Use safeword?

[mcmunagle1]

Here's a question that probably won't get rude responses.

Would you use a "safe word" if being tied up and tickled? Or have you. I don't know if I would, but then it might be too much, then again that might be fun, but maybe not, I don't know.

Thanks for any answers.

 

[matnor]

Hi there. you should diefenitly have some kind of safe word, otherwise if it gets too intense, you would not be taken seriously and the one tickling you would just find it entertaining, and than it would not be so funn anymore, just try to push your limit as far as it goes. if you want to challenge your self you might use rules like.. your not allowed to say the safe word before you have been tickled for.. lets say.. ten minutes or so..( your choice) anyways, hope this was helpfull.🙂

 

[mcmunagle1]

It was thanks. Some good points, I think I will use a safe word now.

 

[MrTicklefeet1]

It's always good to keep the open communication going. I tend to be more a sensual tickler, so it hasn't been a problem, but there have been times I thought I was over doing it, only to check in and hear everything's fine. One complimented me on my style of tickling, and much prefered that, saying most guys just do that poke poke poke thing. A few have liked it rough and have ended up coming back for more.
So yes, safewords are a good idea, just in case. 🙂

 

[juanmiller]

Even if you like your tickling to be "too much" and wouldn't want it to stop for that reason (I know I'm that way), I believe it's still important to be able to communicate if something goes wrong that really isn't meant to be part of the scene, like you're getting a cramp, bondage is cutting off your circulation, you're feeling ill, etc. Depending on how you and your partner do things, it may not need to be a formal safeword exactly, but for safety reasons it is important to be able to distinguish from play-begging and play-saying-stop, and truly meaning that you need them to stop. That's just common sense in my book.

 

[TKLVR181]

I also have to stick my two cents in here with a resounding yes. Like Juan said, it's partialy a safety issue--cramps, discomfort, emergencies, etc all need to be taken into account. Plus it's also largly for the lee's peace of mind--just knowing you *could* get out doesn't mean you will. My husband and I have a safeword, but we hardly ever use it--it's good just to have.

If the lee wants it to stop, it should stop. If the lee wants it to stop and it doesn't, the lee isn't having fun anymore--and if the lee isn't having fun, it's not, I'm sure, what you set out to do. If you're into non-consensual stuff, roleplay's my suggestion--there are *plenty* of scenerios to scratch that itch (experience talking ^___^). Even in RPs though, the safeword should stand--it just gives great opportunities to use "fake" begging 😉

~K

 

[Ticklecom1]

Everyone should use some sort of safe word (Or action if the lee is gagged). Just in case something is wrong or it is too much for the lee.
But that's my personal opinion, Good luck 🙂

 

[Rox_My_Sox1]

Safewords are a good idea but a bit hard to use if your gagged. ^_~

Just remember to pick out a easy to say safeword. If it's hard to pronounce then you might not want to use it during a tickle session.

Take the safeword SHENANIGANS for example. Right Iisme? 😉:stickout

 

[Smoten]

Safewords ensure safety. Remember kids, never confuse safety words with the safety dance; it never ends well.😉

 

[luvs2B]

Safeword: yea or ney?

I would so use a safe word in both a 'lee and a 'ler situation

safety first!

 

[Femboi]

Safewords? I'm learning a lot tonight. Never even knew such a thing existed before. So this is an eye opener for me. I'm such a newbie lol.

 

[uttahcee1]

Mine is wee wee wee all the way home,, and it has to be said exactly the same way.. and trust me she gets it wrong 1/2 the time.....:drool

 

[TKLVR181]

Safewords? I'm learning a lot tonight. Never even knew such a thing existed before. So this is an eye opener for me. I'm such a newbie lol.

Welcome newbie XD Don't feel dumb, we've all been there once.

~K

 

[ChicagoDavid]

Personally I don't use a safe word if I'm the "lee." I like giving up control. I just point out that if I say "ow," that means it hurts (i.e., digging hard enough that it hurts) as an FYI! For the lee, I never really push her to the point where she uses one.

 

[sadi]

Think there's another thread about this, by TickleTheater.