Okay you guys....as a newbie here, I know I'll probably get slammed, but I am so curious about this. I just want to understand....what is the correlation if any between tickling and sexual satisfaction? Is the tickling part of foreplay? Or is somebody whacking off as they are tickling/being tickled? I am wondering about the sex part, and maybe I'm completely out of touch, and hopelessly out of it. I am begging to be enlightened...(and I must say, I do have some pretty nice feet, but the thought of being held captive while having them tickled frightens the pee out of me.)
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FeatherDaemon1
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I doubt the whacking and the all tickling go together so well with all the laughing involved. That could get rather messy.
Honestly, it really depends on the situation. If you are the voyuer and not an active participant then probably you're on the self-service side of the gas stand.
If you are doing the tickling (male or female) then its definitely foreplay. Having a helpless victim dancing under your touch is a major charge. The tickling is the main dish, the climax is the desert.
If your recieving the tickling and to be blunt, you get off on it then I would imagine its rather easy to reach climax from just the tickling. Or it could just be foreplay as well, leading to a more intimate encounter.
There is a minority who don't involve the two. Sex is one thing and tickling completely different. That's not me, but there's been discussion about it on the boards.
Honestly, it really depends on the situation. If you are the voyuer and not an active participant then probably you're on the self-service side of the gas stand.
If you are doing the tickling (male or female) then its definitely foreplay. Having a helpless victim dancing under your touch is a major charge. The tickling is the main dish, the climax is the desert.
If your recieving the tickling and to be blunt, you get off on it then I would imagine its rather easy to reach climax from just the tickling. Or it could just be foreplay as well, leading to a more intimate encounter.
There is a minority who don't involve the two. Sex is one thing and tickling completely different. That's not me, but there's been discussion about it on the boards.
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Not in every situation. I just added the voyeur part for people watching or reading about tickling and not actively participating.
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I doubt he meant it as a put down. Sex (and sexuality) is an indivualistic thing. So for some tickling is what gets there motor running. For others it's a healthy woman walking across the street ... then there is tickling and healthy woman ... or....well I digress.
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For me...tickling is ONLY sexual when the person doing the tickling, or receiving the tickling, is someone I am sexually attracted to...in most cases, this would be my ler...
I can go from 0 to fully aroused with just the slightest touch of her hand...she's that good...it's a fun form of foreplay...and it can heighten things during the act of sex itself. My ler loves when she can make me squirm/laugh when we make love--it turns both of us on. Recently, she commanded me to get myself off while she tickled me, and I was not allowed to try to stop her...
And, of course, there's the playful, non-sex-related tickling that happens fairly consistently at our place...
So, for me and my ler, there is a connection between the two...however, everyone is different and, accordingly, has differing tastes/likes/etc...I think you're going to get a variety of answers here! And NO ONE has the right to slam you for this topic!!! And if they do, well...that's just lame...😀
I can go from 0 to fully aroused with just the slightest touch of her hand...she's that good...it's a fun form of foreplay...and it can heighten things during the act of sex itself. My ler loves when she can make me squirm/laugh when we make love--it turns both of us on. Recently, she commanded me to get myself off while she tickled me, and I was not allowed to try to stop her...
And, of course, there's the playful, non-sex-related tickling that happens fairly consistently at our place...
So, for me and my ler, there is a connection between the two...however, everyone is different and, accordingly, has differing tastes/likes/etc...I think you're going to get a variety of answers here! And NO ONE has the right to slam you for this topic!!! And if they do, well...that's just lame...😀
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Tickling is stimulating for me. Hearing the laughter is the part that gets me going. On the sex part... don't ask. Never had any. Still a virgin. Probably will be for a long time to come.
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Yeah, to me, tickling isn't really sexual at all. Yeah, 'stimulate' is probably the word I would use - as the word 'arouse' does tend to imply sexuality. I don't really get a chance to engage in much tickling myself, although my mother and I will sometime tickle each other playfully.
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Sorry about that. It wasn't a put down. I simply meant that some people don't need to be engaged in the physical act of tickling to get aroused. Some people just enjoy watching it.
Anything sexual is truly going to be relative to individual(s) involved. There is no cut and dry answer.
I am going to guess that you are not into tickling. Maybe you were just surfing around hyperjumping around and found us here. That's totally cool. We enjoy tickling in many and varied ways. For some of us its sexual for others its just fun with no sexuality involved.
tickling/sex correlation
There is no need to feel out of touch. As individuals we all have our own different take on the subject. It is one of those questions were you ask 100 people & you will get 100 different answers. Personally, I view tickling similarly to kissing. There are very innocent, non-sexual kisses, such as greetings or good byes, and there are romantic kisses that lead to or are apart of sexual activity.
Similarly, if I poke someone in the ribs it doesn't mean that I want to have sex with them or that there is any sexual aspect to it at all... It was just a poke in the ribs, just for fun. I can also tickle or be tickled by someone for an extended period of time with no sexual currents involved or even thought about. I've played with both men and women, gay, lesbian, bi, & straight. Many times one or both of us weren't the least bit interested in sex, just playing for fun. On the other hand, I always include tickling in sex and foreplay. For me, I can't have sex if the tickling is not apart of it. I've always tickled my girlfriends when I was doing them orally, and vise versa. I have also tickled girlfriends while they were masturbating or while I was doing it for them. One girlfriend loved tickling my feet while watching me masturbate.
I wasn't trying to be too graphic, but you did say you were wondering about the sex part. Hopefully no one was offended.
Rodney
There is no need to feel out of touch. As individuals we all have our own different take on the subject. It is one of those questions were you ask 100 people & you will get 100 different answers. Personally, I view tickling similarly to kissing. There are very innocent, non-sexual kisses, such as greetings or good byes, and there are romantic kisses that lead to or are apart of sexual activity.
Similarly, if I poke someone in the ribs it doesn't mean that I want to have sex with them or that there is any sexual aspect to it at all... It was just a poke in the ribs, just for fun. I can also tickle or be tickled by someone for an extended period of time with no sexual currents involved or even thought about. I've played with both men and women, gay, lesbian, bi, & straight. Many times one or both of us weren't the least bit interested in sex, just playing for fun. On the other hand, I always include tickling in sex and foreplay. For me, I can't have sex if the tickling is not apart of it. I've always tickled my girlfriends when I was doing them orally, and vise versa. I have also tickled girlfriends while they were masturbating or while I was doing it for them. One girlfriend loved tickling my feet while watching me masturbate.
I wasn't trying to be too graphic, but you did say you were wondering about the sex part. Hopefully no one was offended.
Rodney
Yikes...you guys, I really appreciate the feedback, and that you all are so authentic in describing what it's like for you...it's just such a new world for me - and obvoiously I am intrigued... I get that it's different for everyone, and for me, maybe it is the element of danger - of not being in control, and just letting go, and being able to do that with someone you trust not to take advantage...to hurt you.
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The correlation between tickling and sex depends on the person and the situation.
I have a girlfriend, Meka, who I tie up and tickle all the time, so maybe you could talk to her about being a lee if that is what you are leaning to, which from your last post in this thread, that is what I think you are leaning to. You can pm her if you want.
I have posted a lot of pics of her in the tickling and non-tickling image galleries if you would like to see how a couple can use it in their relationship as well.
I'm a ler because I like controlling her and I like being able to touch her entire body where ever I want. Meka and I could go into specifically how we incorporate tickling into our relationship and when sexual stuff is involved, but we would rather do that by pm.
Basically, we both got experience in using tickling in a relationship and mixing it with sexual stuff, so just pm us if you got questions.
I have a girlfriend, Meka, who I tie up and tickle all the time, so maybe you could talk to her about being a lee if that is what you are leaning to, which from your last post in this thread, that is what I think you are leaning to. You can pm her if you want.
I have posted a lot of pics of her in the tickling and non-tickling image galleries if you would like to see how a couple can use it in their relationship as well.
I'm a ler because I like controlling her and I like being able to touch her entire body where ever I want. Meka and I could go into specifically how we incorporate tickling into our relationship and when sexual stuff is involved, but we would rather do that by pm.
Basically, we both got experience in using tickling in a relationship and mixing it with sexual stuff, so just pm us if you got questions.
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I think Camel hit the nail right on the head, if you want tickling to be a sexual experience, or part of your sexual experience, then you have to meet your right partner. Being bound and tickled when you've never been bound and tickled before is enough to scare the pee out of anyone, even for a "newbie". And for having nice feet, kudos to you girl! But the botttom line is, just find someone who is willing to try and experience something new with you, and JUST HAVE FUN!
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for me...tickling is a part of both foreplay as well as sex.For me and my wife tickling during sex is explosive (for lack of a better term..but it fits..lol) for both of us! Especially foot tickling!
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but...tickling for the pure sake of just tickling kicks ass too!.......and camel does rock!!!
Trust & respect are vital! Don't ever let anyone tie you up unless you trust 'em implicitly or have a 'safe call' in place. If it ain't sensual and it ain't mutual, it ain't S&M! :redface: Have fun, don't be a headline...
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Yeah to me that's one of the most completely thrilling aspects of tickling
being involved in my sex life... It's the trust relationship I have with my wife.
I know she would never do anything to hurt me and vica versa.
To me tickling of a sexual nature implies implicit faith in the good-will
of another person. You're surrenduring of yourself if even for a brief
instant. It's such a wonderful thing *sigh*. :content:
being involved in my sex life... It's the trust relationship I have with my wife.
I know she would never do anything to hurt me and vica versa.
To me tickling of a sexual nature implies implicit faith in the good-will
of another person. You're surrenduring of yourself if even for a brief
instant. It's such a wonderful thing *sigh*. :content:
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Well, i've had a fair few experiences now with ladies who are curious about tickling...all the 'newbies' loved being tickled! Some came back for more...One said it was "better than sex!!!"...Alas, i'm in the UK and too far away to solve your curiosity lol
for me as well, whenever me and my girl tickle, its just for fun. however, i revealed that ticklin turns me on. recently we had a kinky night when we used handcuffs and tickled each other. it was sexy. after, i was aroused, she was aroused bcoz i was and so the sex flowed, very nicely 😉
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