Tickling a "desensitized" person

[zimzimma1]

Hi everyone!!

Since this is at last my first post (I've been around for quite a long time now), I first would like to say hi to everybody and thank all of you for contributions, I always appreciated it.

I guess I tried to suppress my fetish for some time now, but I finally want to try it out.
I met this girl, and she said she used to be ticklish, but she effectively "desensitized" herself and thus isn't ticklish at all anymore. But now she thinks it's boring this way and needs help to become ticklish again (I personally told her that I didn't believe that one could desensitize themselves, but that's another story).

As I said, I never tickled anyone, although I always thought about it a lot. So I am not experienced, and I don't want to look like a fool because I can't get her to laugh. Does anybody here have any good ideas or any advice maybe? I appreciate your replies.

 

[Magician1]

Trust me if you jump her from behind when she is unknowing and dig your fingers into her ribs and just start tickling she will not be able to help herself shell just explode into laughter and beg you to stop.

Anyway i hope that helps? ^_^

 

[naveltkltr1350]

yeah..that happened to me this weekend with krystle..one minute i was laughing..the next..just staring at her. funny how it ended up in my favor once again.

 

[Magician1]

That sucks man there has to be a way of countering that otherwise whats the world hold for peeps like us.

 

[sole seeker1]

Try hypnosis. I think it would probably work if the subject really wants it to.

 

[zimzimma1]

I can't see how this desensitizing would work...weird. And why does it only work one way?? You should be able to reverse it, or am I wrong here?

 

[Wesker281]

sometimes girls can learn to control it, and it sounds like thats what your problem is, so you should try tickling her and taunting her, but make sure you do it slowly then gradually build up the sensation, if however this doesn't work, particularly the guy who wants to tickle his girls feet, try putting all sorts of moisturizing cream on her feet, to soften them a lot, then maybe just maybe you never know 😉.

 

[BBWticklee1973]

First off, it would suck to be desensitized but that's just me speaking as a lee. I am able to control my actions for a period of time until it gets really intense but what does help is using a blindfold, keeps them guessing where the tickling is going to happen and when. Try giving her a massage before tickling her, a nice long massage will get her really relaxed, that should get her guard down, and then just build up with soft tickles in with the massage and gradually work your way up. It's worth a shot. Good luck!!

 

[cosquillero1]

You need to know if she's really ticklish, i know many women not ticklish, pretending be it, if you blindfold her and tickle her really hard, changing your method and the attacked spots, then she must laught being really ticklish, but if she isn't, then you can spend all day using any method and the result will be the same, nothing.

 

[Papabear1]

Ok I may have some hope for you. A few assumptions are going to be taken here. I assume that you and your girlfriend are having sex, and that tickling is a part of it. Now if that is true then your girlfriend may be like my wife. The human body has many types of defense mechanisms. One of those is likely the cause of your grief. Alas there is a way to deal with these. Try a step method. Begin by getting her turned on and tickle, if that works great but I doubt it. Keep trying up to giving her a mind blowing orgasm, this is where my wife gets ticklish, to the point of no control over it at all. Now I know it will be hard work but hey someone has to do it right. Good luck. If it does not work the first time try again there are times of the month where it is worse and better. Let me know if it helps.

 

[MaxDragon]

Here is my experience, but I doubt you will want to try it. I don't anymore either. I'm usually not very ticklish, but once, long ago, I took some acid (LSD). My girlfriend at the time helped me discover that it made me very ticklish, so much so that I was unable to stop her tickling me and had to beg her for mercy. She seemed to enjoy that very much.

 

[Camel26]

We have the opposite problem...I have a wonderful ler with whom I have fabulous sex, which usually involves some form of tickling during/after...but I don't get tickled hard or long enough...I desperately want to know if I can be tickled to orgasm...and I am DEFINITELY more ticklish after one...argh...I guess I have to make some bedroom requests...babe, let me put it to you this way, if you aren't satisfied, tell her!!! Tell her you adore the rest of your relationship, and you know tickling isn't everything, but that it's very important for you to have it in the bedroom...and it's part of who you are sexually...and if that doesn't work, like you said, there are plenty of other women out there who would be more than willing to let you tickle them senseless!!!! Good luck babes...

 

[Camel26]

Here is my experience, but I doubt you will want to try it. I don't anymore either. I'm usually not very ticklish, but once, long ago, I took some acid (LSD). My girlfriend at the time helped me discover that it made me very ticklish, so much so that I was unable to stop her tickling me and had to beg her for mercy. She seemed to enjoy that very much.

Never done acid, but have been tickled a little while tripping on mushrooms...not a bad experience, and definitely something I'd try again...I have to recommend giving someone ELSE pleasure while under said influence...it's WONDERFUL...thanks for sharing your experience!!!

 

[Control Freak1]

I think you're in luck that she wants to open up to being ticklish again.

But I think you should definately stay away from any sort of attacks or rough handling...as some people have suggested.

Ask her why she "desensitized" herself and it might have something to do with someone who tickled sadistically or too hard. If that's the case, you have to start gently with her. She has to trust that she's not just opening herself up to that abuse again.