Two sides of the same coin

[Ticklerguy4u]

I have two female friends that hang out together. When they go out one is always getting hit on by guys all the time and the other usually doesn't get hit on at all.

The one that gets all the guys hitting on her gets depressed that she is only wanted for her looks and she can't meet a nice guy because most are just jerks that want to f*ck her. She wants to know how it feels to have guys that want to know her.

The other girl is depressed because guys rarely hit on her. When guys do hit on her its usually to be her boyfriend but they are far and few. She wants to know how it feels to have guys to want her physically.

The funny thing is that both girls are envious of each others life. It got me wondering. Which one would you rather be?

Growing up, I had a similar experience. When I was in my late 20's a friend of mine always got hit on by lots of women but he always complained that he couldn't find a woman that wanted to have a conversation with him without it leading to her wanting to sleep with him. He wasn't an a**hole, so I guess having good looks and personality helped but they didn't care if he had a brain.

I was always the guy to be put in the "friend category," so I wanted to be like him. He wanted to be like me. I guess both can be lonely roads.

Which one would you rather be?

 

[DontAskJusTckle]

Given only those two choices, I'd choose to be the one that attracts a lot of women. It's nice to be able to be selective.

However, I would prefer to be just who I am. Neither beautiful nor ugly, but able to talk to women and have them feel comfortable around me.

 

[BellybTickler]

I'd rather be the "friend zone" guy, mainly because I don't like being hit on when I'm out at the bars .. it's very irritating to get your pool game interrupted.

 

[tickledorange]

I was always "The Friend" and my best friend got hit on more than me. I ended up getting married first, though. I wouldn't trade my Dominant for anything. I'd take quality over quantity any day.

 

[GEORGIATKLER]

Yeah, just once I would like to be the punch bowl... Currently I get turned down more often than the sheets at Motel 6.....I would like to be the "hittee", then if I could only get that damn "Twilight Zone" theme outta my head..... This is a great post that speaks to the grass is not always greener scenario.