tickling people with breathing problems?

[He-Man]

Okay, as I stated in another post, I have Cystic Fibrosis...which, in addition to digestive problems, breathing problems invovling the lungs and/or sinuses are invovled, sometimes. (one person's case of CF can be pretty different from others, even with the same symptoms).

Now, suppose someone like me attended a gathering and decided to be the 'lee, with one or more females tickling me. Would you ladies dish out the tickling slower, or give more breaks (even if I can't call out the safeword because of coughing), or would it depend on how well I'm doing compared to the "average" 'lee.

And remember, tickling me wouldn't be cruel ( at least to me), since I've stated lots of times on here that I've WANTED to be restrained and tickled by at least one lady.

Have any of you tickled a person with breathing problems before? I'm just talking about more...annoying breathing probs, rather than dangerous...I cough alot if laughing too much...it's never hurt me...doesn't help when you have a migrane, though, that's for sure. lol

Or has anyone else on here with breathing problems had experiences like that?

I wouldn't mind hearing from both points of view what that's like.

 

[Nightfall]

As with any scene or role play...

The key is common sense and respect. If I know ahead of time there may be issues, we go (at the very least start) at a slower pace. You call the shots as the 'lee. Is face down better for you? That's fine. Afraid you can't get a safeword out of your mouth, let's create a simple hand signal or gesture. That's above and beyond the common sense part (hmm... he's looking a little blue and I hear more coughing and no laughing.)

Not only is my husband deaf, but he has asthsma brought on by severe allergies - namely to the two cats. So I have a hand signal (the sign for 'No') if I need it on my end and I attune myself to his breathing and body language when it's his turn. Almost anything can be overcome if both parties are willing to work at it. Have fun!

 

[TicklingDuo]

If you're at any of the gatherings that folks here do, you should be fine. The organizers are all very safety conscious and monitor things to be sure people are following the rules. Using a vocal safeword can be accompanied by a hand signal that one of those toying with you can be watching for. I would personally tickle you the same as anyone else...everything from fast and furious to agonizingly slow and soft. But, also as with others, I'd also be watching your face and body language to know when to back off a bit.

That's something that I think all ticklers should do...even if the lee is the healthiest person on earth. Though it may not seem so to watch, the lee is always the one who's supposed to be in charge and setting the rules. Unless you're a ruthless sadist and just don't care about the lee, that's the way it should be, IMHO. I don't like it when people don't honor boundaries or safewords. I refuse to play with people like that. They just piss me off. Safety first!

Ann

 

[He-Man]

I would personally tickle you the same as anyone else...everything from fast and furious to agonizingly slow and soft. But, also as with others, I'd also be watching your face and body language to know when to back off a bit.

Man...now I'm starting to wish the lady doctor who tests my lungs would be a TMF member...instead of that horrible breathing into the tube hard as I can ( and long as I can in one breath) test, I'd glady submit myself to a tickle-torture version of the pulminary function test. Hell, maybe I should just request something like that next time? lol just kidding...okay, half-way kidding.
😀

Know what I noticed about some of the lady doctors in there? For some reason, first time they see the scar I have on my stomach ( from an operation I had as a baby), they seem to just HAVE to run their finger along it...and enjoy seeing me trying not to laugh. Not that I have any problems with this. lol Makes the disease I have almost seem worth having. lol

 

[TicklingDuo]

Look at it this way, He-Man. Those breathing tests (and I assume pulmonary therapy) could act to keep your lungs in good enough shape to be able to endure a bit longer and enjoy a bit more when those opportunities do come along. As for them running thier finger along the scar, I'd DEFINITELY seek revenge if I were you! lol

Ann

 

[He-Man]

Look at it this way, He-Man. Those breathing tests (and I assume pulmonary therapy) could act to keep your lungs in good enough shape to be able to endure a bit longer and enjoy a bit more when those opportunities do come along. As for them running thier finger along the scar, I'd DEFINITELY seek revenge if I were you! lol

Ann

Yeah, I know..those tests DO help to see if I'm still in good condition or not. I was just saying they're horrible compared to the breathing test I'd rather go through. lol 😀

As for seeking revenge on those ladies, not until I'm in a sound-proof room with em. Can't let anyone come in and spoil my fun, now can I?