I rarely look at this forum, but for some reason was compelled to provide some response to this post. As in any aspect of life, desperation is generally not an attractive trait, nor is the sense of desperation impicit in posts like this likely to elicit a stream of responses. Believe it or not, attempts at normal interaction (whether by PM, posting, chatting, etc) over time are more likely to result in meeting someone. By "normal interaction", I mean something other than starting with "where are you ticklish", "asl?" or "so when can i come tickle you." Getting to actually know someone first will not only ease any sense of apparent desperation, but ultimately get everyone more comfortable and convinced that you're not homicidal, unstable or otherwise trouble. Trust is a good thing, should be mutual and needs to be earned in most cases...if someone trusts you too soon or pushes a meeting without getting to know you as a person, that may even be a sign that it's bad news. In other words, while I thought it was common sense, treating someone with respect and like a human being, rather than just a lump of ticklish flesh for you to play with, can go a long way.