Alright as you can seem by my # of posts I hardly post but this has been something I've been meaning to ask for a while. Am I the only one who doesn't understand nor like the whole breast, vagina, and penis tickling pics and video's that seem to be so prevelent or hot items as of late? Plus can someone maybe explain the whole cartoon tickling fetish as well as I just don't get it. To elaborate more on the genital tickling, to be it's to much closely resembling porn then an actual fetish. Which most of us would agree we have, some sexual in nature other's not as they see it as a more playfull fetish. So that's where the interesting dynamic of the genital tickling comes into play as it's more sexual in nature and bordering more on porn then fetish. Well just one man's opinion I'd like to get other's take on this particular question if possible.
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genital tickling...
I agree with you, Stef2dope. It reminds me of years ago when tickling was only included as an afterthought. To me, genital tickling is strictly a very personal thing, not to be confused with the playful tickling I like so much. Don't get me wrong. Genital tickling between people intimate with each other is OK with me, but I don't particularly want to see it next to the playful type I enjoy. I think if it were identified as what it is, then folks like us that don't care to see it could just ignore it.😉
I agree with you, Stef2dope. It reminds me of years ago when tickling was only included as an afterthought. To me, genital tickling is strictly a very personal thing, not to be confused with the playful tickling I like so much. Don't get me wrong. Genital tickling between people intimate with each other is OK with me, but I don't particularly want to see it next to the playful type I enjoy. I think if it were identified as what it is, then folks like us that don't care to see it could just ignore it.😉
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These things are always so subjective. I have two disclaimers before I offer my humble opinion on this subject. First, let me say that there has not been one square (ticklish) millimeter of wife in this house that has not been so thoroughly tickled so many times that the woman must today be in a never ending sense of tingle. This includes areas that would land her tickler in jail if she didn't like him...alot. That last part has always been behind a locked bedroom door, even when we are home alone. If I start to tickle these areas, she often stops me and demands that I check the bedroom door. Then I can come back and resume where we left off.
Second, MY favorite part of any tickle forum has been personal stories more than any pictures. For me tickling is part of life which means so many ticklings have a context. I enjoy what leads up to them i.e. why people tickle this time, how they feel while the tickling is going on and what happens after the tickling is over. Pictures of ANY sort are OK, but for me, more of an afterthought. If they disappeared, I would still check back on a regular basis.
So...after nearly three decades of wife tickling, I can still say (for me) there is nothing sexier (and for me it IS a sexual thing) than a tickled woman with at least some clothing on AND getting a dose of playful tickling. Sexiest thing in the world for me is if she has on at least panties and a bra or a bikini. I also have a favorite of wife-in-black one piece swim suit. Most of these ticklings do not involve genitalia but do involve the utter delight of watching how she looks particularly at the edges of her clothing or imagining what is going on inside her clothing while I am having my way with her ribs or armpits.
Sometimes it's fun to have her sit on my lap and just attack with my one hand against her two, which is pure play. Tickling is very sexual for me, but I think there is much fun to be had with subtlety or understatement. That can be a real turn on.
These things are always so subjective. I have two disclaimers before I offer my humble opinion on this subject. First, let me say that there has not been one square (ticklish) millimeter of wife in this house that has not been so thoroughly tickled so many times that the woman must today be in a never ending sense of tingle. This includes areas that would land her tickler in jail if she didn't like him...alot. That last part has always been behind a locked bedroom door, even when we are home alone. If I start to tickle these areas, she often stops me and demands that I check the bedroom door. Then I can come back and resume where we left off.
Second, MY favorite part of any tickle forum has been personal stories more than any pictures. For me tickling is part of life which means so many ticklings have a context. I enjoy what leads up to them i.e. why people tickle this time, how they feel while the tickling is going on and what happens after the tickling is over. Pictures of ANY sort are OK, but for me, more of an afterthought. If they disappeared, I would still check back on a regular basis.
So...after nearly three decades of wife tickling, I can still say (for me) there is nothing sexier (and for me it IS a sexual thing) than a tickled woman with at least some clothing on AND getting a dose of playful tickling. Sexiest thing in the world for me is if she has on at least panties and a bra or a bikini. I also have a favorite of wife-in-black one piece swim suit. Most of these ticklings do not involve genitalia but do involve the utter delight of watching how she looks particularly at the edges of her clothing or imagining what is going on inside her clothing while I am having my way with her ribs or armpits.
Sometimes it's fun to have her sit on my lap and just attack with my one hand against her two, which is pure play. Tickling is very sexual for me, but I think there is much fun to be had with subtlety or understatement. That can be a real turn on.
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Ok I'll take a swing at both of these:
1) Sexual tickling:
One of the basic 'spits' in the tickling community is the one that divides the 'playful' ticklers from the 'sexual' ticklers. The first group tend to see tickling as a fun interpersonal activity that builds closeness, intimacy and is a general great way to have fun with a partner. The second group sees tickling as a form of basic arousal, and often make it the center of their sexual experiences. Here one finds the tickling for control folks (like myself) the sexual ticklers and so on.
Basically both groups are in the same 'fetish' (paraphilia if we must) but at different ends of the continuum. They share a like for tickling, but the degree and way that it attaches to the rest of their sexual personality differs.
As it is the sexual ticklers who buy most of the videos (to them tickling is equal to a sexual experience) they drive the market in the direction of pleasing them. So you see more sexual stuff. While I know there are a lot of playful ticklers out there, they simply have not become a market force for whatever reasons. I tend to think it's because they don't have as strong a connection between tickling and sex, and thus when it's time to porn shop, they are looking for other things.
In short, the sexual side is leading the marketplace.
2) Toons
This one is simple. I often find myself enjoying a toon tickling image more then a picture. Why? The toon allows for me to project a lot more into the sceen then a real image. The toon is whatever I choose to make of it. It can reflect a much broader (and total) fantasy image... No matter how hard you try one can't produce, say a superhero tickling photo that doesn't look silly. Why? People in spandex costumes look silly. That sillyness kills the fantasy aspects. In a toon no such problems. There is room to make what one imagines from the image just as one likes.
A similar comparison can be made between stories and videos. The TMF story forums are amoung the most popular areas here. And I wager it's for many of the same reasons. Stories leave more room to imagine things just as the reader wants. The tickling is always perfect. The laugter just as one wishes. Where in a video one needs to take what is there. No room to imagine otherwise.
Myriads
1) Sexual tickling:
One of the basic 'spits' in the tickling community is the one that divides the 'playful' ticklers from the 'sexual' ticklers. The first group tend to see tickling as a fun interpersonal activity that builds closeness, intimacy and is a general great way to have fun with a partner. The second group sees tickling as a form of basic arousal, and often make it the center of their sexual experiences. Here one finds the tickling for control folks (like myself) the sexual ticklers and so on.
Basically both groups are in the same 'fetish' (paraphilia if we must) but at different ends of the continuum. They share a like for tickling, but the degree and way that it attaches to the rest of their sexual personality differs.
As it is the sexual ticklers who buy most of the videos (to them tickling is equal to a sexual experience) they drive the market in the direction of pleasing them. So you see more sexual stuff. While I know there are a lot of playful ticklers out there, they simply have not become a market force for whatever reasons. I tend to think it's because they don't have as strong a connection between tickling and sex, and thus when it's time to porn shop, they are looking for other things.
In short, the sexual side is leading the marketplace.
2) Toons
This one is simple. I often find myself enjoying a toon tickling image more then a picture. Why? The toon allows for me to project a lot more into the sceen then a real image. The toon is whatever I choose to make of it. It can reflect a much broader (and total) fantasy image... No matter how hard you try one can't produce, say a superhero tickling photo that doesn't look silly. Why? People in spandex costumes look silly. That sillyness kills the fantasy aspects. In a toon no such problems. There is room to make what one imagines from the image just as one likes.
A similar comparison can be made between stories and videos. The TMF story forums are amoung the most popular areas here. And I wager it's for many of the same reasons. Stories leave more room to imagine things just as the reader wants. The tickling is always perfect. The laugter just as one wishes. Where in a video one needs to take what is there. No room to imagine otherwise.
Myriads
Interesting point Myr. I'm a bit of both. I enjoy tickling sexually, but I'm also a playful dom, who does it for kicks.I guess it's a fun and interpersonal activity and a sexual thing for me.
Does anyone else see themselves as this sort of crossover here?
Does anyone else see themselves as this sort of crossover here?
Cool name stef.Any relation to Shaggy2Dope?lol
I gotta say that I too am more turned on to a girl geing tickled with attractive cloths on than seeing everything hangin out and jiggling around.But I guess with tickling you have to take the good with the bad.
But then on the flip side one day I will most certainly charish every giggle that that special someone releases as I unvail that electric toothbrush and press the bristles against her nipples😉 but that,s another place in time.
For now i,m quite satisfied with babes like yourself stef wearing your designer tickle outfits and me introducing my dancing fingers with your hip hop tummy,and James Brown wiggling feet.
I gotta say that I too am more turned on to a girl geing tickled with attractive cloths on than seeing everything hangin out and jiggling around.But I guess with tickling you have to take the good with the bad.
But then on the flip side one day I will most certainly charish every giggle that that special someone releases as I unvail that electric toothbrush and press the bristles against her nipples😉 but that,s another place in time.
For now i,m quite satisfied with babes like yourself stef wearing your designer tickle outfits and me introducing my dancing fingers with your hip hop tummy,and James Brown wiggling feet.
