articulated many of my feelings with great gusto...although for me, reconciling the sexual with the ferocious obsession with tickling was something I accomplished much earlier.
"As I began to tickle, I kept expecting that tingle of sexual excitement to arrive...and it never did. I realized that for me, the effect tickling has on me is exclusively linked to the relationship I have with the person I'm sharing the tickling with. If I don't have an intimate/sexual relationship with a woman, then my deep, intimate/sexual feelings don't come into play when I tickle her."

This is exactly the way it is for me too...but it wasn't always that way. Back in my early teens I remember times when I'd be in the company of some beautiful girl, and I'd find an in to do what I wanted to do, and when I did, I'd tickle her and she'd laugh like crazy and squirm and try to get away, and when I finally stopped, I'd notice that Mr. Happy would be standing at attention with flags flying. How do you avoid a potentially embarrassing situation? "Oh, my God! My back! My back!" and I'd bend down like I had a spasm, and she'd come over and try to help, and I'd patiently wait for Mr. Happy to go back into his cave. Today, I laugh...back then it was, "please, Lord, don't let her notice..."

 

[tommytikl]

But anyway that doesn't get me its all the guys in their tight tee shirts or cute little hawaiian style shits and nice sandals, my buddy who is working late with me tonight has his tootsies up on his desk in these nice teva type sandals, his little toes sticking out are looking ripe for the picking right now!!! Oh god....get me to another tickle worthy body!!!! I am having withdrawals alright!

It sounds like someone is working on a NEW fantasy! 😉

..."In today's news, some poor man was found tied to a lamp post outside an office building, wearing a shredded hawaiian shirt and sandals 50 feet away and babbling something about red nails" 😀

 

[JPie1]

It sounds like someone is working on a NEW fantasy! 😉

..."In today's news, some poor man was found tied to a lamp post outside an office building, wearing a shredded hawaiian shirt and sandals 50 feet away and babbling something about red nails" 😀

You wouldn't happen to have a hawaiian shirt and sandals now would you??

 

[tommytikl]

*GULP* sure do...😱

 

[BigJim]

It was about 2 years after joining the community as a chat user and 11 or 12 months after registering on the forums. I think some people think it'll happen inside 5 minutes of joining and are put off when it doesn't happen.

 

[chrisheaven]

It was about 2 years after joining the community as a chat user and 11 or 12 months after registering on the forums. I think some people think it'll happen inside 5 minutes of joining and are put off when it doesn't happen.

Yes- exactly- you have to have a little patience -and then it all just seems to start going right1- Well said BJ