PAINTEDakiGREEN
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This is a long story, and one I lack the desire to tell. Perhaps this will make me or break me, not to be cliche. It seemed to define me up until high school, and then on through it, until now, freshman year at uni. This is my weight problem. Gosh, it isn't a cuss word, and it's apparent to all who see me. I do have a weight problem. Am I proud of it? No, of course not, though I do like the curves.
People go through the exact issue I'm dealing with, but most don't have any way to change it.
This is my ultimate fear. It's one that I've trapped myself into having, and is changing the way I do things. Over the past year, my mom has lost a lot of inches. She's gone from a tall, curvy size 18 to a slender, healthy size 12, and she did all of it by training for a marathon. Her inspiration was that she didn't want to be the only one of her cousins who didn't race. Of course I wished that I could go on this journey with her; get on the treadmill and run my shoes into the ground, and keep going and going and never stop. But, like any other time I've tried, after a week I was done. My main problem was, and still is, that every time I start this, I end up getting hurt somehow -- either my hip feels really weird, or I get blisters, or something else happens that makes me stop. Sometimes it's simply that I get bored out of my mind when I'm running. There's not enough distraction for me. I've tried books on CDs, reading books, listening to music, watching the tele, singing, and dancing while running (an odd thought, I know, but it was fun while it lasted). Nothing worked to get me to keep running. So I'm trying a different route.
Mum mentioned to me this morning that I could take a year off of uni to work on getting healthy and fit, since it isn't worth going to college if afterward I'm stuck in a body I don't love. There are plenty of things about myself that I love, and am proud of, also, there are things I'd like to work on, and a year to just work on me and who I am sounds great, but only if I actually use it for such.
Instead of homeschooling myself about high school subjects, I'd be researching things like healthy recipes, and learning self control as well as awareness. I might even write a book out of my journal entries and see if, at the end of the year, I have enough writing, and enough thoughts, that are decently said... to publish it. *blush* If only... But I'll try, at least.
I know that not many people actually look at my blog, but I do appreciate when those who do, give input.
I'll start with my first step: making a goal list. I have my own ideas, but I'd like to hear yours. Any suggestions?
People go through the exact issue I'm dealing with, but most don't have any way to change it.
This is my ultimate fear. It's one that I've trapped myself into having, and is changing the way I do things. Over the past year, my mom has lost a lot of inches. She's gone from a tall, curvy size 18 to a slender, healthy size 12, and she did all of it by training for a marathon. Her inspiration was that she didn't want to be the only one of her cousins who didn't race. Of course I wished that I could go on this journey with her; get on the treadmill and run my shoes into the ground, and keep going and going and never stop. But, like any other time I've tried, after a week I was done. My main problem was, and still is, that every time I start this, I end up getting hurt somehow -- either my hip feels really weird, or I get blisters, or something else happens that makes me stop. Sometimes it's simply that I get bored out of my mind when I'm running. There's not enough distraction for me. I've tried books on CDs, reading books, listening to music, watching the tele, singing, and dancing while running (an odd thought, I know, but it was fun while it lasted). Nothing worked to get me to keep running. So I'm trying a different route.
Mum mentioned to me this morning that I could take a year off of uni to work on getting healthy and fit, since it isn't worth going to college if afterward I'm stuck in a body I don't love. There are plenty of things about myself that I love, and am proud of, also, there are things I'd like to work on, and a year to just work on me and who I am sounds great, but only if I actually use it for such.
Instead of homeschooling myself about high school subjects, I'd be researching things like healthy recipes, and learning self control as well as awareness. I might even write a book out of my journal entries and see if, at the end of the year, I have enough writing, and enough thoughts, that are decently said... to publish it. *blush* If only... But I'll try, at least.
I know that not many people actually look at my blog, but I do appreciate when those who do, give input.
I'll start with my first step: making a goal list. I have my own ideas, but I'd like to hear yours. Any suggestions?