Tickle Daygaming

[DebonairDavid]

For anyone unfamiliar with daygaming, its a situation where a man or a woman approaches an attractive person with the intent of getting their number or asking them out. Read more on that here: https://rachelarandilla .medium.com/what-is-day-gaming-67b8e08a026d (I'd recommend downloading a browser extension to bypass the paywall). While I'm happy to say I've daygamed twice, I'm dismayed that both relationships ended in disaster (even though they never became romantic). Thankfully I have been making some significant effort to improve myself since then, which hasn't always been easy. I should make it clear that there's a right way and wrong way to do this, and I hope we all know the wrong way to approach someone in hopes of getting their number and will purposely avoid that. Here's an example of a potentially right way of doing it:

I've started writing a tickle fic I'm planning to post on here, and I've been wanting to go to the library more often so I can have a better place to concentrate on that, applications, other gigs I'm setting up, etc. When looking for a place to sit, I'll look for an attractive woman my age I can sit across from, but I'm not going to make it look like I'm purposely seeking her out. For example, some libraries have these windows where the sun shines right into people's faces (I don't know why the maintenance staff doesn't tint them or why the windows were placed there), so if I encounter that, I'll get up to move if a different table. If I come across one which has that attractive woman sitting at it, I'll quietly and politely ask (in my Transatlantic Accent, which many women have found attractive when hearing it) "Excuse ma'am, I'm sorry to bother you. I was sitting at one of those tables over there, and the sun was right in my face. I was wondering if I could sit here instead?". By approaching her this way, I'm not only putting my goal into motion, but I'm also being honest about the sunlight bothering me, rather than using some fake, desperate, flimsy, and bullshit excuse to approach her (I've heard through dating coaches that people can pick up on someone using the latter). After getting her permission and sitting down, a good way to break the ice is to make a joke about feeling like Dracula being killed by sunlight, which I could then use to conversationally ask her if she's seen the recent Nosferatu remake, and follow up with it by mentioning I've seen the 1922 and 1979 versions. Now that I've started to earn her trust by making a joke and small talk with her, I'll ask for her name, mention mine, and ask what book she's reading and what it's about or what she's working on (such as college assignments, for example), and have either or become a conversation. After a while, she'll ask me what I'm working on while using my laptop, so I'll tell her I'm writing a story, follow it up with how writing, as well as the arts in general, has always been my passion, and how I'm planning to turn that into a career one day by posting stories online and having people send money to my Bitcoin wallet. Then I'll ask her about her passions and career choices. After talking to her while writing my story, I'll offer to have her read my tickle fic. Because tickling in of itself is harmless, I usually write relatively vanilla tickling stories (because that's what I'm into), and I've been told countless times I'm a very good writer, I don't think she'll have a problem with it (but that's just me). If anything, she'll at least find it intriguing, and if I'm lucky enough, hopefully even erotic. If she has any questions, I'll answer honestly, but I'll be careful with how I word things to avoid making it sound awkward and turning her off. I'll also ask her about her experiences with tickling. If she doesn't openly mention she's ticklish, I'll teasingly asking her if she is, and make her flinch by wiggling my fingers and pretending to pounce. I can see her giggling at that because I'm being silly, which she'll find cute because women love an attractive man with a good sense of humor who knows how to flirt playfully and respectfully. I'll also show her this dating app I'm using to find tickle partners where my description makes it clear I'm looking for that, but it's worded in a way that doesn't make it sound like I'm obnoxious pig who's only looking for sexual encounters. All of that should hopefully spark her interest to where she either gives me her number, asks for mine, or if she doesn't want to exchange numbers, downloads the app as well to find me on there, all of which could potentially lead to a tickle session with her. I would ask for her number, but that depends on how she responds to everything previously. (I should've included this originally, but it slipped my mind at the time) Despite her finding me attractive and us hopefully meeting up for a session, there's a lot of reasons why that wouldn't happen, and I just have to accept it without getting pushy or butthurt over it.

Obviously each situation's different, but try something like this to see if it increases your chances of getting a session

Update:
I removed what I said about my experiences with daygaming because it made me realize I'm still struggling with Nice Guy Syndrome and airing my dirty laundry in some ways, both of which are good for me to acknowledge