That's kind of you to say, Jim. It's a matter of persistance. The two women that showed to my event aren't available, or I'd have been able to have them contact you. One's already involved, and living a private life, and the other moved to the US.
There were other women there, that were too nervous to show. My suggestion is to continue trying for small munches. As more of you KNOW one another, and can speak for the safety of meeting each other, more will get bold and come out to meet. At that point, it's a matter of time, and iterations of visits, until you have a larger group.
Keep in mind that NEST is a rare example. Most events are 6-12 people. Quite frankly, four 'lers and one 'lee can still have a fine time socializing and playing. Have had a fine time with those numbers, too. Was worth my time. I'm hoping it proves likewise for you.
All it takes, to start, is for one of you to be bold enough to host an event. A Saturday afternoon meet, at a park or pub, and if you're comfortable with one another, another meet in a local home, or rented/hired room. I'll happily help you in whatever way I can. It's a fine feeling, getting us together. I still feel really good about what I've managed to do.
I found my future wife through my efforts. There's many that have lovers found online. Takes risk and effort, but it's a great reward, y'know? Nothin' worthwhile is without such.
G'luck!