tickling my girlfriend's feet!

[FaCoQuErO]

Hi...

I'd love to tickle my girlfriend's feet... but I don't know how to say it... any idea about how to do it? I thought about tickling her as punishment... I know she's ticklish becuz she don't let me touch her feet!! and i have done several times... and she starts screaming... then... which tale should i have to tell just to tie her feet ???

She doesn't get horny... but i do... i don't want her to think i'm ticklephile!! I wonder how to let her know I wanna play and tickling with her ... do you know any game to play??

Well... thanks anyway!!!!! keep on tickling 4ever!!! :nerd: :nerd: :nerd: :nerd:

 

[Random_noob86]

Hi...

I'd love to tickle my girlfriend's feet... but I don't know how to say it... any idea about how to do it? I thought about tickling her as punishment... I know she's ticklish becuz she don't let me touch her feet!! and i have done several times... and she starts screaming... then... which tale should i have to tell just to tie her feet ???

She doesn't get horny... but i do... i don't want her to think i'm ticklephile!! I wonder how to let her know I wanna play and tickling with her ... do you know any game to play??

Well... thanks anyway!!!!! keep on tickling 4ever!!! :nerd: :nerd: :nerd: :nerd:

She won't let you touch her feet? I've never tickled my g/f's feet before so I can't tell you what games to play but it must be hard to want to tickle her feet if she doesn't let you touch them. I would say offer her a foot massage or something and then tickle her feet lightly but if she's really not into you touching her feet then I really don't know what to say.

I'm really sorry, my brain doesn't start working until about 1:00 p.m. Atlantic time (Canada). When it's past 1:00, I will edit my post or post again in this thread with a better solution to your problem. ^_^

Edit: Oops, I suck at time zones, had to change it.

 

[theteam1]

Just ask to rub her feet and if she lets you give her a foot massage.

Then after a few times begin to lightly tickle her if she seems to enjoy it carry on, if not stop.

Dont go overboard on trying to tickle her as this will cause problems.

Always remember that not everyone is into tickling, she may not like it.

If thats the case I wouldnt tickle her anymore or much more.

 

[FaCoQuErO]

well... she always ask me for my ticklish spots!!! then... i bet she like tickling!!!

 

[HyPeRaCtIvItY1]

Hi...

I'd love to tickle my girlfriend's feet... but I don't know how to say it... any idea about how to do it? I thought about tickling her as punishment... I know she's ticklish becuz she don't let me touch her feet!! and i have done several times... and she starts screaming... then... which tale should i have to tell just to tie her feet ???

She doesn't get horny... but i do... i don't want her to think i'm ticklephile!! I wonder how to let her know I wanna play and tickling with her ... do you know any game to play??

Well... thanks anyway!!!!! keep on tickling 4ever!!! :nerd: :nerd: :nerd: :nerd:

Lol I just tap into the god given power of my balls and go for it haha dont get mad at me im a little drunk at the moment, every time I like a girl or meet someone usually the first thing I go for when we are doin our thing is the feet usually I just tickle them, and if she likes it then i kiss and suck on her toes, you know, and after a week or so they always ask "howcome you are always touching my feet" or something to that effect and I just tell them that I have a foot/tickling fetish and 90% of the time they are ok with it.

 

[DarthGrinn]

I agree with theteam.

I gradually let my gf know about my foot fetish. Get her curious; talk to her about it, yknow? Then follow up with the compliments 🙂 let her know how beautiful you think her feet are, shower her with compliments, admire her...

Everything else should naturally fall into place. In the end your showing your love and affection for her through tickling right? So long as she feels that, (and doesn't have any phobias of being tickled lol), she should open right up about it...

 

[footkl]

i have to disagree with most of you. coming up front is rele embarrassing. btw, im new here, and i would like some advice on getting to tickle mii gf without telling her im a foot/tickle fetish.

 

[DarthGrinn]

Well our answers are unique to the OP's situation; his gf not letting him touch her feet etc.

For ur case, if you want to tickle ur gf without telling her about ur fetish... then just do it lol. There's nothing wrong with a friendly tickle between lovers; its just as normal as everything else that comes with the relationship: hand-holding, kissing, hugging, snuggling lol

I tickled every one of my gfs, and half of em didn't even know about my fetishes; they didnt complain either, I have yet to meet a girl that doesn't enjoy a good tickling 🙂

As long as she's having as much fun as u are (or more) then there's no harm, right?

When you're ready to tell her (if she hasn't figured it out eventually) you will... it's nothing you should feel pressured to do anyways imo.

 

[footkl]

woa, rele? i didnt know that. i thought it was a paraphenalia. thanx for the tips, rtl 😀

 

[DarthGrinn]

If you mean "personal", ya it is personal m8. But she's ur gf, and I assume you both are very personal with each other. Tickling can be casual tho, but personally I avoid tickling anybody but my gf because its something that arouses me…

Tickling can be casual/playful, sexual or cruel... it's all in how you approach it, how you tickle and what parts of the body you tickle. And it's all very situational.

For example:

If I were being playful; I'd give my gf a quick tickle on the ribs. It would be light, quick and just enough to make her squirm and giggle. Depending on how playful I'm feeling, I might prolong it until she squirms out of my reach; otherwise I'd poke/tickle her very briefly and that's that. It could end up becoming a full blown tickle fight, if we are both feeling particularly goofy, and if she tickles back.


Sexual could be gently tickling an erogenous zone, like the back of the neck, or inner thigh, or inner arm or even the foot or something... happy exploring 🙂

Cruel lol... well if I wanted to "punish" my gf (in all playfulness and love of course), I'd tickle an area continuously until she begged for me to stop; possibly restraining her against her will...

That's the basic idea 🙂 It's all personal, and it's what you and ur gf make it. Just be careful not to hurt her, and pay attention to her body language and signals. And of course: Stop means stop...

 

[drizzay01]

Umm dude. to promote a healthy and honest relationship, you probably SHOULD tell her. =/

 

[ticklish_sage]

Firstly, a girlfriend who doesn't let you touch her feet is about as useful as a hole in a boat. As useful as a chocolate fireguard. As useful as an ashtray on a motorbike... Ok I think you get the point. But it is possible you'll never change her mentality on you touching her feet so you might have to deal with that.

"i don't want her to think im a ticklephile" - at the end of the day.. you are. We've all been taught growing up to be yourself and accept people for what they are, why should this be any different?

 

[coloman]

Being upfront and honest is important if you want to develop a good and lasting relationship with your girlfriend or any person for that matter. Since she asks you where your ticklish spots are maybe telling her tickling makes you horny would be a good place to start. She must have very ticklish feet if she won't let you touch them but as some other people have said offering to give her a foot massage is a good place to start. If she lets you give her a foot massage wait until she is nice and relaxed from it before you work in some tickling. Start slow with light strokes and gradually work up to as firm a stroke as she will tolerate. Treating her to a pedicure and going along with her if she accepts your offer would be a great way to find out if her feet are truly ticklish. Watch her face and her feet when they use the pumice stone with the sluffing solution and notice her reactions. They will be a dead giveaway as to just how ticklish her feet are. If she cares about you she will probably allow you to tickle her feet once you tell her how much you enjoy tickling them. If you let her tickle your feet maybe you could make it into a contest to see who the best foot tickler is and who can take the foot tickling the longest. I hope these ideas are helpful to you in your attempts to tickle your girlfriends feet.

 

[DarthGrinn]

In respons to Sage/John D.

Question: Whats to "Tell"?

I don't get this "coming out of the closet" mentality with ticklers/foot fetishists... It's like we are actually hiding something. In that vein, sneaking a tickle via a foot massage is just as bad because it's as if one is trying to "get away" with something.

I think we, as ticklers, have more to get over than "they" do. (of course if our gf or whatever has a fear of tickling, then we need to be compassionate about that)

On the subject of honest relationships: I find that when it comes to the physical aspect; actions speak louder than words. Most of the communication is physical interaction and body language.

I don't think it is necessary to even say "oh I likey to tickle you". Would you tell your gf "I liek to kiss", or would you lean in and hope/pray she meets you half way? I Just do it, and see her reaction. If she doesn't like it, she'll let me know. And if she does, she'll let me know that as well. I think having to give her a "lecture" about it before hand might actually be a turn off...

Personally, I don't think that there's a need to make a drama about it, and confess like we are some kind of sinners or something. Unless of course the topic of "what turns you on" comes up; then sure 🙂 I'm not saying discussing sexual desires isn't healthy (quite the opposite really), but I just feel that a lot of our fellow ticklers have this mind-state where they feel that they have to "come out", and "risk the relationship" or else they "will never be happy"...

It isnt' a "lie" not to tell her that your a tickle-phile. If you get to tickle her enough (and she enjoys it) eventually she'll figure it out.

Girlfriend: "My bf likes to tickle me, and says that I sound sexy when I laugh... he's such a ticklephile... oh and he likes to play with my toes and tells me how cute my feet are all the time... he must have a foot fetish"

Just my observations, what do ya think?

 

[Journia]

woa, rele? i didnt know that. i thought it was a paraphenalia. thanx for the tips, rtl 😀

I think he meant pedophilia

 

[DarthGrinn]

You would, wouldn't you, Journia 😉

 

[MistressValerie1]

I think that he meant "paraphilia" 😉

 

[DarthGrinn]

Thanks for the correction Valerie. I misunderstood.

*quickly looks word up* lol

Wow...

Definition taken from the free dictionary online:

Any of a group of psychosexual disorders characterized by sexual fantasies, feelings, or activities involving a nonhuman object, a nonconsenting partner such as a child, or pain or humiliation of oneself or one's partner. Also called sexual deviation.

-quoted from: http://www.thefreedictionary.com/dict.asp?Word=paraphilia

Nice word lol.

I think, in our case, the operative words here are "nonconsenting partner".

Whether or not tickling is deviant is debatable, as far as I'm concerned. Personally, I think it's normal. This could be because; tickling something I've been doing since I was a kid: Tickle fights with the siblings, tickle fights with friends etc. So the concept of tickling isn't that foreign to me.

Now that I'm an adult, tickling my gf turns me on. But then again; any kind of physical touch with my gf produces the same reaction. And I happen to think my gf has a sexy laugh, so I must be a perv right? lol.

Then again, maybe I got it twisted. Maybe sexual relations isn't supposed to be fun, and enjoyable. Maybe sex is only about making babies. Maybe "slam! Bam! Thank you ma'am" is the right way to go..?

Honestly...

 

[ticklishwoman1]

I think it would be best to give your girlfriend a good foot massage and get some playful tickles in along the way and see how she reacts. See how that works! Good luck!



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