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When friends become murderers

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ok, heres the deal. i am former friends with a guy who is facing the death penalty for a rape and murder in gainesville, GA. i havent seen him since about 2-3 months before he killed the woman, and i was pretty good friends with him. he was kinda weird, but him and i always got along, i gave him a ride home once from the place we were chillin at. but now i dunno whats up, he killed a woman, and is likely to be put to death, and its bothering me.....i feel the need to see him before hes killed, but im not sure if its such a good idea. its a very strange, confused feeling, being in the position im in. on 1 hand, the guy i hung out with on thursdays, 1 of the few people i remained friends with in that group, is about to be killed and i have 1 last chance to talk to him. on the other, hes a cold, ruthless killer and i dont want anything to do with him. i have no idea what to do.......so i come to my venting place, tickletheater, and ask if anybody has any advice for me. heres the link if anybody wants to read the story.

http://www.gainesvilletimes.com/news/archive/1553/
 
Well, VMANDUDE, you should go to see him. You might never have another chance. Plus the murder may look cold blooded, but he may not be. So go see him.
 
Man that is a sad story. Why does this happen to people. I dont think I would see him though. Sounds like he has gone off the deep end and may try some other crazy stunt. I wonder if he is really off his rocker or if he is doing these things hoping for an insanity plea, who knows. Anyway, Im sorry this happened to your friend and Im sorry for the girl he killed, its a messed up world.🙁
 
look that friend of yours may be what they say but he is still good at heart you should see him for yours and his sake, he might want a friend to talk to on his last day
 
limbo123 said:
look that friend of yours may be what they say but he is still good at heart you should see him for yours and his sake, he might want a friend to talk to on his last day
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My sentiments exactly.
 
limbo123 said:
look that friend of yours may be what they say but he is still good at heart you should see him for yours and his sake, he might want a friend to talk to on his last day
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I agree with you both, but he has already set his cell on fire and written s#$t on his face. Its just a bad deal but maybe he does need somebody and you might could help. Who knows what happened to him.
 
A last chance is a last chance...and, as challenging as it will be for you to see him, it's still the last time you get to...no matter what he's done, he's still about to die...it might offer you closure to see him...seeing what he's become might help you to cope with all of this, knowing he's no longer the person you once knew...

He won't be able to hurt you or do anything stupid--there will be guards everywhere, and probably protective barriers between the two of you if he's on death row...

Take the chance...say goodbye...you only get one opportunity...

Best of luck with your decision...I support you no matter what path you choose...I can't say for certain what I would do if I were in your shoes...I'm sending positive vibes your way...
 
Hmmm... this is hard question, but I know something. True friendship survives everything. If he was your true friend and you were his, then talk to him. People have their demons, but they are still the people we love.
 
If I may...

It sounds to me as though everything went downhill starting with his being kicked out of his house... I have been faced with this before (my father and I never really got along too well... we still don't at times but we try to work things out instead of fighting) and can tell you that prospect does something to you... you go into survival mode.

It's possible the person you know is still in there... waiting for one friendly face to come pull him to the surface. Reach out to him... talk with him. Try to help him come to terms with himself.

Chances are he won't get the death penalty (you know how many people have waited decades on death row?) and he may get a second chance... if you can help him to resurface, he may very well prove worthy of this chance.

Whether or not US Law sees fit to give it to him is another story...

Go talk to him mate... be cautious and don't pry too hard, but try to get your old friend back.
 
vmandude said:
ok, heres the deal. i am former friends with a guy who is facing the death penalty for a rape and murder in gainesville, GA. i havent seen him since about 2-3 months before he killed the woman, and i was pretty good friends with him. he was kinda weird, but him and i always got along, i gave him a ride home once from the place we were chillin at. but now i dunno whats up, he killed a woman, and is likely to be put to death, and its bothering me.....i feel the need to see him before hes killed, but im not sure if its such a good idea. its a very strange, confused feeling, being in the position im in. on 1 hand, the guy i hung out with on thursdays, 1 of the few people i remained friends with in that group, is about to be killed and i have 1 last chance to talk to him. on the other, hes a cold, ruthless killer and i dont want anything to do with him. i have no idea what to do.......so i come to my venting place, tickletheater, and ask if anybody has any advice for me. heres the link if anybody wants to read the story.

http://www.gainesvilletimes.com/news/archive/1553/
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i'd say since he will be put to death soon, is that you should go see him, because if you do, you will be taking care of both feelings, you can see him now and say as his friend, and when he is put to death you can just go on with your life and forget about him because he will be out of your life, i know that sounded cold, but its a good way to take care of mixed feelings.
 
Personally, I have essentially no sympathy for cold-blooded killers, which it sounds to me like your friend was at least at the time he committed the crime (assuming there's no serious question of his guilt, of course, although having said that, I'm opposed to the death penalty in general, for reasons I won't hijack this thread by going into here), having been acquainted with, although not good friends with, at least three convicted murderers myself (two of whom I was actually somewhat distantly related to -- by marriage, not "by blood", so to say -- and both of whom are now serving life sentences with no chance of parole). But had they been good friends, or close family members, I suspect it's likely my feelings might be somewhat different.

But for what it's worth, assuming you'd be in no danger yourself in doing so, I might still suggest that you do go see him -- not so much for him, but rather for yourself, since you seem to feel divided on it, and I suspect that you might be more likely to have second thoughts about it later if you don't than if you do, and you (like I said, I don't give a whit about the feelings of a cold-blooded rapist-killer) might find it easier to find "closure" for the situation in your own mind, and might even learn something of some value from the experience.

Since it's not a situation quite like any I've ever been in, I may well be wrong. But since you're asking for opinions, that's mine for what it's worth.
 
If I had a dime for every act of necromancy around here, rent wouldn't be a problem! :52:
 
People, its been three years since this thread... don't revive old wounds.
 
As he was your good friend its always good to meet him at this situation, and this may be a last chance for him to meet you. If he got something to share with you......please listen to him what he want discuss with you and it may give some relaxation to him if he facing the death ahead. And I am very sorry for what your friend has done and i don't know why people become so cruel nowadays...
 
This makes me want to kill myself by overdosing on fucking Sierra Mist.

Read the sig, please.
 
If you're his wife, go to the bedroom and tell him face to face. Don't revive an ancient thread just to add that.
 
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