TMF Women: if a total stranger came up to you out of the blue..

[NonConTickler]

and said "hey, you have really hot feet, are they ticklish?" being a woman into tickling, how would you react? And if you did say yes, what if he asked if he could tickle them, I mean like today? Remember this is a total stranger, and you don't know him from anyone. I often wish I could go up to a woman and ask her that but I know that realistically I can't unfortunately because of how the woman might react and there would be consequences for me. But I am not a social person however I would like to tickle hot looking women's feet purely to satisfy my own urges.

 

[Excess]

..........

This is a joke topic right?

 

[simulated]

and said "hey, you have really hot feet, are they ticklish?" being a woman into tickling, how would you react? And if you did say yes, what if he asked if he could tickle them, I mean like today? Remember this is a total stranger, and you don't know him from anyone. I often wish I could go up to a woman and ask her that but I know that realistically I can't unfortunately because of how the woman might react and there would be consequences for me. But I am not a social person however I would like to tickle hot looking women's feet purely to satisfy my own urges.

Whenever I've tried that they've blushed and said "my god they are! I really like being tickled on them, but I just can't stand it! Maybe if you tied them up for me..."

We'd then retreat to her place for a three day tickle orgy. Works like a charm, you should try it someday.

 

[Silent Bob]

So let me get this straight... You want to know if it's ok to walk up to someone you've never met before and doesn't know you from anyone or anything and basically say not "Hi, how are you," but "I'd like you to remove your shoes so I can touch you to satisfy my personal urges" on the extremely off chance that she has an overwhelming predaliction for having her feet touched by complete strangers.

Dude, if this isn't a joke, I suggest you visit a professional and pay for the service. There are several places mentioned in the forums here that are willing to accomodate you discretely and keep you from appearing on Dateline.

Otherwise, to answer your question, I'm pretty sure just about every woman alive would find that creepy even if Brad Pitt was asking them.

 

[Leo tickles]

Disturbed and psychotic individuals have common sense.

This person... *sigh*

See ya when you get out of the loony bin.

 

[ViperGTS]

Okay...

"You have really hot feet."

This is a compliment. However, there are two problems.

It's not like saying "You have beautiful eyes." Eyes are a common thing to receive compliments about and therefore it is more acceptable. feet, on the other hand, are very rarely commented. Therefore, a woman is much less likely to be receptive to such a statement.

Secondly, using the word "hot" will get you NOWHERE. "Attractive" would be a better choice, but "sexy" would be best. Even then, you can't just randomly say shit like that! It has to be in context, like at a bar, with someone you're talking to for a while, or someone you've struck up conversation with at least.

In today's society, random, un-fished for compliments are generally frowned upon, thanks to most complimenting men being creeps. So, as in many cases, the creepo many have ruined it for the chivalrous, kind-hearted few.

Furthermore...

"Are they ticklish?"

Okay...I'll reserve my wise ass crack about this one.

However, asking this of a random woman is ten times are strange as an unsolicited compliment, no matter what the context. The chances of it succeeding are ridiculously slim. It's worked for me everytime but only because I have tried it twice and with EXTREME discression. Only someone who honestly knows what they are doing with a woman in conversation can use this and if you need to ask if it works, you are not one of those people.

 

[RobAce]

Honestly I have had many women catch me looking at their feet.
They have come over to me and ask me if I was looking at their feet.
I answer simply "yes I was".
And the 99% response I get it.."Wow, most guys stare at my breasts or my ass, and it makes me sick. Why do you look at women's feet."
My reply is "I could never date a woman who did not take care of her feet. If she takes care of her feet, she most likely takes good care of the rest of her body."

That explanation seems to be more than acceptable. They thank me, flash a little sole and move on. Sometimes we chatted more and hit it off.

Very rarely, maybe 10 women over the last 17 years were ever offended or asked me not too look, or thought I was weird. I guess its in the delivery.

Rob

 

[ViperGTS]

That and you are a sexy God among men.

 

[NonConTickler]

Let me clarify

I admit that even though I know chances are 99.999999999% that a random woman I approached like this would take offense, I would find it exciting just posing the question to her, just telling her I'd like to tickle her feet. The thrill I would get from that is not worth the 99.999999999% chance there would be some consequences for me, however.

I'm asking out of pure curiosity if a TMF woman would react any differently in this situation than non-tickle-enthusiast women. That is if a guy like me approached what he thought was a completely random woman, but she just happened to be woman from the TMF.

 

[isabeau]

Whenever I've tried that they've blushed and said "my god they are! I really like being tickled on them, but I just can't stand it! Maybe if you tied them up for me..."

We'd then retreat to her place for a three day tickle orgy. Works like a charm, you should try it someday.

damn how did you know??? that's exactly what happened to me lol

seriously...heck no i've never had that happen...and if i had..i would say thanks about the feet..and then walk away..

 

[BellaRisa]

I'm asking out of pure curiosity if a TMF woman would react any differently in this situation than non-tickle-enthusiast women. That is if a guy like me approached what he thought was a completely random woman, but she just happened to be woman from the TMF.

The only difference is that a TMF woman would know why you were being creepy and disturbing. We still wouldn't want to talk to you, simply because you might be a nut . It's not the foot compliment, because if done with style and grace I believe Robace is correct; many women would find it refreshingly different. A TMF woman especially so, because we *do* take care of our feet. It's asking about the ticklishness that would be unsettling; a vanilla girl would think you were a weirdo, and a TMF girl would think you were a weirdo who's PM's she's probably had to ignore 🙄, and who's lack of discretion was a bit too much to tolerate. There are ways to ask, but being this bald about it would put a lot of ladies, even TMF ladies, off.

My 3 cents, YMMV,

Bella

 

[taptoematt]

As a professional, I talk to and compliment women on their feet on a daily basis and yes, sometimes ask them if they are ticklish. I have no problems doing so and get only positive responces, but if I was to say the exact same things outside my profession on the street to a strange women; I wonder what they would say ? My wife says one day I should try it and see.

 

[TklDuo-Ann]

OK....you asked.....

I've caught many guys looking at my feet. (I take care of them, but don't necessarily consider them anything special.) I generally get a kick out of it and flex them or flop my sandals a bit just to harass them. But, I rarely let them know that I'm aware of them watching. Having some stranger come up and ask...? I'd likely answer. But, that would be it.

I admit that even though I know chances are 99.999999999% that a random woman I approached like this would take offense, I would find it exciting just posing the question to her, just telling her I'd like to tickle her feet.

See...the problem I have with this statement is that you appear to be more concerned about getting your thrills from something like this than the fact that you are intruding on someone else's space and privacy...and quite likely their comfort level. That would be totally selfish and unacceptable in my book. And that's coming from someone who understands the fetish and is open to it. Would you go up to a total stranger and say "Hey baby! Want to go screw?" It's a sexual thing. You don't go around asking total strangers...unless of course you happen to be in a place where it's understood that this is to be expected and they've chosen to be there of their own free will. Frankly, even then I'd find it tacky. Get to know someone. THEN you might be able to ask. Otherwise, you come across as just one more sexual predator.

 

[slap'n'ticklee]

and said "hey, you have really hot feet, are they ticklish?" being a woman into tickling, how would you react? And if you did say yes, what if he asked if he could tickle them, I mean like today? Remember this is a total stranger, and you don't know him from anyone. I often wish I could go up to a woman and ask her that but I know that realistically I can't unfortunately because of how the woman might react and there would be consequences for me. But I am not a social person however I would like to tickle hot looking women's feet purely to satisfy my own urges.

Sorry, but no

This is not helping people out there understand folks that are into feet and tickling, if they read this they would think your a fruit cake and that your fetish has over taken your senses, I don't mean to be nasty but thats how I see it in your post.

 

[Excess]

you appear to be more concerned about getting your thrills from something like this than the fact that you are intruding on someone else's space and privacy

This. Really dude, it is basically the same thing as if you were to walk up and say "NICE ASS!!! CAN I GRAB IT?". Really, there isn't much difference...

 

[aurora5150]

um....no. i would probably just turn and walk away. not a good idea at all.

 

[maniactickler]

and said "hey, you have really hot feet, are they ticklish?" being a woman into tickling, how would you react? And if you did say yes, what if he asked if he could tickle them, I mean like today? Remember this is a total stranger, and you don't know him from anyone. I often wish I could go up to a woman and ask her that but I know that realistically I can't unfortunately because of how the woman might react and there would be consequences for me. But I am not a social person however I would like to tickle hot looking women's feet purely to satisfy my own urges.

I wouldnt urge anyone to try this, unless you have a passion for jail cells.

 

[Comfort Eagle]

This. Really dude, it is basically the same thing as if you were to walk up and say "NICE ASS!!! CAN I GRAB IT?". Really, there isn't much difference...

Except that actually has a chance of happening...


Ya see, back in high school I said it as a joke to a couple of girls, and a few of them took me up on it. I mean, they were sluts, but still...

And so did the tickling thing, now that I'm thinking about it, but again, sluts...


Man high school was weird...

 

[brianspencer66]

I had an argument with a friend of mine some time ago.And he was claiming a good way to meet woman was simply to walk up to them and ask if he could walk them to the subway or wherever they were going as to get to know them. Now look I live in NYC and I know darn well woman would be spooked at the thought of a stranger doing this. I really had to make him understand that people need space and really did not want to be bothered.
So imagine asking a woman if she was ticklish off the bat? That would freak her out in a city where we have more than enough of them. And well that would go for anywhere.

 

[Excess]

Except that actually has a chance of happening...


Ya see, back in high school I said it as a joke to a couple of girls, and a few of them took me up on it. I mean, they were sluts, but still...

And so did the tickling thing, now that I'm thinking about it, but again, sluts...


Man high school was weird...

I think there was a point in there somewhere, but it got lost in the 3rd line...But yeah, High School was weird.

 

[Comfort Eagle]

I think there was a point in there somewhere, but it got lost in the 3rd line...But yeah, High School was weird.

I guess the point is, if you want random ass grabs/foot tickles, find some sluts.

 

[mstrtk45]

I agree that it's probably not a good idea to walk up to a stranger and ask such a personal question however, I wouldn't lump all foot fetishist into the "creepy" category. Quite frankly, it seems more than creepy to me for a person to be obsessed with another persons ass, breasts, or genitals. The fact is society seems to approve of some behavior (abhorrent or not) more than others. Those of us with an intense love for the female foot should be honest about it when asked. But like all personal preferences we need to be respectful of the person we are encountering at the time. Not every person is a "mark" for this fetish of ours. I find it works best to allow a relationship to develop and take it's natural course. Build trust, speak honestly, and be yourself.

 

[Iluv2Btickled]

and said "hey, you have really hot feet, are they ticklish?" being a woman into tickling, how would you react? And if you did say yes, what if he asked if he could tickle them, I mean like today? Remember this is a total stranger, and you don't know him from anyone. I often wish I could go up to a woman and ask her that but I know that realistically I can't unfortunately because of how the woman might react and there would be consequences for me. But I am not a social person however I would like to tickle hot looking women's feet purely to satisfy my own urges.

And this is exactly why 99.9 1/2% of a woman's response is a negative reason because we KNOW this and you think that we dont and that we're objects to just use when you please...but I digress...

If a stranger came up to me and asked me that, even tho I am into tickling, I wouldnt satisfy him and even respond I'd simply ignore him and walk away. Why you ask? Oh I'm sooo glad that you did! But see I've already answered that part of the question already up above. 🙂 see? go look!

 

[LindyHopper]

Very rarely, maybe 10 women over the last 17 years were ever offended or asked me not too look, or thought I was weird. I guess its in the delivery.

That and you are a sexy God among men.

😀 But like it or not, you probably have to be a hot guy to get away with this. Physically attractive, and with the charisma and confidence to pull it off. I know one guy who's managed to get his hands on the feet of more than one attractive woman within a few minutes of meeting her, and that's because he has that charm.

It's unfair, but it's true. If we're talking about a random encounter with a stranger, she's going to go by what she sees in that moment. Fortunately, the playing field levels out for guys willing to put in the time and effort to make the woman feel comfortable, and prove that they're worth trusting.

 

[Illtcklu]

damn how did you know??? that's exactly what happened to me lol

seriously...heck no i've never had that happen...and if i had..i would say thanks about the feet..and then walk away..

Sorry, but no

This is not helping people out there understand folks that are into feet and tickling, if they read this they would think your a fruit cake and that your fetish has over taken your senses, I don't mean to be nasty but thats how I see it in your post.

Honestly I think these two say it all.

There's your answer from TMF women who are "in" to it.