Afternoon,
This is, as my 'hilarious' title suggests, my second attempt here. I am a firm believer in having one's cards face up on the table, so I will put my cards face up on the table.
Things did not work out well the first time. Not because of anyone I spoke to, they were all lovely and I can only sort of apologies vaguely in the direction of the void that is the internet for ghosting people the way I did. It’s not cool. So I am sorry if we spoke and you’re reading this.
They didn't work out because my partner and I were not in the right place. Or, we weren't in the place we thought we were. In any case, we weren't ready for things to happen and we jumped ship before anything went awry.
Anyway, so as not to bore anyone { with what will already be a long ass post } I’ll skip right to what might be the ‘good bits’.
My partner and I are engaged, that is not important, but I feel it is worth stating that I do still have a partner. Thus I am not looking for another romantic relationship. We are at a place in our minds that we can now meet and play with other people separately. He has his, so we are now comfortable that I look for the same. We are no longer a package deal, as stipulated in my much earlier post. That might be a pro or a con, I dunno.
I am male, twenty eight now. Tall, long haired and prone to wearing a little makeup now and then, but usually pretty casual. I do not care what gender any interested parties are, the only thing that is important is that they know { and are okay } with the fact I am a dude. I’m fairly easy ossy like that.
What I am looking for is a friends with and/or without benefits sort of deal. I’d like it to be a friendship, because that’s way more chill and relaxing than a one night stand, and also more likely to last a bit longer. I will state that I’m not ‘super’ into sex, but if you are that’s not a total deal breaker. I don't dislike it, there are just so many other things I’d rather do to or with a person. Catch my drift?
I’m really just looking for a spread of the spectrum.
I like the idea of just hanging out, you know? Watching a boring movie or playing a board game. And, if its boring, you’re a tease, or I’m losing, then we can see what happens. I won’t spoiler anything.
And I like the above as much as I like the idea of having someone bound { or being bound } at my or someone's mercy. The whole shebang really.
I’m into other things, like feet, wax and ice, that sort of thing. I’m not really into pain. I don’t ‘get it’ when it happens to me and I don’t feel comfortable hurting others.
I live in Inverness. I can maybe accommodate, if you don’t mind ongoing renovations and my partner gets his ass out the house, but travelling is also an option. Trains are pretty okay these days.
I’d obviously like to chat online first, maybe play some video games or something { just so I know what you’re like when you’re mad at something } before moving to a coffee, or a drink or a movie night.. Assuming you like me of course. That is the assumption with all of the above.
Thanks for reading, hit me up if you’re interested.
Mykaela.
P.S I have attached images, so you know what you're maybe getting yourself into... Feet, body, face, and I even attached one without makeup or my hair being done. Like I said, cards on the table.
This is, as my 'hilarious' title suggests, my second attempt here. I am a firm believer in having one's cards face up on the table, so I will put my cards face up on the table.
Things did not work out well the first time. Not because of anyone I spoke to, they were all lovely and I can only sort of apologies vaguely in the direction of the void that is the internet for ghosting people the way I did. It’s not cool. So I am sorry if we spoke and you’re reading this.
They didn't work out because my partner and I were not in the right place. Or, we weren't in the place we thought we were. In any case, we weren't ready for things to happen and we jumped ship before anything went awry.
Anyway, so as not to bore anyone { with what will already be a long ass post } I’ll skip right to what might be the ‘good bits’.
My partner and I are engaged, that is not important, but I feel it is worth stating that I do still have a partner. Thus I am not looking for another romantic relationship. We are at a place in our minds that we can now meet and play with other people separately. He has his, so we are now comfortable that I look for the same. We are no longer a package deal, as stipulated in my much earlier post. That might be a pro or a con, I dunno.
I am male, twenty eight now. Tall, long haired and prone to wearing a little makeup now and then, but usually pretty casual. I do not care what gender any interested parties are, the only thing that is important is that they know { and are okay } with the fact I am a dude. I’m fairly easy ossy like that.
What I am looking for is a friends with and/or without benefits sort of deal. I’d like it to be a friendship, because that’s way more chill and relaxing than a one night stand, and also more likely to last a bit longer. I will state that I’m not ‘super’ into sex, but if you are that’s not a total deal breaker. I don't dislike it, there are just so many other things I’d rather do to or with a person. Catch my drift?
I’m really just looking for a spread of the spectrum.
I like the idea of just hanging out, you know? Watching a boring movie or playing a board game. And, if its boring, you’re a tease, or I’m losing, then we can see what happens. I won’t spoiler anything.
And I like the above as much as I like the idea of having someone bound { or being bound } at my or someone's mercy. The whole shebang really.
I’m into other things, like feet, wax and ice, that sort of thing. I’m not really into pain. I don’t ‘get it’ when it happens to me and I don’t feel comfortable hurting others.
I live in Inverness. I can maybe accommodate, if you don’t mind ongoing renovations and my partner gets his ass out the house, but travelling is also an option. Trains are pretty okay these days.
I’d obviously like to chat online first, maybe play some video games or something { just so I know what you’re like when you’re mad at something } before moving to a coffee, or a drink or a movie night.. Assuming you like me of course. That is the assumption with all of the above.
Thanks for reading, hit me up if you’re interested.
Mykaela.
P.S I have attached images, so you know what you're maybe getting yourself into... Feet, body, face, and I even attached one without makeup or my hair being done. Like I said, cards on the table.
