What could you do....?

[tulipangel]

What do you do when someone you care about disregards your feelings? Then, after they make you feel like your feelings don't matter they ask what's wrong.... How does one handle this without a shot gun and prison?

 

[milagros317]

When they ask what's wrong, tell them "You disregarded my feelings." Go on to desribe exactly what your feelings were.

Believe it or not, many people are oblivious to the fact that they have disregarded your feelings.

 

[tulipangel]

When they ask what's wrong, tell them "You disregarded my feelings." Go on to desribe exactly what your feelings were.

Believe it or not, many people are oblivious to the fact that they have disregarded your feelings.

Ok, im going to try this and see what happens. Thanks!

 

[aun_existe_amor]

I agree with milagros. Good luck 🙂

 

[tulipangel]

OK, so I emailed the person and once I hear back from them, I will let you know how it went!

 

[chicago]

Unless your feelings were ridiculous, then the person might not care that they disregarded your feelings.

 

[DannyMc]

Sometimes like Mil said they just don't see that they have disregarded your feelings . I suppose some could just care less . To me two red flag sayings are I don't want to hear it or I just plain don't care . One can't exactly put their faith in these two type's of feelings .

 

[WorkInProgress]

OK, so I emailed the person and once I hear back from them, I will let you know how it went!

Why not just talk to him in person when he gets home?

 

[BLUE_THUNDER]

just be honest and sincere and state how you feel to the offending person.....you cant be arrested for having feelings....i would not recommend the shotgun approach however, always seems to end badly. peace......BLUE_THUNDER

 

[luvgirlsfeet]

When they ask what's wrong, tell them "You disregarded my feelings." Go on to desribe exactly what your feelings were.

Well said..I totally agree

That happened to me at work but i didnt choose my words as carefully as i could have

 

[Stugots]

You could stop being a victim and choose not to take a person's shit? You could also socialize with people that take you more seriously? Do you take yourself seriously? Because if you don't take yourself seriously other people will not take you seriously!

 

[german]

Talk to this person, express your views and concerns and make sure you receive an answer why. Just don't let it pass cause it obviously hurt you and you deserve to know why.

Kust

 

[Avenger314]

Why did you rule out the shotgun? 😉

 

[tulipangel]

People are CRAP! Phoney and CRAPPY! I can now honestly say that the only person you can count on is YOURSELF! Everyone else is CRAP! CRAP CRAP CRAP CRAP CRAP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Wow! That feels much better! And yes, I was screaming CRAP as I typed it! CRAP!!!!!!! No one gives a CRAP about anyone else! Even talking face to face to someone and telling them things they do to hurt you is CRAP! It means nothing! No one cares! CRAP everywhere! Damn it!!!!!!!!!! CRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRAP!

 

[stloldg]

People are CRAP! Phoney and CRAPPY! I can now honestly say that the only person you can count on is YOURSELF! Everyone else is CRAP! CRAP CRAP CRAP CRAP CRAP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Wow! That feels much better! And yes, I was screaming CRAP as I typed it! CRAP!!!!!!! No one gives a CRAP about anyone else! Even talking face to face to someone and telling them things they do to hurt you is CRAP! It means nothing! No one cares! CRAP everywhere! Damn it!!!!!!!!!! CRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRAP!

I care about you and that's not Crap

 

[tulipangel]

I care about you and that's not Crap

Thanks hun! Your sweet! Too bad im in a "I hate life and everything in it" mood or id hug ya!

 

[stloldg]

Thanks hun! Your sweet! Too bad im in a "I hate life and everything in it" mood or id hug ya!

thanks

I vacation there every other month

 

[natural tickler]

People are CRAP! Phoney and CRAPPY! I can now honestly say that the only person you can count on is YOURSELF! Everyone else is CRAP! CRAP CRAP CRAP CRAP CRAP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Wow! That feels much better! And yes, I was screaming CRAP as I typed it! CRAP!!!!!!! No one gives a CRAP about anyone else! Even talking face to face to someone and telling them things they do to hurt you is CRAP! It means nothing! No one cares! CRAP everywhere! Damn it!!!!!!!!!! CRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRAP!

feel better now???

pssst....I care about your feelings, now get that frown upside down....or else 😛

 

[AffectionateDan]

Whoa.... that's a lotta crap!

People are CRAP! Phoney and CRAPPY! I can now honestly say that the only person you can count on is YOURSELF! Everyone else is CRAP! CRAP CRAP CRAP CRAP CRAP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Wow! That feels much better! And yes, I was screaming CRAP as I typed it! CRAP!!!!!!! No one gives a CRAP about anyone else! Even talking face to face to someone and telling them things they do to hurt you is CRAP! It means nothing! No one cares! CRAP everywhere! Damn it!!!!!!!!!! CRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRAP!

Fact is, there's tons of people that DO care, and lots of 'em are on here. Hang out here long enough, and you'll hear the phrase "It's all about the love" bandied about a lot. Because it IS. Anyone who's not on board with the love is missin' out. Anyone crappin' on you needs to be pulled up by the short & curlies and explained the error of their ways. Now, clean all that crap up!

 

[tulipangel]

LOL ya'll are too cool! I'm gonna wind up on the news tonight if my day doesnt get better! The head lines will be "Local Long Island woman goes on a rampage and drives car into the ocean"! I honestly need something (not someone) to hit! Like a punching bag! I don't understand why people (NOT YOU GUYS) are so stupid! They are CRAP! Ya'll made me smile so now I have to take that smile and try to keep it the rest of the day! One day at a time, right? LOL Ok, I'll let ya'll know how things end up and if I dont let you know by Wed night, im in jail! LOL MUAH! happy 4th!

 

[rajee]

I hope your day gets better
Tulip Angel.

 

[DannyMc]

One does not always speak for the many .... Tulip I'm sorry that person didn't care but other people do care about your feelings .

 

[tickleshotel]

People are CRAP! Phoney and CRAPPY! I can now honestly say that the only person you can count on is YOURSELF! Everyone else is CRAP! CRAP CRAP CRAP CRAP CRAP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Wow! That feels much better! And yes, I was screaming CRAP as I typed it! CRAP!!!!!!! No one gives a CRAP about anyone else! Even talking face to face to someone and telling them things they do to hurt you is CRAP! It means nothing! No one cares! CRAP everywhere! Damn it!!!!!!!!!! CRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRAP!

Tulipangel,if you had a conversation face to face with this person you are referring to about how they hurt your feelings and it made you feel even worse,you don;t need people like that around you that don;t have respect for your feelings..It makes me think this person did whatever they did,or said to hurt you on purpose..
I care about you and feel free to PM me anytime you would like to talk about anything..