Tickling in dating

[kiatech]

Ok...so....tickling is a big thing for me. I can't date a girl who isn't ticklish. I've even stopped seeing girls because they weren't ticklish at all. I know that sounds shallow, but hey, I don't think I could date someone that didn't turn me on. I usually wait for the oportune time to mention tickling to them or even reach over and poke them just to see.

Does anyone else try to see if your date is ticklish or for the lees, do you try to get someone to tickle you? How do you do it?

Could you date someone that wasn't ticklish or refused to tickle you?

Look forward to hearing from all of you🙂

 

[xBlahblahx]

Ticklishness is very important to me. I tickle as many people as I can, even if I don't date them. I'm one of those people who usually ONLY gets turned on by tickling, so I don't think I could date someone who isn't in the least bit ticklish. That said, I don't really see eye to eye with individuals who marry other people and then decide to divorce them because they realize they're not ticklish or not into being tickled if they are ticklish--that's something I feel should have been established from the outset. There's a reason for courtship . . .
But to return to the main topic, no, i couldn't date someone who isn't ticklish. Like I said, i usually only get turned on by tickling (or at least most effectively turned on by it), so it naturally figures very prominently in my sex life.

 

[Reed_7891]

I just ask them if they're ticklish..... in a playful manner of course

It normally goes very well 🙂

 

[babinsky1]

I tell ya what's just as bad if not worse ;
So hyper ticklish that they absolutely forbid any tickling.
Women who won't even let you give them a foot massage...

 

[Camel26]

Usually, I'd tickle them after a joking argument...and it usually instigated them to get me back...

It's worked every time, with every person I've ever dated...

My wife is ticklish, but doesn't really let me tickle her much...occasionally...usually, she is the Ler...

My Domme, on the other hand, is COMPLETELY NOT ticklish...which SUCKS because I like trying to fight back and having at least a LITTLE leverage...ugh...I guess that's why she's the Domme...😉

 

[artsytickler]

Tickling in a relationship isn't essential to me, but its an added plus.

Guys know I'm ticklish, so they usually start poking me or running their fingers up and down my sides, so I don't really have a hard time finding someone who likes to tickle.

I couldn't date someone who wanted to tickle all the time, but somewhere in the middle is good 🙂

 

[sexygamedesigns1]

Definitely essential.

R

 

[iamnothere]

It's a great flirting tool, fun, and it can be a great thrill, but if you NEED it, then maybe you ought to reconsider what's important to you in a relationship.

Person, not body.

 

[excusemesir1]

my date being ticklish isn't that big of a deal but it kinda disappoints me when they're not ticklish in my favorite spot, which is the feet. my last girlfriend didn't have ticklish feet but she was ticklish on her sides and her armpits. i only tickled her a few times briefly. i remember we had trouble finding the remote control, so i started tickling her sides/belly asking her if she was hiding it. it was a great way to find out if she was ticklish or not. haha.

 

[kiatech]

Thanks everyone for posting. I know it's not that important of a thing, but being as it's a turn on for me, it's a big thing to me.

It is the person, not the body, but I really prefer the body to be ticklish. 😉

 

[chickles_:)]

Thanks everyone for posting. I know it's not that important of a thing, but being as it's a turn on for me, it's a big thing to me.

It is the person, not the body, but I really prefer the body to be ticklish. 😉

Hiya Grandizer :Angel_anim:
It's always good to be able to get some perspective on things that we wonder about - and hey, for most if not all the people on the theatre tickling is something of a turn on, right?🙂 So for you to say that it matters to you is totally cool too.

Speaking personally, most of the suggestions have happened to me at one time or another. I or the guy have asked the 'question' and sometimes it happens by accident, one guy i dated had a very ticklish neck which revealed itself one day I was massaging him. :cool
More often than not though it's the guys who either under some pretense or overtly have tickled me - which works from my end...😉:lol

The casual teasing or excuse for a silly argument works great if you're having trouble finding the right moment to check your date out.

I think for me one of the most hot discovery times was at a dance with a guy I was interested in. We were slow dancing and he very lightly drew his fingers up and down my upper bare back. With my arms reaching up around his shoulders it added to the shivery vulnerable sensation. I reflexively pressed close to him and giggled a little.

That's when he whispered in my ear. 'mission accomplished. Now to keep you right where i want you.'

And then proceeded to keep his fingers trailing ever so lightly over my exposed back.

It was like OMG! by the end of the dance i was in major heavenly overdrive!:lol Too bad the song wasn't 'stairway to heaven' - for more reasons than one 😉

Many blessings,

 

[cutetummy07]

tickling is not that important for it to be a deciding factor in who i should date, its just something that i like, so its extra. and i think its something that will come naturally as time goes on. for me, i just bring up tickling and it would lead to a tickle fight lol.