What would you do?

[tman56]

My girlfriend's daughter is 33 and has the lovliest size 7 1/2 feet I have ever laid eys on. High arches, perfect toes, long legs, (5' 7") you know the story. She and her husband spend alot time at our house socially and she is frequently barefoot. Occasionally she takes naps on our recliners with her beautiful tootsies exposed. I know she is very ticklish because her husband (who is the jealous type) has run a finger over her soles and she said "stop it, you know how ticklish I am!") My question to you is: Would I be out of line if I ran a finger up her sole at the opportune time? Her and I have a good relationship and I consider myself a gentleman but the temptation is getting to me. What would you do?

 

[amk714]

No, I don't think that'd be out of line, tman. Just tickle her when her husband's not around. If you both have a good relationship, I don't think she'll tell her husband that you tickled her. Good luck! 🙂

 

[Novus]

Go for it

I don't think it is out of line for you to tickle her for a few seconds. Unless the husbend is one of us he won't care even if you do it right in front of him. Remember the vanilla world sees tickling as just innocent fun.

 

[milagros317]

try it once

I would do it, once, just for a few seconds. Then see what the reaction is. If she objects, then don't repeat. If you're lucky, she will treat it as playful and fun.

Good luck.

 

[Strelnikov]

Concur. Just don't get carried away. Say 30 seconds - 60 tops - would be about right.

Strelnikov

 

[Myriads]

Seeign as you are here on the TMF it's pretty safe to assume that tickling is a sexual activity for you. Or at least one that takes on some serious errotic overtones for you.

So, lets snap this into context.

You want to have a sexualy based interaction with your daughter in law.

So.... Does your wife know about your tickling fetish? How would she feel about this? Might she be disturbed by you 'playing around' with a relative by marrage? With anyone else?

Is it right? It all depends where the lines are in your relationships. Only you know where they are.

Myriads

 

[LEB]

If you're talking about equating tickling to sex, isn't what he's talking about equivalent to something like a peck on the cheek?

Would anyone get mad about someone giving their daughter in law a peck on the cheek or call it cheating?

I'd doubt it.

LEB

 

[Myriads]

I consider myself a gentleman but the temptation is getting to me. What would you do?

People who 'consider themselves gentlemen' but are 'dealing with temptation' are not thinking in the context of 'peck on the cheek'.

That's what I base my point around. There is a sexual aspect here. One is not tempted to peck somone one the cheek.

Myriads

 

[amk714]

You want to have a sexualy based interaction with your daughter in law.

You make some good points, Myriads, but doesn't tman56 state that the woman is his girlfriend's daughter and thus she is not a relative and he isn't married? That might not change your reasoning but I'm just curious. Thanks! 🙂

 

[tman56]

Thank you all for your responses. This would be the equivalent of a peck on the cheek, nothing more. Sexual, maybe in another lifetime but out of the question now. If the timing is right, and I work up the nerve to give her a quick stroke of the sole, you guys (and girls) will be the second ones to know! Thanks,tman56

 

[Sunriseticklee]

Hmmm.....
I am trying not to assume that she is irratated or angry when she says to her husband, "Stop it! You know how ticklish I am!"

But if she is indeed serious and not liking when her husband does that, where do you have reason to believe that your touch will be any more welcome than his was?

She may not really like being tickled and if her husband can't do it, why should you sneak behind his back and do it too.

Hey, plus, if a guy (in general) is trying to sneak behind a man's back and tease/ flirt with his wife, why can't the guy have the balls to do the exact same thing in front of the jealous husband's face?

Hmmmm..... Just a thought. Not that I am encouraging you to do it one way or another. I just think there are other factors besides one's own quick pleasures to think about. Mainly the woman's feelings and her husband's feelings.

Live, Laugh and TICKLE
Sunriseticklee

 

[Neutron]

If You...

Touched any lady without her prior consent I'd thump you.

If you touched a lady I was with there'd be nothing left of you to touch anyone ever again.

Damn where are your morals???


Tron

 

[Iggy pop]

Would anyone get mad about someone giving their daughter in law a peck on the cheek or call it cheating?

I'd doubt it.

LEB

Probably not, but if you french kissed your daughter in law then you might have a problem. Tickling is a strange thing. While you daughter in law may view it harmless playful action, you yourself receive a sexual thrill from it. If she knew that you recieved a sexual thrill from it she may not view as harmless. So really I don't know what you should do. Do what you want, but be prepared for the consequences.

 

[ForgottenTcklr]

I agree with the mass.

If it is going to be a sexual experience, and you don't want to get involved in anyway sexually with your step-daughter, then stay away from it. If you are able to separate sexual tickling and playful tickling, then you are alright. But if to you tickling is all the same (all sexual), then my best bet is to stay as far away from that as you can!

 

[BellaRisa]

My question to you is: Would I be out of line if I ran a finger up her sole at the opportune time? Her and I have a good relationship and I consider myself a gentleman but the temptation is getting to me. What would you do?

I'll take a whack at this one from a different point of view. My father-in-law quickly tickles my feet all the time when we're at their place. I don't think about it either way, he's like my own dad and it means nothing to me. It's actually kinda funny, I'll be kneeling to reach something and he'll tickle me, and I'll think it's my hubby and get all flustered and blush-'til I turn and see my little gnome-like Dad. That's like a bucket of ice water in January, lemmee tell ya .

But HE gets to do that because I've been the daughter he never had for 11 years now-he loves me. (And I gave him two granddaughters, I am now a goddess). Plus I know he's NOT one of us. If he put his hand on my rear or elsewhere we'd have Springer-type issues. What you're asking is whether you'd be out of line to cop a feel, just because that feel would be very subtle in the vanilla world. I know folks will disagree, but I feel that sex depends on your interest-if a foot man grabs my toe and runs away, how different is that from a breast man grabbing my nipple and fleeing (and how WEIRD would that be??)?

You said yourself-she doesn't like to have her feet tickled, and since you mentioned that her husband is the jealous type you must suspect he'd be miffed. So you're asking if we think it's cool to annoy at least two people for your own self-gratification. I'll let you guess my answer 🙄

Bella

 

[JoBelle]

...and has the lovliest size 7 1/2 feet I have ever laid eys on. High arches, perfect toes, long legs, (5' 7") you know the story...

Let's just change body parts for a moment.

"...and has the most beautiful breasts, firm, and full. With a tight waist and an ass to die for, (5'7") you know the story..." I wonder what's the difference between tickling her foot and oh, say, running a finger anywhere else on her body? 🙄

Now just remember this one possible measure, if you have to wait for your girlfriend and her husband to leave the room, then it's probably not a good thing.

Oh, yeah, speaking of your girlfriend....why not tickle her instead?
Joby

 

[Iggy pop]

Re: Re: What would you do?

Let's just change body parts for a moment.

"...and has the most beautiful breasts, firm, and full. With a tight waist and an ass to die for, (5'7") you know the story..." I wonder what's the difference between tickling her foot and oh, say, running a finger anywhere else on her body? 🙄

There is a diffrence, because society views it diffrent. All touching is not the same. It is appropiate to shake somebody's hand when you meet them, but grabbing somebody's ass and breasts would not be acceptable. The problem here is that his daughter in law does not know that the tickle give this a guy a sexual thrill.

 

[dvnc]

Just chimin' in wit' agreement wit' Ms. Bella's perspective. I *will* say it loud, though. I think it's one BAD idea to do. Too many things you said point that out.

If you're ignorin' the folks here that are INTO this, that play regularly, pointin' out where somethin' is bad news by our perspective, well, perhaps you made a mistake in askin' the whole forum. Clearly, many here find what you propose to be a bad way about it.

IF she didn't already express dislikin' it, and IF her hubby weren't lookin' jealous, and IF your wife (who KNOWS you're kinked) were cool about it, AND you positively got no sexual thrill out of it, THEN maybe...

But wit' that many exceptions, it just don't seem wise, man.

 

[BellaRisa]

Be a man, not a pest

There is a diffrence, because society views it diffrent. All touching is not the same. It is appropiate to shake somebody's hand when you meet them, but grabbing somebody's ass and breasts would not be acceptable. The problem here is that his daughter in law does not know that the tickle give this a guy a sexual thrill.

I understand your point, Iggy, but I see this differently. First, people shake hands as an expected ritual of greeting, and they *offer* their hand to be shaken. It's rare (and creepy as hell) when someone grabs your hand to shake it before you even raise it for them. The difference is that you consent to indulge in a mutual handshake. Ain't nuthin' mutual about slinking up on someone for tickling they didn't ask for and you know they don't want.

Furthermore, I think you can completely remove the sexual aspect from this situation and still find it a no-no, based simply on respect for other humans. You're right that all touching is not the same, but even nonsexual touching is frowned upon if annoying and uninvited. I have said this many times on this forum: keep your hands to yourselves, fellas.

If the young lady wore her hair in braids and he knew she HATED having them pulled even gently, you'd probably think him as ass for pulling them anyway. He didn't hurt her or do anything sexual, but he *did* bug the crap out of her for his own amusement. As they say in preschool, "that's NOT okay!"


Sexually or not, we need to respect other people's bodies. 😎

Bella

 

[Iggy pop]

Honestly, i don't know if this is a good idea or a bad idea. I don't think anyone is in risk of serious harm. Most likely her and her husband will view it as harmless playing. Now, t-man how do you view it is the question. Is it is something you will feel guilty about then you should not do it.

 

[TickledToDeath]

t

It would not be "out of line" however to play it safe, if her husband is around at the opportune time, quietly motion to him if it will be ok for you to do it.
Also, inquire if perhaps you and he could team up on her and you both could grab a ticklish bare sole and tickle away.

Nothing like "Teamwork"😉 😀


TTD

 

[BellaRisa]

Re: t

It would not be "out of line" however to play it safe, if her husband is around at the opportune time, quietly motion to him if it will be ok for you to do it.
Also, inquire if perhaps you and he could team up on her and you both could grab a ticklish bare sole and tickle away.

Nothing like "Teamwork"😉 😀


TTD

Um, yes it would be out of line. Her husband doesn't have say over HER body. And double teaming is a good way to earn double black eyes .

Bella

 

[dvnc]

Anyone noticin' that, thus far, there's no women sayin' "go for it" here? Women are sayin' no, here. Sunrise, Bella, QB...

Some of the men are even sayin' it's a bad notion.

Yet, somehow, the idea of tickling a woman against her wishes, with or without her jealous husband around, is being discussed as if the notion had ANY sense whatsoever.

Karma says that everything goes around, and comes back around on you. I'm hopin' you boys tellin' this guy that he oughta go against both the daughter-in-law's and the son's wishes WITH THE DAUGHTER-IN-LAW'S body are ready for such things to happen to you.

TTD, how are you about such? If someone put hands to Patti after she'd said not to, I have a clear notion in my head as to how long they'd continue seein' straight, and stayin' vertical. If the young man in this scenario is anything like either of us, then the gent askin' this question could be riskin' himself. At the least, it'll bring about bad feelings, given that we know, by his own description, that the young man's not too open in general, and the lady's already against such notions. That's what I'm sayin', man. If it was YOU, and your father-in-law (speculate, brother) was spanking/foot-fondling/insert-OTHER-kink-here, how down wit' it would ya be. I picture mayhem.

My worry is that the enthusiastic among us are forgettin' the bounds of social interaction outside of our kind. Some folks don't dig physical intrusion like we do, and tickling IS a physical intrusion. Given the ladies here, thus far, nix the notion, and some gents do as well, I'm hopin' that you either don't do it, or that you misrepresented the situation, and there's no worries. Hate seein' one of us injured.

 

[Iggy pop]

You know I have tickled a woman without expressed written or verbal permission beforehand. I know I must be going to hell. Now that I think about it, some women have tickled me without my expressed written or verbal consent. How dare they! Wait now that I think about it this thing happens all the time in the real world. People have made assumptions that the Daughter in law will find it creepy. Maybe she will. I don't know because I don't know what kind of relationship the two have. He said it was good, but it was not very detailed. So really t-man don't listen to anyone here no matter if they say it is right or wrong. You know what kind of relationship you have and based on that you should know if it is appropiate or inappropiate. Because nobody know what kind of relationship you have only you do, and only you know if it is right or wrong

 

[amk714]

No, I don't think that'd be out of line, tman. Just tickle her when her husband's not around. If you both have a good relationship, I don't think she'll tell her husband that you tickled her. Good luck! 🙂

I was ! After reading all of the replies after mine, I say to you, tman: Please don't do it! I wasn't thinking when I posted that. Thanks to all (or most) of you for making me realize how stupid I was. 🙂 I love this forum! 😀 Now someone tickle me as punishment. 😉