Which is easier...

[laughingisgood]

Let's say you just met a new romantic interest and naturally want to do some tickling with them. Do you think they'd be more likely to want to be tied down themselves and tickled or tie you down and tickle you?

 

[RangerLoki]

Depends on if they're into the scene. I'd go without bondage for a hot minute and see how that takes off.

 

[Iisme]

It all depends how much trust you have with said person. If they know you and trust you well enough then they might be willing to experiment with bondage with you.

 

[cutetummy07]

If it was someone that I trusted, I'd hope they'd want to tie me down & tickle me... lol.

 

[laughingisgood]

I guess I worded this question wrong, try this instead.

Do you think someone without a tickling fetish would rather be a lee or a ler?

 

[P[a]pi]

If they're straight vanillia probably a ler. At least the first time anyway.

 

[Beckers1]

I'm not sure if ler really is the way to go, I mean you would have to instigate them to tickle you. Now if you're asking which is better to ask openly about maybe it's best to ask the person in question, not us because who would know their own preference better then them. They might hate being tickled or they might find if fun!

 

[Volsung1]

If it's a NEW romantic interest. Then you shouldn't tie them down at all...

Even if they want to...


That's progressing way too fast in my opinion. You have to get to know them really well first. You're running the risk of some personal relationship damage here.