Ticklish teen Girls 18+

[j-e-l-l-o]

hey 🙂



how is everyone? anyways on to my Question! i wouldn't say im mew to tickling because im not in a way. But i still even now at age 19 still a teenager in my book. I find it hard to find Girls my age that are into tickling as well much just like me. Yeah ive meet Girls through chat rooms(mainly msn chat🙂) that are sorta into tickling but dont really find it as fun like i do. why is that? why is it so hard for just a normal guy like me to find just a simple nice girl that likes tickling as much as me. Heck im sure there out there!!!! also my prob could be too that im still a shy type i dont really talk to many Girls at my school like most of the Guys do i only have one like real friend thats a Girl rest are all my Guy friends*so sad hehe* well i dunno if you guys can shed some light on my problem or not? but any advice would be helpful

Buh Bye

 

[Eternal Tomboy]

Oh to be 19 again....(sigh)

My guess is that you are very much correct...."they are out there." Every girl on this forum was once a 19 year old who was wishing for their special tickle partner to surface. Here's part of the dilemma for your age group....most of the people still in their teens are still very much in the closet about any kinks that they might have (In our case, tickling.) Many are still under the belief that they are alone and that no one(in the mainstream) would understand. I know because I was one of them. I didn't come out about my love for tickling until I was 26! In hindsight (which is always 20/20) that was a BIG mistake. There were a lot of missed opportunities on my part because I was too shy (like you) to tell the guys that I was involved with that I love being tickled.
My advice to you is to first break out onto the social scene (with girls) a bit more and try to force yourself out of your shyness....not an easy task, I know. It is only through this kind of one-on-one contact (if not with a girl that you are dating, then with one you are friends with) that your love for tickling can be satisfied.

When I was your age (damn that saying makes me sound OLD...lol), I was usually the only girl in my bunch of friends - for two reasons - 1. because I was always a bit of a tomboy and related to guys better, and 2. because I KNEW where the tickle action was! 😀 You've got to go where the tickle action is.

My second piece of advice to you is, don't make tickling the "be all end all" to your dating/friendship experience. Most of the fondest tickling memories that I have from my high school/college years were from casual, playful friendships that I had. It was never anything serious for me back then. If you take a playful tactic with tickling (as opposed to the sensual), the girls that you do get the opportunity to tickle will be much less likely to feel intimidated by your "kink" (if you even feel the need to share it with them.)

Thirdly (and lastly) I would say that your road to happiness doesn't lie within the walls of the chatrooms or surfing the web for tickling sites. The chances of actually meeting someone who is your age, as into tickling as you are, and willing to meet up with you at some point, are slim to none (I don't mean to be grim....lol). I'm kind of happy that the internet explosion didn't happen until I was nearing the end of my college career because I probably would have spent my teen years in front of the computer (amazed that there were others out there like me!) While chatting and surfing are fun, they should not be your only means by which to connect with people (girls, specifically). Because if it is, that will no doubt only leave you feeling frustrated. Cyber tickles will NEVER replace real ones!

You need to get out there, my friend. Find a club, join up with a sports team (one that is preferrably co-ed...otherwise you're back where you started....lol), or whatever it takes to meet girls. They don't necessarily need to share your love for tickling (there are not many that do in the mainstream)...but if they are upbeat, playful type girls, the tickling will just come naturally most of the time.


Good luck jello.....


Maggie

 

[Knox The Hatter]

seek and ye shall find, Jel...be dilligent! Took me thirty six years to find my other half, but the fact is that I did find her. Don't give up.

 

[Limeoutsider]

I'm 19 and a girl

 

[Neutron]

Just Ask...

Best advice I can give you.


Tron

 

[Admiral Trouser]

Well I have to say that I'm in the same boat as you jello, being of the same age and disposition. I don't know how Americans see tickling in general, but over here in the UK it's considered to be pretty, well, freaky to be honest. Tickling just isn't mainstream, therefore its somehow wrong. *sigh*, you just gotta love that human instinct to fear or ridicule what it doesn't fully understand lol....

So yeah, you're not alone out there m8. I've yet to have "an experience" of tickling, but perhaps that because I don't push for one to be honest. It's not something I think my freinds would fully understand and be able to deal with really...

Livin' in hope,

AT

 

[ShiningIce]

Its hard finding lees our age. 🙁

 

[Limeoutsider]

Its hard finding lees our age. 🙁

Its hard finding lers my age

 

[Admiral Trouser]

*Jumps up and down waving arms frantically*

AT