this mighta been asked before but im new so gimme a break...

[thats me]

ok, well i like this girl, and when we were talkin i just asked her if she was ticklish anywhere, and it turns out she was major ticklish; she said that shes a 10 (which is the highest). and she was sayin that like at sleepovers her friends hold her down and tickle her and thats like a main event and stuff, so of course, i was askin a lot of questions about it cause i couldnt really control myself (i mean theres a hot girl tellin me shes ticklish and givin me stories and stuff, what would u do??). anyways, im wonderin that if she asks me why im askin so many questions about tickling, how do i tell her that i got a tickling fetish in a way that she wont think im weird or anything? thanks for ur help. see ya guys later.

 

[kurchatovium]

If you want a permanent relationship with this lady then I suggest you wait a little. Lorelei (aka Kristine Imboch) has a website where she gives advice on how to tell your girlfriend that you have a kinky fetish of some sort. The url is listed below. She suggests you wait until you both start to open up to each other. I don't know if this works or not but hopefully it is helpful. Anyway goodluck to you both.

http://www.bedroombondage.com/bondage/lorelei/partners/tellher.html

 

[thats me]

well i dont like her, as in romantically wanting to be her boyfriend, but shes a good friend of mine, and i still dont want her to freak out cause we kinda just met a few months ago and...well u know how it is. again, thanks for the help.

 

[BigJim]

This is what I'd do mate..............

Now you might want to think about this before you use my personal stratagy, because after all I am INSANE!!!🙄
If I was having that conversation and the girl asked me why I was so curious, I'd reply along the lines of..." Well hey, there's nothing cuter than a girl who's giggling uncontrolably, and I just wanted some tips!"
Now, as you aren't interested romantically in the girl in question I'd follow this statement with some body language that makes that clear. Make the tone of voice exageratedly evil and wiggle your fingers. If you used a shy tone of voice it might be mis-interpreted as romantic interest. Also, don't look as though you're trying to make no-one else around notice. If you do that, then you're placing the emphasis on the remarks only being meant for her. On the other hand, if you use a normal conversational volume or even a slightly raised voice, then it'll be more obvious that you're just "friends" in your mind.
Now, before any of you reading this wonder if I'm a psychologist in my spare time, I'm not. I just a very mis-spent youth and too much time to think these strategies up!

 

[BigJim]

An aterthought..........

Also mate, if you say that line in a public place with other people around, then it'll be even more obvious that you don't intend the remark to be TOO personal.😉 Good luck......

 

[TicklishPhoebe]

This is sort of in the vein of BigJim's suggestions... you could make a joke out of it... along the lines of "Oh, yeah? Well watch out or I'll tickle you to get you back for that".

 

[TickledToDeath]

thats me

One simple sentence is all you need to say if she inquires as to why you are asking so many questions.

"That's sounds like fun, I love having tickle fights and playing around like that"!

Done deal. Seed planted. Garden grows.


TTD

 

[TicklingDuo]

I agree with TTD. Something said like that, though maybe in public as Jim said, would be an innocent enough way to out yourself without leading to anything you may not want to get into. Good luck...and welcome to the Forums!

Ann

 

[PBL]

I'm in a similiar yet different situation and so I figured this thread would be a good place to ask. I'm going out with this wonderful girl, but I'm not sure if/when/how I should tell her. What makes it worse(better?) is that we do tickle each other a lot playfully. This relationship is really new (only about a month now) and I am not sure what to do. Do I say something now? Do I wait? I really don't wanna ruin this with a botched delivery. I read the article mentioned in the thread, but it really didn't seem to apply. IOW I am back at square one. Any advice is greatly appreciated in advance.

 

[TickledToDeath]

I'm in a similiar yet different situation and so I figured this thread would be a good place to ask. I'm going out with this wonderful girl, but I'm not sure if/when/how I should tell her. What makes it worse(better?) is that we do tickle each other a lot playfully. This relationship is really new (only about a month now) and I am not sure what to do. Do I say something now? Do I wait? I really don't wanna ruin this with a botched delivery. I read the article mentioned in the thread, but it really didn't seem to apply. IOW I am back at square one. Any advice is greatly appreciated in advance.

You are already DOING it to and with each other.
Actions speak louder than words in YOUR case especially.
Let nature take its' course and progress naturally.

TTD

 

[PBL]

Thanks, that makes so much sense. You're right. Thanks again.

You are already DOING it to and with each other.
Actions speak louder than words in YOUR case especially.
Let nature take its' course and progress naturally.

TTD