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Things you wished you'd been taught at school: preparatory for life.

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What skills, information and advice do you wish you'd received more education on at college/school?

It could be that these things should be taught by parents, and with the Internet they are now much more easily accessed, but there are several things I think I should have received classes on during the 16-18 year old phase that should be compulsory preparatory education, like an overview of what you need to know and consider and various stages of your life. Many are touched on, but not enough emphasis is given. I learned plenty of stuff at school that I never use now. On reflection a lot of these things my parents did try to have an input, but perhaps I just wasn't interested as I felt I was too young for it to matter - then went away to Uni so the chance for them to teach me was gone.

This is all based on my experience of growing up in the UK.

1) basic information on what running a car entails - so many people have no idea what a 'locking wheel nut' is, many never check their oil/water, winter car tips, changing a tyre, route planning etc - some of this now forms part of the UK driving test/lessons, but nothing was mentioned when I was learning.

2) Financial skills - introduction to mortages, renting, savings, current accounts, credit, what insurance you'll need and when, budgeting, how pensions works, what taxes you pay, national insurance, benefits you're entitled to etc

3) cookery - I had some cookery classes at primary school and I guess cookery is one of the easiest things to get started on and is easy to become exposed to because eating is such a compulsory thing we need to stay alive! But A bit more education on this might get people interested enough in how good healthy things actually taste and might have helped prevent the unacceptable levels of obesity we now have

4) career choices and career building. implications of employment versus self-employment.

5) Basic DIY - putting up shelves, installing picture hooks, plumbing up a washing machine, planting things effectively in your garden etc etc.

I find the older I get, the more I realise how hard it is to get various things in life right, and I wished I'd known more earlier on so it all wouldn't be such a struggle now!

for example, Having always bought second hand cars and classic cars, basic maintenance etc would have been very handy. Perhaps what I should have done is just bought a new car on finance, then paid it off quickly but in installments, whilst meanwhile the car is not going to go wrong because it's brand new....no car tax to start with either...money saved.

Also, I might not have done the degree I chose - whilst it undoubtedly taught me an awful lot and helped me to get jobs in the Arts , I now work outside the arts and use my degree for self-employed work - which of course, is virtually rendered pointless by the amount of tax I pay on my earnings - it's lucky that I enjoy it as a hobby otherwise it really would be a waste.

It's a bit rich to pay so much to do a degree and then be punished even more financially when you actually progress and use your degree to be successful within your chosen field.

Rant over, thoughts welcome 🙂

TTG
 
Pay off your debts.

Don't get into debt unless you absolutely have to, and pay them off as fast as you are able to.

If not, you end up paying hundreds to thousands or more to debt collectors, who will spend the money you can't on their cars, vacations, *****s, whatever the fuck they
spend it on. I know people who pay $500 to $600 every month just on the interest of their credit cards - that's a week long Disney vacation every two or three months....
 
With the exception of #1 (just cos I think more people should be encouraged to use public transport), I would go along with every point you make here.

Trouble is, teachers, it seems to me, are under so much pressure these days to get 'results' from their students; everything is geared towards exam papers. I'm sure most teachers go into the profession harbouring hopes of imparting more important knowledge/wisdom than can be conveyed in answers to textbook questions, but they don't really get the chance.

Also, there should be a greater emphasis on young people's spiritual/emotional development, as well as intellectual.

Not to get too political about this, but I think it is about time some big changes were made to our education system.
 
Self reliance. To not blame others for your own problems and address them yourself. That's probably the biggest missing lesson, and the root of of most other 'modern' woes.
 
Psychology - As it applies to people skills. Like how to handle people during periods of grief or emotional distress. In my line of work, we have to deal with those aren't able to grapple with the science, let alone the overwhelming financial and emotional investment of pet ownership.

Business - How to look at pricing structures, HR 101, inventory management. Veterinarians often become small business owners - and we get no formal training. So we learn as we go. With luck.

Otherwise, self-reliance is good as is just personal responsibility. Sadly, most people don't like to be held accountable period.
 
With the exception of #1 (just cos I think more people should be encouraged to use public transport), I would go along with every point you make here.

Trouble is, teachers, it seems to me, are under so much pressure these days to get 'results' from their students; everything is geared towards exam papers. I'm sure most teachers go into the profession harbouring hopes of imparting more important knowledge/wisdom than can be conveyed in answers to textbook questions, but they don't really get the chance.

Also, there should be a greater emphasis on young people's spiritual/emotional development, as well as intellectual.

Not to get too political about this, but I think it is about time some big changes were made to our education system.

We're training kids to take standardized tests. I understand the market for test-takers is rather flat!

I would pile on top of everything else mentioned here - relationship education. It's not enough to school kids merely in the mechanics of sex and sexuality (and IMHO, abstinence education is quite simply a crime). Kids need a model for interpersonal relationships, sexual or not, that doesn't come from TV, movies or popular web sites and magazines.

Self reliance. To not blame others for your own problems and address them yourself. That's probably the biggest missing lesson, and the root of of most other 'modern' woes.

Oughta teach that particular virtue to the school bureaucrats and the pols that they answer to.
 
I've got quite a bit of debt.. I pay so much a month and hopefully it'll be gone in a couple of years.

No credit for me, only a debit card, so I can only spend what I have.

I still fuck up every now and again, cheeky bets, cheeky beers, but not to excess.

The only thing that worries me is saving money, I'm crap at it, I have approx 10 bucks to me name (£8 till Thursday, when I get paid)

Everything is month to month, just getting by. I'll have to as we say over here, work till I drop!
 
I wish they would start "teaching" basic conservative principals, and I don't mean political wise (wouldn't hurt!) but basically, conservatism as a lifestyle - common sense,
hard work, logical thinking, being frugal, being conservative. It really sucks that that word has taken on a negative connotation with our hyper political environment this past recent decade or two.
I'm thinking, life when our grand parents were alive.

Like the debt thing - it's almost unique now if you say "I'm going to pay off my debt." People look at you like you have five heads if you say that, but only a few decades ago,
that was expected - debt was looked down upon. Now, people brag about their credit score - which is merely a number the banks use to determine how much money they can lend you
so you can pay them back with interest, thus making them richer and you not richer. Yet, we as a society praise that all mighty debt score, shit, businesses now look at that before
hiring people, it's crazy.

Questions people ask, that people 20 years ago wouldn't ask, it's kind of sad.

-Do women have to wear pantyhose/nylons to an interview?
YES - if you're asking that question, you probably know the answer. Hey, you'll look more professional, nicer, maybe your interviewer will have a little
pantyhose fetish, you'll get that job! But by all means, go bare legged if you're going to really argue about it.

I lump that question into so many other questions - Do I have to dress up to attend that wedding/funeral/important event/award ceremony, etc.?
YES, ...actually, no, you don't have to do anything, it'd just look nice. By all means, flip flops and tennis shorts. I dress up out of respect for the people - they planned
this wedding for a year, I'm sure wearing nice clothes with my button down shirt tucked in. I'd never dream of wearing shorts and a t-shirt, but I'm sadly
entering in a minority with that outlook...however, every now and then I'll see the women wear nylons and the guys dressed nice, so luckily I'm not totally aloneyet.

Do I have to type my resume?
-Do you want the job? But again, by all means, write out that sucker on loose leaf.

Do I have to show up on time to the interview?
- No, by all means, show up late, like you'll probably show up late to work. Sure, you'll get that job....sure....

Should I turn my phone off during the interview?
- I really can't believe people ask this question, and this seems to be a scary too often occurrence - people on a job interview, phone rings...then they answer it!!
Then, they start talking, for like, 10 minutes! If I'm an interviewer, I'm walking out the room after 1 minute! OF COURSE you're not getting the job!

If we could put some of those old time manners back in society, things would be a lot different and better for everyone.
 
I wish I'd been taught that 12 grades is a freaking waste of time. 11 is better. 12 is stretching it for too long, you get tons of free time between lessons which you mindlessly waste, you get lazy and are forced to repeat the same shit over and over until it culminates in brain damage. It would've been better to just increase the workload in a single academic year (11th grade), pass all the exams and move on to colleges, uni's or wherever you want to go from there.
 
This did not apply to me,but........................ It needs to be taught that being popular and or a jock in high school won't mean shit after you graduate.
 
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