Tips for tickling a pro domme

[pitayatickler]

If you had the opportunity to make a dominatrix curious about tickling fetish and get her to agree to be tied up for a tickling session (considering that she's a pro domme who has never explored tickling), how would you start the session? What techniques would you use to find her most sensitive spots and make her lose her sanity?

 

[WickedTouch]

As I think about this question, I'm really not sure that it would differ much or at all from how I'd approach it if they were a doctor, accountant, barista, or anything else. Everyone is just human, with varying degrees of sensitivity and sense of vulnerability, so I'd just do my typical exploration, which often involves reading the persons level of nervousness as I play with different forms of anticipation and teasing. Following that, I kind of do a surface "scan" of the body with my fingertips slowly gliding all over, paying attention to any twitches and other reactions. Once I have a pretty good idea of where they're likely to be most ticklish, I start playing with those spots one by one, increasing the intensity over time and finding their unique pressure balance. If during the exploration, I find a really good hot spot, I'll save it for a little later to add an extra jolt after they start to desensitize in the other spots.

 

[pitayatickler]

As I think about this question, I'm really not sure that it would differ much or at all from how I'd approach it if they were a doctor, accountant, barista, or anything else. Everyone is just human, with varying degrees of sensitivity and sense of vulnerability, so I'd just do my typical exploration, which often involves reading the persons level of nervousness as I play with different forms of anticipation and teasing. Following that, I kind of do a surface "scan" of the body with my fingertips slowly gliding all over, paying attention to any twitches and other reactions. Once I have a pretty good idea of where they're likely to be most ticklish, I start playing with those spots one by one, increasing the intensity over time and finding their unique pressure balance. If during the exploration, I find a really good hot spot, I'll save it for a little later to add an extra jolt after they start to desensitize in the other spots.

Thank you for sharing your point of view. For a moment I forgot that we are all human and I had the idea that a dominatrix was going to be rougher or harder to tickle, but you made me realize that it depends on other factors.
Thank you for your specific advice on how to conduct the first session to get the most out of her sensitivity.

 

[WickedTouch]

Thank you for sharing your point of view. For a moment I forgot that we are all human and I had the idea that a dominatrix was going to be rougher or harder to tickle, but you made me realize that it depends on other factors.
Thank you for your specific advice on how to conduct the first session to get the most out of her sensitivity.

You're welcome! Actually, I'll add that (and this is very hear-say without strong data), many dominant types I've read about or chatted with over the years have reported being less able to tolerate it, rather than more able. It strikes me as a much better at giving than receiving kind of thing. Though, I wouldn't get hung up on that or have strong expectations there. Even if that stereotype is somewhat accurate, variations are bound (heh) to be encountered. So, yes, lean in to the uniqueness of that person and just enjoy their authentic reactions.

If it's a paid session, or you expect some non-trivial expense involved, I'd first get some good feedback from them about how ticklish they are. While I don't usually encourage transactional sessions as the best session approach, if you do, you'll want to have some kind of idea of what you're getting for the payment, unless money is of no worry to you.

In either case, another consideration is going over with them (because they are unfamiliar with this world) what both you and they expect. It could be that they don't know how ticklish they are and if you go in full blast, you could run the risk of losing out on potential future experiences with them. If you plan on doing recurring sessions with them , Make it fun and go slow and easy, getting feedback from them as you go. You can discuss increased intensity for future sessions afterward and see how they feel.

Good luck! 🙂

 

[pitayatickler]

You're welcome! Actually, I'll add that (and this is very hear-say without strong data), many dominant types I've read about or chatted with over the years have reported being less able to tolerate it, rather than more able. It strikes me as a much better at giving than receiving kind of thing. Though, I wouldn't get hung up on that or have strong expectations there. Even if that stereotype is somewhat accurate, variations are bound (heh) to be encountered. So, yes, lean in to the uniqueness of that person and just enjoy their authentic reactions.

If it's a paid session, or you expect some non-trivial expense involved, I'd first get some good feedback from them about how ticklish they are. While I don't usually encourage transactional sessions as the best session approach, if you do, you'll want to have some kind of idea of what you're getting for the payment, unless money is of no worry to you.

In either case, another consideration is going over with them (because they are unfamiliar with this world) what both you and they expect. It could be that they don't know how ticklish they are and if you go in full blast, you could run the risk of losing out on potential future experiences with them. If you plan on doing recurring sessions with them , Make it fun and go slow and easy, getting feedback from them as you go. You can discuss increased intensity for future sessions afterward and see how they feel.

Good luck! 🙂

Thank you so much for taking the time, that's a solid piece of advice.
We're still sorting out some details but it's gonna be a paid session in order to sell the content at my store. As somebody told me in another post, if she's not ticklish enough, maybe I can try another kind of content like foot fetish so it's not a waste of money content-wise. Still, I somehow believe in your theory and hope she'll be more ticklish than expected. If that's the case, I was planning on going full blast but I just realized it makes more sense to save that stuff for another session as we build trust.