Tickling and Sex

[mr.Lee]

I've been wondering for a while. ANd would like some feed back from anyone who reads this please.

I was wondering, if you have a tickling fetish - or a fetish of any kind for that matter. A fetish is defined to sexually motivate you more than sex itself, and does indeed, eradicate sex. According to what I read in the broadsheet. Even if this is not true..

Does this mean that if you were to tickle someone outside of a marraige, does it make it an affair? If you tickling is more sexually motivating that sex itself.

 

[Celtic_Emperor]

Very good question for all of us to ponder on.

Personally, by the definition of 'fetish' which you so eloquantly described, I do not have a fetish. But I'd imagine that if I did tickling would still be innocent no matter whom I tickled. Especially if this was with a close friend whom could expect this kind of playful behavior from me.

There is nothing sexual or perverted about tickling in and of itself. Its harmless and makes for good foreplay if you are having a romantic relationship with someone. But if theres a fetish attached, I'd watch yourself. If you find yourself wanting to tickle people because it sexually gratifies you then you really have to question to what end you want to tickle this person. What is enough and what is too much, is what the question becomes. Are you thinking more about tickling parts of their body than you are making love to them in a relationship? Is the fetish and feeding it more important than they are?

If you are in a situation that go could this way, then you probably should avoid it, especially if you don't want to harm this person you are tickling emotionally or cause any strife for them and their relationships with other people or the one they have with you.

 

[BigJim1]

Not an affair, no. But certainly the equivalent at least of heavy petting or snogging.

It helps if you believe in polygamy. 😉