What I want in a man is...

[AcornaMordor]

Tall.. broad-shouldered... masculine. I want a manly sort of man that watches football and goes hunting with his buddies, who isn't afraid to stand up for his family or protect his home..

Yet, of course, who will submit to my will without question and is extremely ticklish and willing to be bound in various positions / situations.

Who is an extrodinary lover.. not necessarily physically but.. he's romantic, and sincere, erotic and sensual... sweet and kind and gentle...

Perhaps I'm setting my standards too high.. I don't think I've ever met that sort of man.. and probably never will..

So who has other solidous notions of their perfect mate? Anybody?

 

[MistressValerie1]

I'm bowled over by intellect, charm, and impeccable grooming, which is why I luv my subby hubby. He can be a tough guy too (he's a former featherweight boxer and avid marksman), but he doesn't make a conspicuous show of machismo. It's the toughness under the surface that I find intriguing and sexy 😉

 

[HOLLYWOOD]

the hollywood brother is here to tell you not to give the hell up! Do you hear the hollywood brother? YOu must not give up. If you keep the faith and keep believeing then the hollywood brother is proof positive that you will find what you desire

 

[onan]

if you were not so far - id like to meet you 😀


you are the kind of girls - i like 🙂

but i think im to young for you ... but i would like to be bound :happy:

 

[Wade1]

Toughness under the surface, twitchiness on the surface, huh?

I know I've got more than enough from column B--a surfeit, an excess; if I could dole out some of my excess ticklishness to others then by God I'd do it.

I think I've got column A covered too; hard to say with confidence, though, when one is so easily reduced to giggles...

 

[AcornaMordor]

Wade are you bragging or are you making an offer? Keeping in mind I live in Alabama...

 

[HOLLYWOOD]

the hollywood brother do not want you to settle for less than a great catch from right here on this grand forum where the bestp osters in the world come to post

 

[MistressValerie1]

It's best to keep an open mind about the qualities one seeks in a life partner. Sometimes the best person for you is not the one who meets your initial expectations 🙂

 

[AcornaMordor]

Well I've -been- keeping an open mind.. it's just I'm starting to think I need to narrow it slightly so as not to seem desperate and needy...? Y'know..?

 

[Mislaffsalot]

Well I've -been- keeping an open mind.. it's just I'm starting to think I need to narrow it slightly so as not to seem desperate and needy...? Y'know..?

Don't narrow your expectations in the least. I agree with your idea of the perfect man completely. Why should we expect or accept anything less? I just think that maybe once we meet Mr. Right he'll fit into all those categories, just not in the way we originally perceived. At least, that's what I keep telling myself. 🙂

 

[Wade1]

Wade are you bragging or are you making an offer? Keeping in mind I live in Alabama...

Bragging? Most of the people I know consider my ticklishness to be not a source of braggadocio but rather an embarrassing, somewhat girly and infinitely entertaining weakness...

Meanwhile, I agree with the other comments you've gotten: hang on to your standards! Compromise in the pursuit of happines is no virtue. But at the same time, always be prepared to be surprised...

 

[Rattigan]

Tall.. broad-shouldered... masculine. I want a manly sort of man that watches football and goes hunting with his buddies, who isn't afraid to stand up for his family or protect his home..

I´m for you. But, unfortunately, I´m "imprisoned" for my "Tower´s Bridge job". So, I´m helpless, at your mercy........And I´m very ticklish.........

 

[AcornaMordor]

Eh,.. If you're in the tower of London, I think you're an ocean too far away.. and if your picture is any reference, You MIGHT be a little over my age limit ^.^;;

 

[Rattigan]

Eh,.. If you're in the tower of London, I think you're an ocean too far away.. and if your picture is any reference, You MIGHT be a little over my age limit

Yes, I´m in the Tower of London, but I think you would not recognize me if you look the picture only. Perhaps you think I´m too old? No, no, no. You could not imagine. I´m not blessed by the eternal youth, but I´m still a young man (I think).
And, as I used to say in a film: Good bye, so soon. 😀

 

[AcornaMordor]

Well I'm 19... so ... If you only -think- you're a young man.. eh..

 

[Kalamos]

Goodneess... his profile says 1974... what is you idea of young, eh? 😉

So... let's recap, you want a submissive stud, in love with you, aged about 20-25?

...

Good luck. 😉

 

[Noeyes1]

By all means keep those standards high. There are a great many fella`s here who may fit into your want list.The problem as always in this community is distance.Never stop looking for a good fit though its worth the time and energy.After all there is no substute for the very thing your looking for ask any collector.

 

[Rattigan]

Well I'm 19... so ... If you only -think- you're a young man.. eh..

I´m afraid you are all right, and I´m quite old for you. But in my country we think the people of thirteen years are still young, and my spirit is getting younger.
Ok, I must accept it: some ages are awful for boys.

 

[Rattigan]

Oh, my God. Did I say thirteen? I wish, but I´m not. I should have said thirty. I´m afraid my mind is getting quite mad. Forgive me. Perhaps all I want is the eternal youth, like Dorian Grey, but I don´t have any "picture".

 

[Wade1]

Things are gettin' Wilde in here...

 

[HOLLYWOOD]

in today's sopciety the hollywood brother finds that being born in 1974 like the hollywood brother was means your old. however there is a easy fix. Hang out with older folks and then you can be the young stallion that can tickle someone all night long

 

[nessonite1]

Acorna don't be so quick to rule out more mature men. My hubby is 13 years my senior and I've been with him since I was...well...younger than you. 😛 Men take a long time to grow up and younger guys often don't have what it takes to be in a relationship. 😛

 

[TickledToDeath]

You should keep your standards as high as you want them to be. One should NOT settle for if one chooses to settle, they will spend their time in the world of "what if" and even if subconsciously and or only some of the time, looking and or thinking what would happen IF the person they were looking for suddenly comes along. If and when that happens, and most likely it probably will someday, you will then either live in regret or be pressed with having to make "choices". But HEY, Acor, you are still quite young and have lots of time to find your mister right. BE patient. Look around and you will definitely eventually find exactly what and who you are looking for.
Stick to your wants,desires and needs. For true happiness, all need to be fulfilled, physically and psychologically.

TTD

 

[quesecotil1]

Personally I think that at only 19 years of age you should be concentrating on your career path and the rest of your life. Set the foundations for your life before you start splashing out on extras. Of course I don't know you so I have no idea if you're still in education like me, if you're in full time work or if you're doing something completely different.

If I were you I'd try to get everything else as good as you can get it first. I don't know how easy it is for you to pick up guys, especially guys of that calibre, though I do believe that your sights are probably not too high, there are a lot of people in this world, and that you may be thinking about this and going about this too quickly.

My main advice though would be to stop and think a little about your life first. Men come and go, you won’t necessarily find your Mr Right instantaneously; in fact you may in fact never meet him at all. That’s what I’m doing at the moment, I believe I can relate.

 

[girls_tickle_me1]

Hmmmmmm, I gave up on the idea of a perfect, permanent gal years ago. I love being a bachelor and just doing the dating thing for what it was like back in my high school days- fun, adventurous, usually temporary and definitely uncommitted. I value my freedom and independence too much to be locked down into a marriage or serious engagement. There are many days that I just want to go home and not have to answer to some chick wondering where I have been, what I have been doing and who I have been with. Lots of times I like to just go home and be alone or hang out with my buddies too without any interruptions or aggravations. So my opinion for a perfect mate is not to ever have one in the first place!