Turning fantasies into realities

[tickle_demon]

What are your fantasies and desires? For some people, it's winning the lottery, or lots of money. For others it's finding the girl of your dreams. But for our small community, it's either tickling someone senseless, or being tickled senseless. The main problem with our tickling fantasies is that winning the lottery is probably more likely than realising our desires.

But why is is so damned impossible to make our wildest fantasies become plausible realities? Maybe it's because the way women act in our fantasies do NOT act that way in real life (i mean...do many women in the world ALLOW themselves to be tied and tickled by a total stranger?). Maybe it's because when it comes to fulfilling our fantasies, we are too scared to go through with them when an opportunity arises.

Or maybe our fantasies are just plain impossible....

Has anyone actually had their tickling fantasies fulfilled?

(Note...this is my first topic (bar the introduction topic), so sorry if i'm rambling abit...or if this topic makes no sense)

 

[Deleted member 2452]

i have had a few become reality

i'm now working on becomming a lotery winner, so i can afford to make the rest of my fantasies reality.
another thought, why do so many want to tie up their tickle partners? maybe if you'd not insist that they are bound, they'd agree to more tickling?
steve

 

[dvnc]

Wow, I'm startin' t'feel like I'm followin' ya, Steve. 😉 On to this one!

I've turned several fantasies into realities, tickling fantasies included. I've had rooms full of ticklephiles, socializing and playing. I'm with a woman I used to dream of bein' with, and tickling. I've tickled women in various states of bondage, and various STYLES of bondage, without having to use bondage, in public, in hotels in far-away places, etc.

Steve, where you say that I'd find MORE if I nixed the bondage, I disagree. I've found plenty, and often, and sometimes it was the bondage that they liked best. Some actually wanted to continue that part, and nix the tickling. Differest strokes for different folks, y'know?

To make such fantasies a reality, or three, y'gotta try it to make it happen. Most often, I've simply asked for such. Folks are surprisingly generous, especially if you volunteer to reciprocate such a favor in advance.

I'm about to have another fulfilled, as I'm marryin' the 'lee of my dreams. Just had to ask.

Mind ya, I'm sure there's times I didn't get what I asked to get. Those are just insignificant times, to me. No success is without effort, after all.

My $0.02,

dvnc

 

[QBWeaver]

Demon.... Since I found this community I've been able to live my fantasies out at each gathering or each get together I've attended or hosted. I've always wanted to try bondage, and now I do. I've always wanted to try the tickling and now I do. I'm able to do it because I've met lots of very wonderful people in this community.

Several, like DVNC, Affectionate Dan, Terry and Purvis, I met at smaller gatherings. Then I got to meet so many others like Max, Andy, Pete, Mike, Lora Lee and Bella to name a few. Plus Linda and Jonathan from the UK. And so many more.

I've met them at NEST or at other gatherings that I've attended both in my area and around the country. During the NEST weekends there is bondage and tickling going on at all times of the day and night in many rooms at the motel as well as at Max's and at the club. At gatherings there generally ends up being some tickling both with and without bondage going on in several different rooms at the house.

For some, that's living a fantasy. For others it might not be exactly their fantasy. After all not every woman will look like the woman of your dreams and not every man will always look like the man of my dreams. But for me just being in bondage and being subjected to the tickling torment is living the fantasy for me.

I enjoy each adventure with whomever I am with some for different reasons. Some for their intensity, some for the mind games, some for the teasing, and some for the "space" my mind goes. Each time is different and each time is rewarding.

Also, being a woman, I'm blessed. There seem to be fewer of us ladies than guys. Plus I like to play both roles, the "Lee" and the "Ler".

So I'm fortunate enough to be living my dreams/fantasies at each gathering (2 or more people) that I get to attend. And for that I'll be eternally grateful.

 

[HeBeGeeBee]

So I'm fortunate enough to be living my dreams/fantasies at each gathering (2 or more people) that I get to attend.

QB,
You're just like me. Except, you're a woman and I'm not...you've been to many gatherings and I haven't, you've experienced two or more and I'm still working on just one. Now that I think of it, you're NOT just like me...but at least we think alike! 😀 I'm hoping for my fantasy of two or more at Mimi's gathering (whenever and wherever it happens).

 

[QBWeaver]

HeBeGeeBee

I guess you could call that like minded! 'cause I like that you minded! LOL

And you are in SO much trouble when I get to GLAT.

 

[HeBeGeeBee]

Trouble?? Ha!...Trouble is my middle name. (Okay, my middle name is actually BeGee...but you get the idea). I think someone needs to get Mimi moving towards finding an alternate date and location. Maybe we need a more original name than GLAT to get people in the mood. How about MUFF (Midwest United Fingers and Feathers)...

 

[Deleted member 2452]

Trouble?? Ha!...Trouble is my middle name. (Okay, my middle name is actually BeGee...but you get the idea). I think someone needs to get Mimi moving towards finding an alternate date and location. Maybe we need a more original name than GLAT to get people in the mood. How about MUFF (Midwest United Fingers and Feathers)...

hey hebegeebee, mimi is working on it. she sent out a list of potential sites, and asked for input, did you respond? hehehe.
i got an idea, how about you, and i drive to nest together? that way we will both be there for the first time. and i can cry on your shoulder about my home life, lol. think about it!
steve
p.s. dvnc, yes you do seem to be following me! you drew the short straw this week huh? i too never was shy about tickling, and asked, and received! but, all except 2 said NO to bondage. truth be told, i just don't care for bondage that much. i've tried it, and found it wanting. i like the more sensual side of tickling, or even the wrestling side of tickling, lol! i think you hit it when you said it's a personal thing. i still think the average guy would get more tickling san bondage.

 

[dvnc]

I'm guessin', Steve, that you're likely right that most folks will tickle more easily if no bondage is introduced. I've likely just been one lucky fellow, I 'spect.

 

[Phineas]

my biggest "normal" (IE, ones that don't involve aliens and giant robots... hehe) fantasies tend to revolve around specific people.

Generally, what (I'd like to) happen is to meet someone who, for whatever reason, floors me. Whether it be through looks, personality, poise, charm, whatever; that person just knocks me flat. I would "pop the question" to them (something involving their feet, use your imagination, this *is* a tickling forum😉 ), they would agree, and I would spend an incredibly wild afternoon making them laugh so hard they tore a hole in the space-time continuum or something.

this *has* happened on one or two occasions, so I *can* safely say my fantasies have been "fulfilled" two or three times over by now - apparently, through that little meeting with a mother-daughter duo, I've also accidentally fulfilled *other* peoples' fantasies here as well (lol).

still, it doesn't stop me from wanting to do it again, because after all, there are so many great ladies with even greater feet out there. you can't just go after total strangers though; charming the socks off 'em is half the challenge, so to speak. they should air THAT sport in ESPN. would beat the living heck outta golf, anyway. 😉

 

[milagros317]

What are your fantasies and desires? [much deleted]
Or maybe our fantasies are just plain impossible....

Has anyone actually had their tickling fantasies fulfilled?

(Note...this is my first topic (bar the introduction topic), so sorry if i'm rambling abit...or if this topic makes no sense)

At the risk of being told, "it doesn't count, because you paid for it," I will answer, yes, I have had my dearest fantasy acted out, and the reality was better than in my imagination. The fantasy was to be rendered helpless, and tickled by two beautiful young women who would tickle without mercy while verbally taunting me.

Mistress Zara and her friend Mistress Kassandra tied me until I was totally helpless, and then tickled me without mercy until I was forced to use the safeword, seriously unable to breathe (which took about 40 minutes); after a few minutes to catch my breath, they did it all over again, but I didn't last nearly as long for the second round.

 

[HeBeGeeBee]

hey hebegeebee, mimi is working on it. she sent out a list of potential sites, and asked for input, did you respond? hehehe.
i got an idea, how about you, and i drive to nest together? that way we will both be there for the first time.

Steve,
Yes, I got Mimi's e-mail and responded. Unfortunately, I haven't been able to come up with any alternate sites, but I did say that I think there would be a better turnout if it were held in the vicinity of a major city (especially one with an airport). Sure, we can drive together. Except we're taking your car, since I lease mine and I'm nearing my mileage limit...😛

 

[Deleted member 2452]

hey hebegeebee

e-mail me at [email protected]. that way we can discuss nest, etc., w/o taking up thread space. sure, i'll drive.
steve

 

[Sunriseticklee]

Yes...I have had a couple of my fantasies become reality.

I will NEVER forget the first time I was ever tied and tickled (sure beat the second time when I conked my head! heehee 😀) Its weird because my fantasies have such range.... Bondage, non bondage, sensual, playful, intense, gentle. ROLEPLAY (ooo that's my favorite!)... Most of the really good ones I am waiting for someone special to fulfill them. After all... The fantasies themselves are special.

Live, Laugh and TICKLE
Sunriseticklee


(my biggest problem is... Not many GUYS are willing to be tied up. And I am such a LER! Darn it! What are you guys so afraid of? 😛 )

 

[HeBeGeeBee]

(my biggest problem is... Not many GUYS are willing to be tied up. And I am such a LER! Darn it! What are you guys so afraid of? 😛 )

Note to self: Book a flight to Atlanta...

Sunrise,
I think it's merely a case of (to paraphrase the old song), "Lookin' for 'lees in all the wrong places." I don't know about the guys in the south, but I know of at least one guy up here in the frozen tundra (see the little guy waving at you) who is not afraid of anything any female 'ler can dish out.

 

[Sunriseticklee]

Note to self: Book a flight to Atlanta...

Sunrise,
I think it's merely a case of (to paraphrase the old song), "Lookin' for 'lees in all the wrong places." I don't know about the guys in the south, but I know of at least one guy up here in the frozen tundra (see the little guy waving at you) who is not afraid of anything any female 'ler can dish out.

For me, that is not a song... Its a freaking Ballad... EPIC... something long and sad... put to the tunes of country music. *giggle*

You know.... I have only successfully gotten one guy to let me tie him up and you know what he said after all that work and effort?
"You can do anything you want EXCEPT tickle me..."

WELL DUH! What the @&%!! Did he think I wanted to do? So I untied the bassfish and took my frustrated butt home! (If I was being as mean as I enjoy being, I would have just left him tied to the bed for a week!)

I bet we both thought we were gonna have our fantasies fulfilled that day. Heehee! Sad times for us. 😛

How about I tie you and BIGJIM side by side and tickle ya both until my fingers go numb.... WHEW! That's a lot of ticklin....

Live, Laugh and TICKLE
Sunriseticklee

 

[tickle_demon]

Make that 3 people Sunrise, i can NEVER be broken 😀 Breaking you on the other hand....😉

Just a quick thanks to everyone who replied to this thread. Guess fantasies can become realities after all, but if anyone has a magic lamp with grants you three wishes...GIMME IT!!!!!

 

[TickledToDeath]

Some of my fantasies have come true while there are still a few that still remain.
While I will not make it easy for you ladies out there and just tell you straight out, I am however open to suggestions from your OWN imagination!😛 😉 😀


TTD

 

[HeBeGeeBee]

You know.... I have only successfully gotten one guy to let me tie him up and you know what he said after all that work and effort?
"You can do anything you want EXCEPT tickle me..."

How about I tie you and BIGJIM side by side and tickle ya both until my fingers go numb.... WHEW! That's a lot of ticklin....

First of all, if he's tied up, how would he have been able to stop you? Sounds like you missed a golden opportunity. He might have even ended up liking it...I know I would have. 😉

As for me and BigJim...when we're laying there next to each other, do we actually have to be touching? (Shuddering at the thought...) In any case, he'd be whimpering like a schoolgirl after about five seconds while I would be eagerly waiting for your fingers to get "un-numb"...