The first time you said yes !

[susi-sue]

I remeber vividly the first time I let myself be restrained for tickling. i was 19 and on holiday with a boyfriend. It was the most nervous but exciting moment of my 'tickling' life. I had thought about it for a long time before I agreed.

It turned out all I had expected and more. Have other lees a special memory of their 'first time' ? I would love to hear.

love and kisses

Susi-sue

 

[BigJim]

I remeber vividly the first time I let myself be restrained for tickling. i was 19 and on holiday with a boyfriend. It was the most nervous but exciting moment of my 'tickling' life. I had thought about it for a long time before I agreed.

It turned out all I had expected and more. Have other lees a special memory of their 'first time' ? I would love to hear.

love and kisses

Susi-sue

When I finally manage to find a girlfriend who doesn't think I'm a deviant pervert for asking her to do it, I'll let you know.😀 😀 😀

 

[tickleshotel]

I'm still waiting for first time 🙁

HI all,Just my input here but I haven't Yet experienced being restrained and helplessly tickled but I want to asap!.

 

[BigJim]

Re: I'm still waiting for first time 🙁

HI all,Just my input here but I haven't Yet experienced being restrained and helplessly tickled but I want to asap!.

*gets on the net and buys a plane ticket to California ASAP😀

 

[redway10]

I've asked 3 girlfriends to let me tie them up and tickle them and they all said yes. I certainly did not push them to any limits (wanted them to say yes again), but none of them thought I was a pervert.

However, I only asked girlfriends who I had dated for a while. I didn't ask the others...

 

[BigJim]

I've asked 3 girlfriends to let me tie them up and tickle them and they all said yes. I certainly did not push them to any limits (wanted them to say yes again), but none of them thought I was a pervert.

However, I only asked girlfriends who I had dated for a while. I didn't ask the others...

Hmmmm, interesting. I've asked two of my ex's about this so far. The best reaction was a very strange look and a reply that she would'nt feel comfortable with that. Two days after that she broke up with me.

The worst reaction of the two, was a horrified glare and a declaration that she thought I just one step up from a paedophile. Needless to say, that relationship didn't go much beyond that point either.

 

[tickleshotel]

BigJim Bring it on 🙂

Bigjim!,

3 words for ya!!..Bring it on 😀 😛 😱 BUt hon you don't have to fly out to california,because I'm planning to attend summer tickling gatherings and maybe you will have the chance of attending also 😱 .
Oh and by the way I am making my own tickling video while husband tickles me,then I'll be emailing those that request it 🙂.So may take a few days for me to figure out how to make it,but LOOK OUT 🙂😛

 

[Cheshire Cat]

blah......

I'm 22....bisexual....been with 2 men and 6 women. Here are their responses:

THE GUYS

1.) "You want to what?? Are you serious? Get the hell away from me!"

2.) "Um...okay.....sure" (lasted 3 minutes)

THE GIRLS

1.) "Ew......"

2.) "That actually sounds like fun!" (dont be fooled, she was a psycho)

3.) "Tickling? Wow...thats wierd...I dunno...maybe.." (never did)

4.) "Well at least you arent into golden showers.." (the only one who went the full distance with all this. Also a mental case)

5.) "..........." (she just got up and walked away)

6.) (visualize eyes widening and slowly edging away from me)

The only real success I had was with friends and aquaintances....it'd be nice to share it with someone you really care about though....

 

[BigJim]

Re: BigJim Bring it on 🙂

Bigjim!,

3 words for ya!!..Bring it on 😀 😛 😱 BUt hon you don't have to fly out to california,because I'm planning to attend summer tickling gatherings and maybe you will have the chance of attending also 😱 .
Oh and by the way I am making my own tickling video while husband tickles me,then I'll be emailing those that request it 🙂.So may take a few days for me to figure out how to make it,but LOOK OUT 🙂😛

Wow!!!! LOL The first gathering I'll be attending is Mimi's GLAT gathering in Wisconsin. (I think----watch this space.) Then there is the NEST in October...........aw jeez.....I'm spoilt for choice.

 

[BigJim]

Re: blah......

I'm 22....bisexual....been with 2 men and 6 women. Here are their responses:

THE GUYS

1.) "You want to what?? Are you serious? Get the hell away from me!"

2.) "Um...okay.....sure" (lasted 3 minutes)

THE GIRLS

1.) "Ew......"

2.) "That actually sounds like fun!" (dont be fooled, she was a psycho)

3.) "Tickling? Wow...thats wierd...I dunno...maybe.." (never did)

4.) "Well at least you arent into golden showers.." (the only one who went the full distance with all this. Also a mental case)

5.) "..........." (she just got up and walked away)

6.) (visualize eyes widening and slowly edging away from me)

The only real success I had was with friends and aquaintances....it'd be nice to share it with someone you really care about though....

🙁 I feel for you CC. As I said above, I've not had much luck personally with this either.

 

[MaxSpeer]

Every girlfriend I ever confessed my secret to have responded encouragingly. It's all in the timing. Any mature female who cares for you and wants to make you happy will go along. Again, it's how you say it. You can't just say "I wanna tie you down and tickle you". You have to approach it like it's something cool that you wanna share with her. I have even told someone, "I have this information about myself that I am afraid to tell you because it would give you way too much power over me". I was referring to the fact (because I am a 'Ler) that her teasing me into tickling her would make me helplessly hot for her.

The first girlfriend I ever tied up was 18 and I was 19. It was great. After that, there was no stopping me. It's been alot of years since then and too many tie-up experiences to even remember. That doesn't mean I've tied hundreds of girls. Every relationship I have had has been long term so there are many multiple experiences with the same person.

But what I really wanted to say was that every time I do it, it is like the first time. There is nothing like having a squirming, giggling, laughing woman (especially if it's someone I care for) under my fingers.

So for those who have been refused, try changing your approach, or just find a woman who is sexually open or intellectually mature. That goes the same in reverse for women into meeting guys.

Nice thread.

Max

 

[giggledude]

Cat - glad I'm not alone, was almost thinking my days were numbered here... it never occurred to me to try to introduce tickling into a dating relationship. Most of my experience has been with friends/acquaintances also, though I did go the other route and had the good luck to build a relationship with someone already into tickling. The mild offsetting difficulty was that we both had a nearly exclusive preference for the receiving end, but at least it made us both more versatile. That was my last relationship, and as I'm still in mourning it's unlikely the opportunity will occur again, though it would be interesting to try the other way round...

 

[BigJim]

Every girlfriend I ever confessed my secret to have responded encouragingly. It's all in the timing. Any mature female who cares for you and wants to make you happy will go along. Again, it's how you say it. You can't just say "I wanna tie you down and tickle you". You have to approach it like it's something cool that you wanna share with her. I have even told someone, "I have this information about myself that I am afraid to tell you because it would give you way too much power over me". I was referring to the fact (because I am a 'Ler) that her teasing me into tickling her would make me helplessly hot for her.

The first girlfriend I ever tied up was 18 and I was 19. It was great. After that, there was no stopping me. It's been alot of years since then and too many tie-up experiences to even remember. That doesn't mean I've tied hundreds of girls. Every relationship I have had has been long term so there are many multiple experiences with the same person.

But what I really wanted to say was that every time I do it, it is like the first time. There is nothing like having a squirming, giggling, laughing woman (especially if it's someone I care for) under my fingers.

So for those who have been refused, try changing your approach, or just find a woman who is sexually open or intellectually mature. That goes the same in reverse for women into meeting guys.

Nice thread.

Max

Well, I'm not such an utter smeg head that I'd pop the question too soon, or give the impression that I'm obsessed. I have however, been out with a number of girls who were all younger than me.(And therfore possibly less mature? --- I know it doesn't automatically follow, so don't harangue me, right guys?) It has always been difficult for me to "pull" a girl who is the same age or older. Perhaps this means I don't give the impression of being mature enough for them?

 

[Deleted member 2452]

the first time

this was a thread about being tickled for the first time, so that's how i'll answer it.

i was always the tickle aggressor till first tme, since then i'm about 50/50.
it was at an out door concert. we were part of a group of 6 couples. i was tickling my girl, as usual. another girl said to give her a break, or that i'd get it. i called her bluff, lol. all six of the girls proceeded to tickle me for half an hour. no bondage, but being held by six beautifull girls, while being ticled by them,who needs bondage!? it was amazing, erotic, and fun. i was in a world of laughter, and tickle sensations.
as far as my asking girls to tickle them; i've never asked a girl to let me tie her up, except my wife. but every girl i went out with got tickled, and knew of my love of tickling.
steve

 

[TicklingDuo]

different twist.....

Well, the first time for me was with my now hubby, Drew. We were doing a lot of tickling and I kept sending him flying. So, for saftey, it was a logical way to go. Besides, I'd always wanted to be tied and tickled senseless! 😀

I wanted to make it a surprise. So, I let Drew go to the store down the street to get a couple of things we needed. When he got back, I was cuffed to the futon. The trick was in getting things set up and kept out of site while he was in the shower earlier that morning. When he left for the store, I did a quick change, hopped on the futon and fastened the cuffs. We had a blast!

Ann

 

[BigJim]

Re: different twist.....

Well, the first time for me was with my now hubby, Drew. We were doing a lot of tickling and I kept sending him flying. So, for saftey, it was a logical way to go. Besides, I'd always wanted to be tied and tickled senseless! 😀

I wanted to make it a surprise. So, I let Drew go to the store down the street to get a couple of things we needed. When he got back, I was cuffed to the futon. The trick was in getting things set up and kept out of site while he was in the shower earlier that morning. When he left for the store, I did a quick change, hopped on the futon and fastened the cuffs. We had a blast!

Ann

Good for you! LOL But it's jus as well that none of your inlaws came in at the wrong time.......

 

[tickleshotel]

Bigjim your on 🙂

Quote : Bigjim

Wow!!!! LOL The first gathering I'll be attending is Mimi's GLAT gathering in Wisconsin. (I think----watch this space.) Then there is the NEST in October...........aw jeez.....I'm spoilt for choice.

Bigjim consider it a deal 😀 I will keep my eyes open for the dates of MIMi's Glat Wisconsin gathering and I believe that my husband and I will be able to attend the Nest in October.Husband would love to come to tickling gathering along with me and watch others tickling me ,or participate if he is moved to do so 😀 .I really wish we could be at this weekends Nest but right now with our finances and alot of other stuff going on this really isn;t a good time but by summer around JUly we should be in a better situation so we can have fun and make a Roadtrip for a tickling gathering 😛 .Hope your exercizing those tickling fingers so they will be ready for my First Time being restrained,helpless 😛 😀 😱 .!!!

 

[BigJim]

😀 🙂 😎


If you want the deatils for GLAT in September then ask the Meemster herself. She furnished me with an e-mail about it within twenty seconds of my inquiring about it. Bless her little heart!!!

 

[BigJim]

😀 🙂 😎


If you want the deatils for GLAT in September then ask the Meemster herself. She furnished me with an e-mail about it within twenty seconds of my inquiring about it. Bless her little heart!!!

And further more, she did it with full awareness that I knew of her "weak spot!"

POCKETS Puuuuuuuuurrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.............POCKETS!!!

 

[Deleted member 2452]

hey mimi

could you send me some info about your wis. gathering? that is if you'd have me? thanks. i'm in the chicago, ill. area, so i may not be too far!
steve😀

 

[Thelma Lou]

Gil gave me my first "tied and tickled" session. Ok, Gilmour is the only one who has tickled me ( in a fetish way 🙂 ). Anyway, he tied me down, blindfolded me and proceeded to tickle the bejeezus out of me. I remember that somehow I managed to slip out of one of the cuffs and started to block frantically with that one hand. Gil didnt know whether to "punish" me for slipping out of the cuff or concerned that the bondage was unsafe. Safety won out and he re-did the bondage--and THEN he punished me for slipping out of the cuff. LOL

~Thelma Lou