It's better if people are treating people as people, rather than objects in which to dominate or upset.
I was like you, CL. You remember that. The grabbing onto someone, and just roping them around silly. To a set extent, I got a rush from it. And now...not so much. Maybe it's feeling burned by losing the foxhole buddies, because they haven't talked with me in at least two years. Maybe it's because I was a sucky person two years ago. Dunno. Can't dwell too much.
There isn't much on here that screams out to post in. This thread, for some reason, prompted this I saw Lily post and then started reading and, well, yeah. Imagine if people want slam their head into the wall crap, it's still there in the PR Forum, which is far and away the replacement of all that toxic stuff from in the past.