I could not do anything to another person's significant other that I wouldn't want him to do to mine, regardless of the innocence involved, or lack thereof.
I would have to say that it is important to make sure of her boundaries. For instance, if she is has a tickling fetish, it is probably not a good idea, because your invading her sexual space. Yet, if it is not in any way sexual, in most instances it is alright.
I've never dated a female ticklephile nor known one that
was dating someone else. Of course, if it's sexual it's not
cool if she's serious with someone.
But the term used was "dating" and playful tickling is fine unless
it's sexual. I totally agree.
The key or keys here are the terms, "Playful,fun" and "Dating".
I see No problem at all tickling that person.
As long as you can get away with it and NOT cause any problems.
IF however one is married, the same may apply but stricter boundries may be set unless permission is otherwise given in advance! 😉😀
Curious... so what if it's a married gal, that's not one of us but she made a bet with a ticklephile, and if he wins he gets to tickle her feet. She doesn't know he's a ticklephile. But would get her permission. If it could become sexual to the tickler, then it would still be wrong? Or since she doesn't know about his love of tickling, it's cool? Anyone?
No that would NOT be wrong at all! She made the bet and went along with the rules and consequences of that bet.
So long as there is nothing "sexual" IF you know what I mean, and ONLY tickling then there is nothing wrong in my opinion. Again, after all she went along with the rules and the consequences of there being tickled in full agreement, ergo, she must in some way not mind being tickled. She may not be ONE OF US as a TMF member, ahh but she may be a introverted ticklephile and not know it!!!😉😀
One girl I do remember; (relevant to the thread) was this girl who looked like Alicia Silverstone (But shorter and chubbier) who was in a long distance relationship. She didn't mind the first 7 times, but after the 8th she started to wonder...
i said no, because i would not wanting someone else tickling my girlfriend (wink wink,hint hint, ISUMark)lol, for those of you who dont know i'm just giving him a hard time because both he and my girlfriend attend Illinois State University.
tklr22, I would have to agree with your reasoning - i wouldn't want anyone to tickle my g/friend, even if it meant nothing to him or her.
I remember there was this girl i liked, and i had to witness this guy tickle her feet. It probably meant nothing to either of them but it got me fuming...
But then again, it is easy to say one thing, and do another. I mean, the fact that it is a hell of a lot easier to get away with tickling rather than kissing someone makes it that much more tempting.
Also, I know that some people are into tickling, simply for the fun of it, and nothing sexual.
So, as much as I would like to say no (that's what i voted), I have to admit that if I find myself in a perfect situation, I may not be as noble...
Yes I would. Though tickling and sex are the same for a lot of us, I can tickle someone who I've no intention of making a move on. Tickling can be done playfully with someone as well as arousingly. I'd make a big thing of it and make sure no-one thought I was trying to do it secretly, so it was obvious I didn't have any other intentions.
If they weren't married, engaged or in a long-term relationship I would tie her down and tickle the hell out of her. If they were married, engaged or in a long-term relationship.......... aw who am I kidding, I'd do it anyway. But, tickling and sex do not go hand in hand with me. I tickle alot of women and it is usually sensual/sexual but, I only include intercourse with a woman I am in a serious long-term relationship with.