The NEW ORAL SEX Thread!

[Amnesiac]

The response and interest in the previous, yet flawed other thread on the same subject prompted me to create a new, more friendly, less controversial thread about the same subject.

As you can tell, this thread is about ORAL SEX. Because this subject has so many various perspectives and opinions, I'll establish a few preliminary criteria:


What do you think about giving/recieving oral sex? Do you support the idea itself? What quibbles do you have about it? What areas do you think are the most beneficial/negative? Why do you HATE it/LOVE it? What do you like/dislike the most about it?, etc. etc.


Now, considering that I have no data to provide for myself (and my disastrous handling of the last one), this thread cannot be mine...therefore, I GIVE IT TO YOU THE PEOPLE to use at your leisure for your own enlightenment. I may pop in here and there to ask a question or two, but I renounce all ownership of it...the THREAD IS YOURS, all you TMF PEOPLE!

Enjoy! I know that you all may have a great deal to talk about! See you around.

 

[SlaverTickler]

My Opinion...

I like it because it feels good, I do it because it makes her feel good. Women have a tougher time reaching orgasam so I like to go down on her first to ensure she get off atleast once (if not again during intercores). I am most definetly in suport of it, becasue it is a good way to get a me hard before sex, and is a big part of foreplay if you ask me. If the woman doesn't want to go all the way sexualy, it's a good way to still enjoy each other sexualy. However if I do perform it on her and she doesn't return the favor she is out on her ass!

As a side note, I don't want a girl to swallow either, if she did I wouldn't want to kiss her

How was that ?

 

[BigJim]

Heh heh. Tieler trying to be politically correct, now I've seen everything! 😀

Sorry T old mate, couldn't resist. 😉 Comes hard doesn't it? Take it from someone who's been there. 🙄

My thoughts on oral sex? Well being a late bloomer I only lost my virginity earlier this year and have been with considerably fewer women than most guys who've clocked up 25 years.

Receiving: Personally, I don't particularly like receiving it, on account of not being able to feel anything most of the time and when I doo feel something, it's usually because they've caught me with their teeth.(Which results in a facial expression somewhat evocative of this---------> Not being Jewish, but sharing a certain characteristic with most Jewish men, I find I need a more "robust" sensation than oral sex provides. Half the time I can't feel anything at all.
The ladies I've been with seem to be happy to do it, yet more turned on by the effect it has on the guy, than the act itself. I can however appreciate that some ladies would find it as arousing to perform oral sex on a man's Hampton, as I do to perform something similar on a lady's toes. (Which for me is possibly the most erotic act in the world.)

Giving: Something I'm happy to do, but get no particular thrill from. (Other than the thrill of giving a thrill, which can be quite considerable given the right situation.) The first time I did this the lady was quite stunned to realise my status as a card-carrying member of the V-Club, as I seemed to be quite good at it. All I can say is, there is some merit in watching TV. 😀 (Especially TV that costs £4.99 a night and is only available after midnight.)

P.S. The be truly effective, you need to have undergone an intense training program as sucessful performance requires the brain of a lesbian and the jaw muscles of a hyena.

 

[milagros317]

In thinking about how many attitudes there might be with regard to oral sex, I came up with 16, too many for a poll here (which can have at most 10 alternatives). If the sex of the responder is included (or else you need two polls, one for men and one for women), then there are 32 categories. These correspond to the 32 ways to answer all five items below.

Your sex: M or F
Do you like giving oral sex to women? Y or N
Do you like receiving oral sex from women? Y or N
Do you like giving oral sex to men? Y or N
Do you like receiving oral sex from men? Y or N

Bill Clinton is reputedly a selfish heterosexual male, which is:
M-N-Y-N-N

I am M-Y-Y-N-N.

Feel free to post your own answers. 🙂

 

[Deleted member 2452]

it's the best!

giving is great, the reactions are a thrill to behold.
receiving for me is a very ticklish matter, and i love it.
the only codicil is that both parties should be clean, the more recent the shower the better.
steve

 

[BigJim]

Any news on how much or how little hair the ladies like? Kind of a "ticklish" subject for me, because despite my best efforts to keep things trimmed, I do tend to look like an old matress with the stuffing hanging out.

 

[Haltickling]

I like it so much that sometimes I even prefer oral (and/or manual) sex to intercourse. Giving it is even more exciting than receiving for me, as I rarely can reach a climax by oral manipulations alone (a skilled hand in addition is perfect). The sensations are simply overwhelming, and a 69 is even better.

The only drawback would be a lack of cleanliness, but I've never encountered such. Female pubic hair is somewhat irritating sometimes, but manageable. Male pubic hair (during receiving) is less of a problem, as the sensitive area is not directly surrounded by a bush.

On a side note, I just HAVE to mention the most erotic story on oral sex I have ever read. It's in the same book as "A Man with a Maid", in the edition of Carroll & Graff (Publishers Group West), and it's called "Flossie". They use an old French word for oral sex: gamahucher, and they play exciting role games like the "Queen of the Gama Huchi Islands"... Very recommendable! 😎

 

[tantricmasseuse]

I enjoy it, both giving and receiving. I find it rare to find a guy who totally dislikes it, but maybe I'm just not travelling in the right circles. Like Haltickling, I would say I prefer it to intercourse, but the opposite in that I almost always have an orgasm when I'm on the receiving end. Most of my gf's also enjoy it, but our main complaints are 1) the guy doesn't want to do it, 2) doesn't want to spend hardly anytime doing it as the guy's in a rush to intercourse. As far as hair length, I keep mine trimmed down so I don't think it's an issue, the guy less so, but it would be nice if a guy would take a trimmer and kept his bush nice and neat, JMHO

 

[milagros317]

Welcome to the TMF, Tantric Masseuse, and congratulations on your first post! 😀

Have fun here; it's a wonderful place.