The Spirit of Restraints

[Bohemianne]

What exactly do you like about being restrained and tied? For me, it started when we cousins played this super hero games. I find being the captive more exciting because of the anticipation and sort of struggle that goes with being caught and tied. Those were innocent days, of course. But as I hit the age of reason and status, being tied always give that unexplainable surge. It makes things more intense. How do you describe your feelings on this?

Talking about behind the scenes, you know that when you get tied, totally restrained and with no control of the situation, it's like you throw all (erotic) waivers in the hands of your captor. Then naughty things could happen... or it's a make or break...(?)

Please feel free to answer. Thanks.

 

[Lord Doctor]

It prevents unwanted reflexive blocking of the desired sensation 😀

 

[Bohemianne]

I don't mean tourniquet, stubborn!

 

[LD_Tickler]

Coming at it from the opposite direction. I like a tied girl because I like objectification. Depriving her of the ability to move makes her less like a person and more like an object - philosophically, insofar as she's lost a capability integral to self-determination, and practically cause I can do whatever I want to her if she can't move. I like 'em helpless. Status, control, domination, however you want to phrase it. 😀

Plus, it makes tickling her easier.

 

[rhiannon]

I like that I can let go of myself completely. I don't have to control myself, the control is totally with my ler.

 

[Lord Doctor]

Moi? Stubborn? Accident at birth 😀

 

[wishfoot88]

its got to be the fact that i cant control it. being tickled on the feet is one thing. being tickled on the feet and not being able to scrunch your toes, or pull back is another. i would love to be tied and tickled on my feet, without even being able to move my feet. to be completely at the ticklish mercy of the lee. thats what does it for me heheh😀

 

[milagros317]

To me it's a power exchange. I'm willingly giving up all power to the woman who is putting me in bondage. That can be highly stimulating. 😀

 

[Ghris]

All about control. Either someone totally giving up control to me, or taking it for themselves. Both are good.

 

[TangerineTicklee]

I like that it keeps me from hurting the person tickling me. I'm a natural born klutz, and I twitch like a maniac when tickled.

Bondage is a safety precautionary measure for me.

 

[Quill]

Me personally, I love the sensation of helplessness... I'm a 'switch' so I love being at someone else's mercy.

Although I've sadly not been tied up as much as I've tied up others.

 

[ticklemepls]

aside from the helplessness that appeals to almost every lee... being a submissive I enjoy submitting myself to him and placing my trust in him- goes hand in hand with bondage of any kind 🙂

 

[playgirl]

submission
vulnerability
helplessness
giving up control
being able to struggle without worrying about hurting anyone
power exchange

i love being bound while tickled, but i only let those i trust bind me. i'm not stupid 😛

 

[Lord Doctor]

I can't resist the urge to say something stupid 😀

In the name of The Feather, The Sun Lotion, and the holy Spirit of Restraints 😀
There! I await your anger 😀

 

[Bohemianne]

I can't resist the urge to say something stupid 😀

In the name of The Feather, The Sun Lotion, and the holy Spirit of Restraints 😀
There! I await your anger 😀

^ Amen.

-o0o-

Take it from me, the Vatican won't be pleased.
Please, I need more non-blasphemous undertakers.

 

[Lord Doctor]

^ Amen.

-o0o-

Take it from me, the Vatican won't be pleased.
Please, I need more non-blasphemous undertakers.

Damn, I forgot that one!

 

[Sweed]

I can't resist the urge to say something stupid 😀

In the name of The Feather, The Sun Lotion, and the holy Spirit of Restraints 😀
There! I await your anger 😀

And I can't resist the urge to give you credit for that one!

That's brilliant! 😀


Anyway, about the restraints...I've only been completely tied once. But I guess I would say what the others have said; it's a mixture of being less able to move and protect myself, feeling even more helpless and out of control, etc. 🙂