Tickling, Tease and Denial/Controll (Adult)

[detickler]

I just had an idea regarding an erotic tickling-game.

I personaly like the mixture between tickling, controll and lust and so I combinded the following technique:

What you need:
- Of course a ticklee and at lease one tickler
- A place to tie him/her up
- A clock (digital showing also seconds)
- All kind of tools and toys you normaly use for tickling and "so on" 😉

The ticklee is strapped down securely and naked spread eagle.
It's your choise weather to place the clock in a place where the ticklee can see it or not.

The rule is very simple: In the odd minutes the prey is tickled and in the even (s)he is teased to orgasm. Every time you discover that your prey is close to it you go on tickling him/her for the rest of this and the full length of the next minute. After a view minutes (s)he will be close more or less all the time so that it becomes almost pure tickle-torture.

It's up to you to decide how to end this game. You can fix a duratio for the whole session after which the prey is finaly allowed to cum (or not) or you can simply go on until (s)he gets it only by tickling.

Of course you can also include breaks or extend the intervalls (not 1 but 2, 3, 5, 10, ... Minutes)


I would be very glad to hear your opinion about it.

kind regards
DeTickler

 

[sabaki]

perhaps my thoughts would prefer more structure

Congrats on delurking. 🙂

Thoughts about your game. It's a very interesting idea for a session and I like all the elements involved. I think I would enjoy it as a 'lee (with longer intervals -- 5 min or so), but not so much as a 'ler.

I'm trying to think of why. Putting myself in the place of the 'ler, I felt like it would be distracting to have to be paying attention to the clock the whole time. Orgasm denial and tickling are very delicate and require a lot of attention. But then I realized that I could rig it up so that the clock automatically signals at regular intervals, so there's no problem there.

But even so, I'm not sure if I'd like it. On the one hand, I feel like as a 'ler, I'd just be executing a program mechanically. It would remove creative control. But then on the other hand, that idea is very appealing, for the same reason machines are: by sticking to the program, there is no room for compassion or mercy. The torture just continues inexorably, and the prey (as you are right to call them 😉 ) comes to know that they are not merely at the hands of an individual, but a cruel system with which they must cope... psychologically that is interesting space to explore, and it's also part of the appeal of games in general, for me.

This particular system has a great element, as you noted -- that as time goes on, the ratio of tickling increases, so the torment gets worse. That's always a plus, in my opinion.

Thinking, thinking. What makes a game a game? Why do we like to play games? Playing a game first and foremost involves restricting your actions to a set of rules. So why do people prefer certain kinds of restriction to complete freedom? Why do people prefer structure? And then, why is being tied up so emotionally liberating? Maybe the reason is similar. And maybe I should just go play Nomic and stop asking questions.

One more thought. If you can figure out what the game means to you, then you can design other elements of the scene to enhance that meaning. E.g. if part of the excitement is for the 'lee to be a slave to the will of time itself, then perhaps having a clock that ticks noticeably would be a good idea. Better yet, surround them with like 70 ticking clocks. That would be kind of freaky. Hmmm... 😀

 

[Coffee]

I have a friend who i think would love to play that game.

 

[marcusb]

What a great idea. 😀

Hmmm.

 

[ticklesenseless]

I have never experienced something so methodical but would definitely be game to play the prey. Although the idea of several clocks would just be spooky.

 

[kingp]

To hell with the clock.....

Go by feel...start off tickling, and then switch to teasing and back and forth. I think the clock would just be a distraction, go by her reactions and keep her on the edge....take your time and see how long you can get her to go...once she has an orgasm, see how many you can give her....it doesn't get any more erotic than that in my book. There is no better gift than to have her allow you to tease her.

 

[simulated]

I hear its difficult to come when you're distracted by all the tickling

😉

 

[tower98]

Go by feel...start off tickling, and then switch to teasing and back and forth. I think the clock would just be a distraction, go by her reactions and keep her on the edge....take your time and see how long you can get her to go...once she has an orgasm, see how many you can give her....it doesn't get any more erotic than that in my book. There is no better gift than to have her allow you to tease her.

very well said...every time you play the game you can try to give her one more orgasm

 

[lk70]

I hear its difficult to come when you're distracted by all the tickling

😉

that would be part of the teasing and denial element, you see.

 

[Redmage]

I've played with variants on this, and I always enjoy them. With my favorite 'lee, tickling her out of her mind IS teasing her. It's definitely a best of both worlds arrangement. Though I did once play with a vibrator by running it up and down her clit ten times, then doing back to tickling. I counted the strokes, and told her that she could have an orgasm if she could do it before I counted to 10. Alternating between that and tickling made for a very entertaining evening.

 

[LindyHopper]

I hear its difficult to come when you're distracted by all the tickling

True, but...

I did once play with a vibrator by running it up and down her clit ten times, then doing back to tickling. I counted the strokes, and told her that she could have an orgasm if she could do it before I counted to 10. Alternating between that and tickling made for a very entertaining evening.

Sometimes it just takes the proper motivation.

 

[simulated]

True, but...


Sometimes it just takes the proper motivation.

Ah I see. Shame on me, posting hearsay

 

[Redmage]

Ah I see. Shame on me, posting hearsay

Well, you were mostly right. On the other hand, if the orgasm comes and someone starts tickling at the same time, the results can be downright seismic.

 

[LindyHopper]

Well, you were mostly right. On the other hand, if the orgasm comes and someone starts tickling at the same time, the results can be downright seismic.

Oh goodness yes! And that, my friend, is NOT hearsay! 😀

 

[elfriend]

That sounds like fun. now for the rest of the night I'm going to be coming up with tickling games! I'll never get to sleep tonight.

 

[sabaki]

now for the rest of the night I'm going to be coming up with tickling games! I'll never get to sleep tonight.

Oh... well... do share the fruit of your thoughts at least. 🙂 This is one vast surface that has been barely scratched on the TMF... at least, that I've seen.

 

[The Sean Man]

Ahhhhh....tickling, tease and denial....reminds me of Tanya from several years ago....