To the female 'lees

[CaptainQuantum]

I hear some women complain about how difficult it is to find men who will tickle them like they want. I just have 2 observations and you can comment on them as you wish.

1. The vast majority of men, while not being "into" tickling like we are, still tickle women quite regularly. Ah but I can hear you saying, "but that's just occasional horseplay. It's not the same thing." Which brings me to my second observation.

2. Sorry to say, but most guys if you tell them you have this fetish that turns you on, will have the attitude of "okay, I'll swing from a chandelier if it will get me laid."

That said, how hard is it really to find guys who are willing to tickle you?

 

[tickledorange]

All (2) of my boyfriends have been ticklers so far, one I converted and the other one I knew had a thing for tickling.

most guys if you tell them you have this fetish that turns you on, will have the attitude of "okay, I'll swing from a chandelier if it will get me laid."

LOL I noticed that. But, the whole time, if the guy isn't enjoying tickling you, how can that be exciting for the other person (the one with the fetish)?

 

[lk70]

But, the whole time, if the guy isn't enjoying tickling you, how can that be exciting for the other person (the one with the fetish)?

There is a BIG difference between a ler who is doing it just because you like it and a ler who is doing it because he likes it.

 

[Sultrybrunette]

There is a BIG difference between a ler who is doing it just because you like it and a ler who is doing it because he likes it.

I have heard the same about Lees. A guy knows the difference if the girl is just letting him do it to appease him or if she is really getting into it. They have told me its definitely much more enjoyable.

 

[lk70]

I have heard the same about Lees. A guy knows the difference if the girl is just letting him do it to appease him or if she is really getting into it. They have told me its definitely much more enjoyable.

Thanks for pointing that out, Sultry. I've been told the same thing. I think what it boils down to is- it's just so MUCH better if both people are really into it.

 

[tickledorange]

There is a BIG difference between a ler who is doing it just because you like it and a ler who is doing it because he likes it.

Oh I know, and people do that all the time. That is probably one of the big reasons there is a non-con side to tickling also.

 

[Red Jester]

But most guys do get off on it. Its perhaps the most common fetish among guys to get off from giving a woman pleasure.

 

[lk70]

But most guys do get off on it. Its perhaps the most common fetish among guys to get off from giving a woman pleasure.

Not trying to be difficult or a smart a$$, but is this your opinion, or is there a poll somewhere that supports this? Because I think it's possible that most guys (but not most who post on this forum) convince themselves that the women is getting pleasure from whatever it is that gets him off.

 

[Red Jester]

Like you said, a guy gets off when he thinks he's pleasuring a women by doing what pleasures him. No guy likes hearing they suck in bed, most just assume they're good. Now if a girl told a guy she couldn't get off on the whole thing unless she was being tickled then he'd know just having sex with her wouldn't be fair on her part. Thus he'd indulge her fetish.

Granted some guys are dicks that just want to screw a girl and be gone but you shouldn't be dating them in the first place.

 

[steph]

Yanno what I find? This is true with VANILLA guys. The non-vanillas can receive AND give with the best of them...
XOXO

Not trying to be difficult or a smart a$$, but is this your opinion, or is there a poll somewhere that supports this? Because I think it's possible that most guys (but not most who post on this forum) convince themselves that the women is getting pleasure from whatever it is that gets him off.

 

[Ayumi Emi]

Don't want to be a smarty pants, but you know Steph vanilla used to be the most exotic of flavors True vanilla is still a very rare flavor, most of what is in food today is vanillin, a vague vanilla subsidary that has almost nothing of the original taste... Perhaps vanillin guys ? hehehe

There are all kinds of people... some get off from giving pleasure, some only get off from getting it, but there ARE a few who get off from sharing pleasure, who only want to do things that are mutually pleasurable, but see tickling can be pleasurable even if it's not your fetish, and most often if you let someone know that tickling turns you on, A LOT, and have the chance to present them with evidence (like, vwet panties?) you can turn caring guys into ticklephiles in no time 😉

True, many guys just like getting off, period, and don't care that much about their parnters, but who the hell wants to go to bed with that kind????? No sense even talking about the close-minded or selfish ones, cause if you're staying involved with that kind, of your own will, you're just a fool really. Sorry, this is all IMHO of course!