lol, ah c'mon, we can humor this scenario a bit! :super_hap Say, if a tickle-fight is indeed given a ruleset, to make the moment more of a game. The tried-and-true method of course is the "ten-second-tickle-pin," where the opponents attempt to pin each other down and utilize tickling to weaken each other's escape attempts, but only the combination of pinning and tickling will set off the timer; if the one who is pinned cannot in fact break the pin before the ten seconds are up, the ref will declare victory to the one left on top! Of course, nothing stops said giggling ref to slow the countdown to a snail's pace, prolonging the tickle-fun (and giving the pinned opponent more of an opportunity to escape!).
A ref can also act as a verbal tease or commentator, playing the "clown" role in a fun way, perhaps taunting the one who is being tickled silly by declaring, "Nope, sorry! Can't help you, buddy. I'm a ref, so I can't interfere! 😉" "You got seven seconds to escape, or else your punishment for losing is ten minutes of tie-up time and more tickling!" "Hey, no hitting below the belt! Except maybe tickling, all over those sensitive feet and ticklish hips~" "Don't need to play fair, fellas - it IS a tickle-fight, after all!"