Tickle Talk(or lack of it).

[colofootman13]

This is Steve.I have had Yahoo Messenger for a while.Others have contacted me to talk,but when I get on,no one wants to talk.I know I don't get on all the time and you people have talked to others probably for quite a bit,but that doesn't mean I am not interesting to talk to.I want to talk to anyone about tickling(love black womens feet,but all womens feet I love).Love tickling and to be tickled,even willing to be tickled by gay or straight guys.
I have deleted people from my List,but that is because they didn't seem to want to talk.

 

[jj82277]

desperation much

 

[colofootman13]

With simple-minded responses like that,now I know why I don't get on all that often.All I'd like to do is talk to others.And it's funny about the double-standard:it is great to see women with women for anything,but mention guys tickling guys,homophobia sets in.

 

[gilmourwaters]

don't let afew ignorants get u down man..go 4 yours!

 

[GuldenVleugel]

Well to me tickling is very erotic and talk about guys tickling guys don't make me feel comfortable. That is no homophobia. I wouldn't react evasive, but not too interested neither.

That way I also have problems watching family members tickling each other or parents tickling children. There's nothing wrong with that. It isn't even erotic, but it's disturbing to me as I have strong sexual feelings toward tickling. I never show that in public though. It isn't only with men. Last month, my lesbian niece wanted to tease me by tickling, I didn't enjoy that at all. My sexual feelings are too strong, tickling me is like caressing my crotch, talking about it is like discussing sex in general. 😉

But if I were one of those ignorers, I at least would be honest. I'd be like: "sorry, it's great you have a tickling fetish, like I have, but it's not my thing and the discussions don't interest me too much as the very thought of a man making erotic figures takes my libido to a sub zero.

 

[colofootman13]

Ok,I'm not sure if I was explaining myself.I love to be tickled by women(as I stated,I love womens feet;black,white,hispanic,etc)and would love to tickle them and would love to talk to women.But I am willing to let myself be tickled,especially on the feet,by guys,if they want,but am mostly into tickling with women.

 

[laughingboy2000]

Not everyone wants to talk all the time.

 

[indivision]

I don't mean this as an attack on you, but it's possible that they might have been put off by you in some kind of way. I say this only because I have noticed that some people tend to have strange pet peeves when it comes to chatting online and instant messaging. It doesn't necessarily reflect anything bad on your part. It's really just them. I don't spend near as much time on my IMs as I used to just because a lot of people seem to be put off by my way of chatting. I don't know if I word things in an offensive way or what, but somehow I seem to have managed to scare away most of the people on my lists lol.

Also, and I don't mean this in an inflammatory way, but if people don't want to talk, why would they be signed into their instant messenger? That just doesn't make sense to me. Unless maybe they are talking to someone else and would rather talk one on one instead of typing messages into window after window. But then again, when I'm online chatting with someone and want to focus only on that person, I usually change my status to "busy" or something like that.

 

[dukezydeco2]

Well put...

I think people are less inclined to be polite while chatting, so I just kind of go with the flow. Plus you have to remember, not a lot of people want to talk about ONLY one topic (feet, tickling etc...) 100% of the time. Sometimes you have to appeal to someone's interests a little more to get them to open up. Try to start conversation with something other than..."Hey can we talk about tickling my feet.."

I am not saying this is what you are doing by any means, but it is something I have noticed when trying to find people (especially other women) to chat with about feet/tickling. It kind of applies as a general rule when you want toi find others easily.

Cheers!

 

[gilmourwaters]

HEY Colorfootman...i've been tickled by a guy b4 several years ago...on my feet and i'm straight and married.I wasn't weirded out by it at all...although i will say imo girls make better ticklers than guys do in general.Guys tend to go fot the kill to fast...girl are much for sensual and diabolical about it...they mentally and verbally torment better! and there fingers seem to move much better

 

[Camel26]

Personally, I love IMing...but when I come home to random messages from random people that I've never talked to on this site before that are something along the lines of, "Tickle tickle!" or "I'd love to tickle you..." or "I'd love for you to tickle me..." or other various things...I get turned off quickly...especially if they attempt to add me to their buddy lists before even speaking with me so they can attack the second I come online...it gets old, it's obnoxious, and sometimes my roomies use my computer...the last thing I need is for them to see something like that. On the rare occasion that I do speak to people online, half of the time folks are rude, inconsiderate, or continually cross a line even after I've pointed out where my limits are...I don't know what your personal issues have been, but that's what I've seen...hence why my yahoo IM is rarely used...

So why be online all day if I'm not going to talk to the folks at the theater? Because, like everyone else, I've got other people with whom I correspond via IM who have nothing to do with this site...so if I keep my IM active all day, it's probably for them...

I don't know how you've gone about chatting...or if you've caught people at a bad time...or what the deal is...but even though we all have a similar interest, most of us might not want to talk about it, even in a fairly safe setting such as instant messenger. Most of us are secretive about it offline anyway...I dunno...

Keep trying, and keep honing your technique...you'll find someone to chat with...

 

[2ticklish4u1]

Tickle Talk Makes Me Crazy!

OMG! Tickle talk will drive me wild especially when my toes are involved.

 

[guest5]

never really had it done but im sure it would drive me crazy.

 

[Camel26]

Tickle talk in the bedroom is hott...but I don't think that's what the initiator of this thread had in mind...I think he's just talking about chatting with people online who also have an interest in tickling...

 

[Camel26]

It is indeed a spicy subject either way...I'm still surprised no one has ever used tickled talk with you!!!! It's delicious!!!!!

 

[guest5]

im working on my gf. hopefully soon🙂

 

[MistressValerie1]

Even though I don't like cyber-tickling, I think that tickle-talk in person is fabulous 😀

 

[Beaunanza]

I guess you need to consider that people IM in different ways. Some can jump right into the tickle talk, while others like to know who it is they're talking to, you know....get to know them a little better, and for those folks you need to engage in some polite conversation before jumping into the tickle-talk or cyber tickling or whatever. Personally, if someone that I don't know IMs me, I usually like to non-tickle talk with them for a short while. Of course there have been occasions where I've jumped right into it. I suppose it depends on my mood.

As far as cyber tickling goes, I enjoy it. I can get just as aroused talking to a female online about tickling as I can in person. I have a good imagination.

 

[ILove2Tickle1]

I guess you need to consider that people IM in different ways. Some can jump right into the tickle talk, while others like to know who it is they're talking to, you know....get to know them a little better, and for those folks you need to engage in some polite conversation before jumping into the tickle-talk or cyber tickling or whatever. Personally, if someone that I don't know IMs me, I usually like to non-tickle talk with them for a short while. Of course there have been occasions where I've jumped right into it. I suppose it depends on my mood.

As far as cyber tickling goes, I enjoy it. I can get just as aroused talking to a female online about tickling as I can in person. I have a good imagination.

I agree in part. You have to know someone a little better, so know their likes and dislikes as well. As for cyber-tickling? It kind of went out with the cyber-sex thing too. It just isn't the same. Mental images, stories? Ok. But I guess, for me, I just like the hands on approach. n.n