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what happend to this website?

SpongeBob1

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it seems Dead most of the time! i was a member here awhile back. But changed my screen name. But now since i re-joined it seems like this website is somewhat dead like members don't post as much on here anymore like they used to.


what have more members jumped ship over to the TMF website now or what?
 
Seems the same to me...if anything members are leaveing the TMF and coming here.
 
I've talked about this before in detail, but to summarize, its that this site lacks communication in a general sense. The TMF has a strong general discussions forum, a humor forum, and now a religion and politics forum.

Religion and politics? See? That right there shows just how evolved, advanced, and mature the TMF is in communication. It has a strong member base full of more posters, both contributing and not, than it does lurkers.

Plain and simple- give TickleTheater time. It has the potential to become greater, perhaps even better than the TMF. Since we are a community, it really shouldn't matter, as we have no sense of loyalty to either site. The bigger picture is more important- a better, bigger community with more NEW content and NEW talent (too much circulation and not enough supply isn't good either).

Its something thats within our reach, and is coming true day by day. The TMF has long been considered the 'father' or 'big brother' of this community. It is considered the core, where it all begins and where it all ends. Its hard for any site to live up to that sort of reputation, but we'll get there by our own merits.
 
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I gotta agree with Iluv2btickled. I'm actually starting to post here (which is funny, cuz I thought I hated forums :angry: ). The TMF kinda stinks now...atleast compared to here. But hey, that's just an opinion...I don't even post there, and if anything, I visit it maybe once a month lol...
 
i'm actually starting to post more at the TMF. since i have like 300+ posts over at the TMF i just seem to like it better thier. But still though i'll post on here as well! i'm loyal to both forums
 
To my opinion, this forum let us, to share tickling media, directly no simple links, but the files (pictures, clips and so), while on TMF you can't do that. I prefer this forum without to be unworhty of the TMF.
 
I dropped out of TMF when I discovered TT 😀 What I didn't like about TMF was that too many discussions quickly turned to political bashing and hate-spewing. Although I know the staff there has taken measures to clean things up a bit, I've gotten so used to hanging out with the regulars here that I don't usually bother to visit other tickle boards anymore.

I like the people here, even though we have little in common on a "tickle" level (I'm a rare tickle-domme, for one thing, lol). I enjoy the easygoing nature of the General Discussions area, and love to post about humour, computers, sports, whatever 🙂

Happy tickles,
 
The website is dying?! Quick, get the difibulator! Just kidding! I think that this site is doing quite well, thank you.
 
Vladislav Dracula said:
Religion and politics? See? That right there shows just how evolved, advanced, and mature the TMF is in communication. It has a strong member base full of more posters, both contributing and not, than it does lurkers.

I do not think that having a religion and politics forum is a kind of maturity - in my opinion - it turns quickly in a battle.
About TMF posts. People do post more yes but it's most to have the orange/blue/red whatever levels feather which give them some kind of points....well that's what i saw. All do not post material though.
Everyone can post often but if it's to write just three words like...yes......no....maybe.....you're the best......well it doesn't go any better for the forum itself.
I think that there is more interactivity here than at the TMF 😀.
And TT has over 20000 members * yes not all posters * ok but the number is still here : 20000 even over now.
 
I think this website is a very good one. I also agree with the others that this site is a lot easier to post things on and download clips on as well. I do notice one problem that has been occuring just in the last ten days to two weeks and that's the fact that you can download a clip just fine and then change forums with no problem most of the time. However, there have been times lately when after you download a clip or click on a new topic and then try to do it again that it times out and the website unavailable window pops up. I wonder if anyone else has been having that problem too
 
alf said:

I do not think that having a religion and politics forum is a kind of maturity - in my opinion - it turns quickly in a battle.
About TMF posts. People do post more yes but it's most to have the orange/blue/red whatever levels feather which give them some kind of points....well that's what i saw. All do not post material though.
Everyone can post often but if it's to write just three words like...yes......no....maybe.....you're the best......well it doesn't go any better for the forum itself.
I think that there is more interactivity here than at the TMF 😀.
And TT has over 20000 members * yes not all posters * ok but the number is still here : 20000 even over now.

What I meant by that though is that it has many venues and opens up many possibilities not currently had here on this site (good and bad). Lets not mistake 'easy going' for lack of topics or activity, 'laid back' for 'nothing to talk about', and number of members for how well we are doing.

Its not about posts or even member count, how many, when, how. Its about the quality of them, and the ability to capitalize on them and make something of it, thus continuing the process. We don't have that here.

This site is very much a pre-mature birth, as it was started during a time when more real discussions and conversations were on the rise and material took a backseat to it. This site has the word 'theater' in it's name. To me that implies I could expect to find more videos and such here (though I honestly don't come for any of that).That is true, I will agree with that. But when it comes to just plain topics, discussions, debates, and other such beneficial and thought-provoking elements, this site falls short. Thats not an opinion, thats a fact. Look at how very little talking there is here, and how long threads are dragged on before another one is made. The people here condense topics or start new ones within a topic, perhaps out of laziness or out of not following the simple rules and lack thereof. Everything sort of just blends together. The TMF is successful because it is balanced. Yes, it has it's problems, but those are something every site will have as it grows and prospers. And honestly, they are a welcome annoyance in my opinion, as it gives the moderators something to do and earn their position, and it allows for imperfection- something we all about. The ideal of a perfect site can never be accomplished, and having people that will disagree with you is the cream on the pie.

Too much agreeing is not a good thing, as it creates complacency, and too much arguing ruins a thread. The TMF has learned this lesson, and we have yet to face it. I'm already prepared, as I'm sure veteran posters would be also, and I'm all for getting that kind of activity here. We could learn a thing or two from the way the TMF has evolved. Remember, its not about mimmicking them, because thats foolish. Its about taking something thats proven to be successful and applying it to one's own ends.

The TMF is multi-faceted. For a deep person like me, thats important. I'm not shallow, and I've got things to talk about like so many do.

I'm simply not content with the general conduct going on here. I hope it will improve, because if it did I know I and many others would post more. Someone just needs to take the initiative, thats the problem. I guess I will, sooner or later.
 
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Each forum its specificities. Both forum are very good though, but seeing more active people here would be very appreciated.
Let it some time maybe they're afraid 🙂
 
or too shy to say anything or feel they have nothing ot contribute? I was until I posted my first story....
 
kyhawkeye said:

That's the good term. Well it can also be a kind of laziness 😀
Hey i'm kidding don't take it serious 😉
 
It seems that some people spend too much time and energy here...Vladislav Dracula :weird:
 
alf said:
That's the good term. Well it also be a kind of laziness 😀


many may just feel intimidated. I pm'ed a number of people before I get the nerve to post. Some newbies just need to be plucked form being cyber 'wallflowers' and shown the don;t have to be fred astaire to join in the dance....
 
It's the meaning of sharing : that's the keyword 🙂
 
I prefer to share tickling matterial over talk blah, blah, blah about of any topic, i like tickling, the actions no simple chat, if i would want to chat, i would use msn messeger, yahoo, icq or whatever. Tickle is an action not an stuff to intellect. That is just my oppinion, just my 2 centimos (0,0010416.... cents of U.S. $).
 
Hektik said:
It seems that some people spend too much time and energy here...Vladislav Dracula :weird:

Ok, I was expecting this, so I'm prepared-

1. I'm not here all the time. In fact, most people are here more than me. I drop in when I can, and thats usually to upload an art piece.

2. Just because I'm detailed and thorough, unlike many people here, doesn't mean I have too much time or energy on my hands. I work an 8-6 job, thats overtime. I'm tired at the end of the day. Its easy to mistake that about someone though, so I won't hold it against you. I think its a good quality, and it's often misunderstood for things like not having a life, especially when the person speaking (me) represents a minority when no one else supports the claim. I'm not half-assed, and I'm not undecisive. I'm proud of that, and if you can't handle it then it only proves me right about the communal relationships we should have here, in addition to the material.

@ cosquillero- This IS a tickling site, so yes. I'm just saying, based on the reason this topic was brought up, that a part of the reason it may seem dead is because its more about clicking than it is about talking. Theres little communication here. Its a ghost town here. Part of what makes the TMF great is that is has both communication and material. It serves as a good compare and contrast. The TMF doesn't lose anything by having more discussions, in fact, its stronger because of them. It brings people together, anyone of the veterans from the TMF could testify to this very real fact.

Nothing but material creates lurkers, and many have already said why they were/are lurkers. You cannot draw a lurker out with just material, you need communication amongst yourselves to set up an environment which a lurker could feel comfortable in. You have to talk to them, reassure them, or even console them. Then you can enjoy the material together and in public. Isn't that better? Yes, it is. And it sure wouldn't hurt to talk about what's going on in the world, etc., on the side either. Its not much of a community when all you are doing is clicking in secret. ^^
 
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Ok, it's here there are too much lurkers, but we can't to transfom those in really active members, because that is the nature of them. 20 or 30 members here post so enough stuff, than include TT admin has limited the size of files to post. I've visited some times at TMF and i've posted some small threads, but i haven't seen those answered, but only a few of them. Maybe, i've to talk about of economy of politic, or any other theme. But, again, i prefer watch tickling clips and to share them, than only to chat. I respect all opinions, but i've mine too. No offense, i respect the TMF, but i prefer this.
 
"Than only to chat"

Thats the one thing you said that is what makes this an issue for you and some of the others.

See, I never said or implied that the material should be replaced. I'm just saying there should be something in ADDITION to the material. I think I was pretty clear about that.The only other logical thing is communication, as this is the world wide web, and this is inparticularly a forum. Such things abound in forums. Its common sense really.

To answer the question this thread asks- "what happened to this website", I say-

It never was. There is no "happened", there is no past tense. This site is still settling in obviously, and it needs time to draw in a real crowd. Only through conversations will lurkers feel comfortable and become a part of the actual member base in a more real way. They need an opportunity to speak out and become a part of the community. They won't get it in any other real way, save for the occasional "hey great pic", and then withdrawl back to silence.

I'd like to know the people I'm talking to a little better. How fortunate that I know my online friends, as if I were with them in real life as opposed to being many miles away, at the other end of a computer screen. While that is the truth of it all, it doesn't feel that way. 🙂
 
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I thinks so too, with this website haven't happened nothing, it's the same good website that i visited on 2002. More members, majority lurkers, but it's almost the old site that i did meet, except by some members that quited like longstreet by example. Exists lurkers over all sites, not only on internet, also in college, jobs, office, shops and so. Each one chose his/her way, i did chose to share.
 
Thats true, of course, but thats not part of what we're talking about. We are not generalizing here. This thread, if anything, should be aimed toward answering the author's question. Right now, I am the only one really doing that, and its not even about me, but now the attention is on me. Why? Because I have something useful and technical to say. That sure does stand out in posts consisting of one-liners and repetative banter. We sure do need something to talk about.
 
Maybe you're a wizard and we're only simple persons, for this reason your words are more useful than the rest of us, or maybe not. But same, this site is for me a good site, i don't see any trouble with it, except the same problem since our start.
 
Again, I'm not meaning it to be taken quite that way. I'm just as simple as the next guy. I'm saying I'm more technical and while thats good for things like this, its not always helpful in general. I use it when it's needed though, and thats good enough.

Ok, you are finally acknowledging a problem, yet denying it at the same time. Which is it?

By your own admission we've had these problems since from start. That is true. No one will deny that.

So then why do you feel theres no trouble with that? Its obviously costing us members, real, genuine members anyway. We are not half of what we could be right now, and a lack of community is to blame.

We have the tools to make it better, why not use them? Better to say something and try than to allow the problem to linger. I doubt this thread would have been necessary if a sense of community and presense was not an issue. Obviously it is, and it takes threads like this to continually point it out.
 
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