Sadly, very few females post at most message boards, even non-adult groups and forums. Even at my own groups, which were specifically designed to be female-friendly, very few women particpate actively.
I post a lot mainly because I have an obnoxious streak and like to talk 😀 I am also safely married, however, and have learned (through bitter experience) how to deal with the occasional oddball that may cross my path.
Women who have a bad experiences at other, less female-friendly places often quit posting altogether. Hence, poorly run forums are hurting ALL on-line communities, including the good ones like TT.
My nickel's worth ...
Love to all,