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Why are Men Sexually Protective of their Young Daughters?
vmandude1
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my best guess is because as a man, they know what the young male mind usually focuses on....sex. granted that isnt always the case, but due to the large number of times that it is true, all men get stereotyped that way.
DarthGrinn
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For the same reason men are sexually protective over their young sons; wives, girlfriends and anybody else they hold dear. Women are just as sexually protective... It's just natural instict to protect the ones you hold dear from being victimized in any kind of way.
SilverleafLycan1
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I must agree with the previous posts. I think guys are more vocal about it though because, for the most part, we are bigger then the young guys dating our daughters (plus we're normally old enough to get firearms and drink ourselves to crazy).
For myself, i've told my gf's ex thta i'd break his arm if he ever touched her again, this was after finding out multiple attempts of his to cheat on her when he was dating her, and all he ever wanted was sex (he got none of it though). Iunno, I do tend to be much more violent when it comes to those I care about. Maybe it goes back to caveman days, we have to protect our family from whatever will hunt them. And in today's world, guys hunt girls for sex.
For myself, i've told my gf's ex thta i'd break his arm if he ever touched her again, this was after finding out multiple attempts of his to cheat on her when he was dating her, and all he ever wanted was sex (he got none of it though). Iunno, I do tend to be much more violent when it comes to those I care about. Maybe it goes back to caveman days, we have to protect our family from whatever will hunt them. And in today's world, guys hunt girls for sex.
blackmagicjack1
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Here's a biological approach to that question. Fathers protect their young daughters because if there is an offspring, guess who has to raise it. The daughter is too young to survive on her own and even if the male who got her pregnant decides to support her, he is too young to be established to a point where he can take care of family. Which means the father may get saddled also with a semi-productive male also. Extra family members add stress to the family support system.
Just a note: Women hunt men too.
Just a note: Women hunt men too.
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Cbarton
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The day you become a father, the protective instinct kicks in. It's a father/provider thing that God built into we men. My daughter is only 10-1/2 and I've been watching the boys in the neighborhood, at school and at church for the last 8 years, knowing that any of them are potential dates and suitors for my little lady.
I would even be bold enough to say that if you weren't protective in such a way with your daughter, you are failing her as a father AND as a man. In Stu Weber's excellent book "Four Pillars of a Man's Heart", he describes the four basic aspects of true manhood: King, Warrior, Mentor, Friend. In the King role, he describes how the King is like a shepherd. Fail to protect the flock and the wolves will pick them off, one or more at a time. A true father is the same way. With the way the media and Hollywood hyper-promotes promiscuity, I either have to choose to protect my daughter, or let those "wolves" devour her. She's too precious a person for me to allow her to become the next victim of someone's undisciplined libido.
I would even be bold enough to say that if you weren't protective in such a way with your daughter, you are failing her as a father AND as a man. In Stu Weber's excellent book "Four Pillars of a Man's Heart", he describes the four basic aspects of true manhood: King, Warrior, Mentor, Friend. In the King role, he describes how the King is like a shepherd. Fail to protect the flock and the wolves will pick them off, one or more at a time. A true father is the same way. With the way the media and Hollywood hyper-promotes promiscuity, I either have to choose to protect my daughter, or let those "wolves" devour her. She's too precious a person for me to allow her to become the next victim of someone's undisciplined libido.
