To hide or not to hide, that is the question.

[Dorienne Gray]

Hi dudes!

I have been, like, examing many posts and see that y'know, the topics cover many areas of human understanding. Okay, so, like, there is something I would like to ask which I have, like, never been able to talk about with anyone before yaknowhatImean?
Dig this: About 3 years ago I had a boyfriend (who is now history) and one day I went to his house to, like, collect his surfboard because I promised to take it to be waxed and honed.
Well as I was picking it up I knocked some books down off a shelf
(ahem! I am NOT normally that clumsy, y'know?) and behind the books I niticed a bunch of video boxes. Looking closer I glommed the fact that they were tickle videos, about 30 of 'em! Some were the cheap kind, y'know, like, 2 guys with a video camera and some chick who, y'know, needed the money. Others were more professional stuff with costumes, locations and all that jazz, yaknowhatImean? Stuff like WITCH TRIAL, TICKLE RED RIDING HOOD, ALICE IN TICKLELAND and MAKING CINDY LAUGH and so forth.
Okay, so, like I thought about this because this guy and I had dated for 3 whole months y'know and he, like, NEVER tried to tickle me even once! I mean if he gave me a back rub that was all he did, if he massaged my feet, that was all there was to it, can you dig it? So later when I returned his board I did The Big Confession about finding the videos. HE claimed he was just watching them for a friend who was having his apartment painted. Funny but this "friend" did not have a name OR an address! Later I looked behind the shelves and, like, every single video was, like, gone with the wind.
So my question is, like, this: Is having a fetish something to be closeted? I mean, why was he so ashemed to admit having a fetish. I mean, from a psychological standpoint it is normal, right?
So I guess I am asking who around here is, like, open about his or her tickle fetish and who keeps it hidden? Let's get an encounter session going here, people!

 

[vryticklishfeet]

hiding the fetish

for many years i never spoke of my fetish for feet, let alone my fetish for tickling,,i will say this though,, if i am massaging a girls feet, there is no way in hell i could go long without giving them a lil " kitchy kooo! " for good measure : ) ive been with girls that had to know something was up lol i mean how could they not know? with all the time i spent playing with and tickling there feet? now as far as this boyfriend of yours goes? i dunno,, is it possible that he maybe doesnt look at you in that way? do you have cute feet? some guys i know with the fetish wont tickle a girl unless they have the kind of feet that they prefere,,but then,, why be with a girl who doesnt have cute feet anyway lol? something is definately going on here,, i mean it is a possibility that he was watching them for a friend cause i have done that very thing when moving to a new place cause family members were helping me move and i diddnt want them to come across some of my tickling material,, i couldnt even begin to explain that to mormon parents ya know? lol! maybe you should try and get to know his friend who does have the tickle fetish? maybe he does exist? who knows? all i know is if you have a tickle fetish and he wont indulge you even occasionally maybe its time to look elsewhere,,,like maybe right here : )

 

[Dorienne Gray]

Dude, I see your point y'know but that was, like 3 years ago and he and I are just sooooooooo broken up now. I, like, don't even know where he is. (And ask me if I care. go ahead, ask!)

 

[vryticklishfeet]

sorry bout that

diddnt mean to piss you off lol! i had no idea that you two werent together im just a dumb guy who should have read your entire post lol! sorry sorry sorry : ( so,, now that we have that out of the way,, how about a chat? im a born and raised southern california dude who now lives in sin city ( vegas ) im online right now and would love to appoligize in person ,, so how about it?

 

[Duane2k]

uh.... this is the clips forum...

 

[Reaper_666]

Yea so what if it's the clip forum don't really matter to me

 

[Dorienne Gray]

uh.... this is the clips forum...

Dude! Excuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuussssssssssse ME! Well this thread is a washout anyway yaknowhatImean? Only 5 reponses,
jinkies! Guess I shall pick a more innocuous topic next time. Not to mention going to the RIGHT location.

 

[coolman]

are you done now? 😛

 

[Dorienne Gray]

When I am wrong I admit it

are you done now? 😛 [/QUOTE]


No I am not, Uncoolman. I thought that maybe this was, like, a cool place to talk and share opinions and ideas. Well when I am wrong I admit it. this place is NOT cool! This place is a Dork Depository and you, Uncoolman, with that so totally childish remark are the dorkiest of all.

Only the guy who responded first to my post has any trace of coolness. You, the transplanted Californian who now lives in Vegas.

I am soooooooo out of here! And don't bother posting any of your not-very-witty repartee. I will not be around to see it.

 

[Duane2k]

...did this really just happen?

 

[Dade]

Pehaps a few more responses would have been forthcoming if the post had been made in the proper forum where people would have gone to see it.

:weird:

 

[squirmer301]

And now, some genuine English sarcasm

Heeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy duuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuudeeeeeeeeeeeee don't be soooooooooo unkeeeewl man you glom?!!? She's already said she's sooooooooooooooooooooo outa here and won't be around to read our replies, dig it?!!!!!!!!!!!!??! She's probably gone to the RIGHT location and I'm pretty sure most ponds don't have computers, donchaknowwhatImeandudeyfroodyguys?!:::',!??:!! When I read this thread I was like, wow man that's just sooooooooo unkeeewl, just way gross how you callous insensitive people treat people with obvious sense of humour issues. Hey man, you should be ashamed of yourselves you naughty people y'know???:;;()!"???????

 

[squirmer301]

Ooops

I'm really going to cop it for this aren't I?

 

[exotickle1]

No I am not, Uncoolman. I thought that maybe this was, like, a cool place to talk and share opinions and ideas. Well when I am wrong I admit it. this place is NOT cool! This place is a Dork Depository and you, Uncoolman, with that so totally childish remark are the dorkiest of all.

Only the guy who responded first to my post has any trace of coolness. You, the transplanted Californian who now lives in Vegas.

I am soooooooo out of here! And don't bother posting any of your not-very-witty repartee. I will not be around to see it.

What's with the hostile attitude? You, like any other member here is more than welcome, and is entitled to an opinion, but please do not degrade the place because of the comment of one guy (who I believe was simply joking- nothing to get so up tight about). Please keep a peaceful attitude around the forums- it is a friendly place after all...

 

[iluv2tkl]

Wow, looks like someone had a little tantrum. You are right exo, there is no reason for it.

We are all here because we enjoy tickling, let us not forget that.
I guess if this is a dorky place, then us moderators must be the kings of dorkyness, lol!

Maybe we are, maybe we aren't, but if being a dork who loves tickling is wrong, I do not want to be right.

Now, about the topic at hand.

It is easier for some than others to express their desire to tickle, there is another thread in this same section which deals with this as well. It is a person's right to enjoy tickling just as it is their right to tell or not to tell others about it.

Hey, there is no shame in not deciding to put a banner over your head saying that you are a tickle lover.

I mean, c'mon. Do you go around telling everyone, every aspect of your being. Maybe it is because my situation is different but I do not want to tell everyone my fetish because then people would know certain things about my sex life with my fiance.

It is a choice to practice tickling and a choice to tell someone.
Do not let anyone tell you that you have to inform people of your love for tickling.

This seemingly in the closet boyfriend probably did not want you to know about his love for tickling (if the vids were his) for fear that you would dump him. It is likely that simple. You cannot blaim or get mad at anyone who has a hard time dealing with the aspects of there love for tickling. We have all gone through and may go through more uncomfortable times, but we are here to encourage and help each other, not tear down.