why do most girls hate guys with foot fetishes

[BlackmoonDoll]

Now first let me point out that. I do like girls feet and think that some of you ladies do have nice and pretty well keeped feet 😉. But its not really no where near a fetish of mine.

But with that said. It seems to me like alot of girls online and i'm sure in real life as well simply hate guys with foot fetishes. And when you ask them why they do? they don't give you any really good reasons as to why. All they say is the normal simple things like because well feet are gross, there icky, i can't stand to even look at feet, etc etc.... I mean what can't of small minded logic is that? at least back up it with some real reasons as to why you dislike guys that have foot fetishes.

(I would appericate the guys input on this (for the guys that do have a foot fetish) and for also the girls as well your input is welcome also!)



Sorry i can't stand some people online at times Arghh. So i just like to rant and rave over things 😡

 

[tickleshotel]

Blackmoon I can;t speak but for myself..I love hearing that a guy has a foot fetish,it makes me smile that a guy would adore,admire my feet ,massage,tickle,worship,lick,nibble..
I myself also have a foot fetish in addition to my love of tickling,and I have come across guys that were surprised if I commented on how nice their feet were..
Just a lady ticklee,ler opinion

 

[feetclimax]

I think this hatred spawns from their own personal opinion towards feet, since they hate them they cant understand why other people would which is kinda thinking 2D. What you need to do in future is after they say "because feet are gross etc." then tell them that it still doesnt answer why you would have hatred towards the actual guy, its one thing to dislike something that someone else does, thats ok, but to hate someone for liking something is totally different and one sided. Saying that they are gross and you hate em is like saying brocoli is gross and you hate that, but you dont go around hating people for liking brocoli do ya?

Anyways if you ever encounter situation like this just remember that hating a certain subject or desire etc is one thing but dont hate the actual person because of it.

Dont forget that alot of girls think that we foot folk go around and stare at peoples feet and try to suck and lick every chance we get, you ever watched the scene from Road Trip? lets just say it didnt help in making it more accepted by the norm.

 

[revolter]

Mostly it would be because they hate how their feet looks ( I know that from experience ) OR because their feet are oh-so-ticklish and they don't like tickles ( also from experience ).

But I can tell ya ( also from experience 😀 ) that some of those girls who think they have "ugly feet" had some of the cutest feetsies I had seen 😀

hope this answers your question 😎

 

[steph]

I dunno...

I ADORE my foot fetish guys...😛

XOXO

Blackmoon I can;t speak but for myself..I love hearing that a guy has a foot fetish,it makes me smile that a guy would adore,admire my feet ,massage,tickle,worship,lick,nibble..

 

[BlackmoonDoll]

Doesn't that seem very ignorant though to anybody else besides me?

Just because some girls hate guys that have foot fetishes and that like feet they automatically hate the guy as well in some cases. To me that seems just down right mean and cruel. That is why i don't like sometimes even bringing up tickling discussions (on other NON tickling forums) because some of the members there are so unwilling and don't care to even be nice to other people that may like tickling or that even may like feet. Of course thats NOT everybody online some people online are not that way some are actually cool and very open and will actually discuss and talk with you about tickling for along time and get to know the ins and outs as to why you like it. Thoses are the kind of girls i like to talk with online are the ones that can be open minded and be nice and cool with me and with my tickling fetish. Because then it just makes things way more fun and way more relaxed when getting to know that person more. Insted of just everytime you bring up tickling or feet you get shut down and made fun of for it

 

[parkcity]

Maybe its because its both unusual and it centers on a physical aspect of the women but not HER herself. Not that I believe that it is deliberate, but I think it may be similar to a man looking at a women's breasts while they speak to her. The fact that the feet are an odd part of the body to focus on, this may be part of the distaste.

 

[Knox The Hatter]

Never a problem with me. If you have the right way of presenting yourself, and you do it successfully, you can date the person with anchovies sticking out of your nose, and marshmallow fluff slopping in your shoes. Doesn't matter. If you come across right, eight times out of ten, you can get them to indulge your foot fetish. The other two usually aren't worth a shit anyway.

No woman I've been with has ever denied me her feet.

 

[ticklkitten]

I think that women are generally flattered when you show an interest in a certain part of their body, no matter what. it is just a challange of finding the right open minded girl.

 

[BlackmoonDoll]

I think that women are generally flattered when you show an interest in a certain part of their body, no matter what. it is just a challange of finding the right open minded girl.

thats the key part Kitten. you hit the nail on the head

''open mindedness'' thats hard to come by theses Days 🙁

 

[TicklishSinner]

my fiancee has a foot fetish and im begginning to like it more and more...but some pepople just dont see why feet can be attractive...to each thier own, it is kinda shitty that pepople wont talk to others because of that

 

[Neutron]

It's Ignorant To Assume "Most" Girls..

Hate guys with foot fetishes based on the limited number you've "met" online.

Try experiencing women in the real world, then make a judgement.

At least that's how I'd do it.

Tron

 

[crydun]

Re: I dunno...

I ADORE my foot fetish guys...😛

XOXO

me too! I love to have my feet played with. Long as they keep their saliva to themselves! Lol. 😛

 

[fitnesstickle]

Re: I dunno...

I ADORE my foot fetish guys...😛

XOXO

And we love you for it, My Siren. <a href='http://www.smileycentral.com/?partner=ZSzeb008_VSXXXXXX46US' target='_blank'><img src='http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/1/1_4_83.gif' border=0></a>

 

[Mitchell]

I have found this too, both online, and real world. My ex girlfriend Jenny used to let me play with her feet, but I think part of the reason was because she wasnt ticklish, and didnt have to worry I would tickle torture her or anything. Her reaction toward it was more so that I was silly, but as my girlfriend, she felt she wanted to make me happy.
I have also tickled, massaged, and played with a few female friends feet in college. With them, foot tickling happened during a foot massage or other playful activity. Clearly, they didnt like being tickled on their feet, and it was hard to tell how they would have reacted if our friendship had become more, and I would have wanted to play with their feet on a regular basis.
In general, I have discussed feet with female letter pen pals, as well as tmf'ers. With a very few execeptions, I find that most girls do think feet are gross, or that their feet are ugly. I dont know why this is, but it just seems that way. I did have one female letter pen pal for a while who told me that her ex boyfriend used to massage, tickle, and kiss her feet, and that although she wasnt exactly "into" feet, she wouldnt mind if she had a significant other who wanted to pay attention to them.
In my experience, both from talking to TMF girls who dont have foot fetishes or dont like feet, as well as girls off TMF, I find that with a very few exceptions, most women dont like feet. They dont like having their feet worshipped, or tickled, and such. Some girls cant stand being touched on their feet because their feet are hyperticklish, while others just dont like the shape of their feet, their nails, or that they sweat, and can smell bad. For whatever reason, my experience has been that with a very rare exception, most girls do hate feet, so I have to agree with this poster on that issue. I believe that it requires a very open minded and understanding woman for a man to indulge in his foot fetish. Being that I have a foot fetish in addition to tickling, Iam sincerely hoping a find such a person when I do settle down.

Mitch

 

[nemisis5323]

I guess I got lucky, when I told this girl that I had a foot fetish she offered me her feet!

 

[BlackmoonDoll]

I have found this too, both online, and real world. My ex girlfriend Jenny used to let me play with her feet, but I think part of the reason was because she wasnt ticklish, and didnt have to worry I would tickle torture her or anything. Her reaction toward it was more so that I was silly, but as my girlfriend, she felt she wanted to make me happy.
I have also tickled, massaged, and played with a few female friends feet in college. With them, foot tickling happened during a foot massage or other playful activity. Clearly, they didnt like being tickled on their feet, and it was hard to tell how they would have reacted if our friendship had become more, and I would have wanted to play with their feet on a regular basis.
In general, I have discussed feet with female letter pen pals, as well as tmf'ers. With a very few execeptions, I find that most girls do think feet are gross, or that their feet are ugly. I dont know why this is, but it just seems that way. I did have one female letter pen pal for a while who told me that her ex boyfriend used to massage, tickle, and kiss her feet, and that although she wasnt exactly "into" feet, she wouldnt mind if she had a significant other who wanted to pay attention to them.
In my experience, both from talking to TMF girls who dont have foot fetishes or dont like feet, as well as girls off TMF, I find that with a very few exceptions, most women dont like feet. They dont like having their feet worshipped, or tickled, and such. Some girls cant stand being touched on their feet because their feet are hyperticklish, while others just dont like the shape of their feet, their nails, or that they sweat, and can smell bad. For whatever reason, my experience has been that with a very rare exception, most girls do hate feet, so I have to agree with this poster on that issue. I believe that it requires a very open minded and understanding woman for a man to indulge in his foot fetish. Being that I have a foot fetish in addition to tickling, Iam sincerely hoping a find such a person when I do settle down.

Mitch

Thank you Mitch. Well put this is by far the most thought out post out of all the others that replyed to my Thread.

🙂

 

[ticklkitten]

That is a great reply Mitch and Blackmoondoll I am liking you more every day. The point is though that there are plenty of smart, attractive open minded women out there. You just need to look in the right places, have the right attitude and keep trying. There is no hurry and when you find the right lady you'll be glad you waited. Foot fetish, tickling paraphilia or not... we all need to find someone who accepts us for who we are.

 

[BlackmoonDoll]

That is a great reply Mitch and Blackmoondoll I am liking you more every day. The point is though that there are plenty of smart, attractive open minded women out there. You just need to look in the right places, have the right attitude and keep trying. There is no hurry and when you find the right lady you'll be glad you waited. Foot fetish, tickling paraphilia or not... we all need to find someone who accepts us for who we are.

Yeah. That may sound easy and simple on paper to do Kitten. But with the world the way that it is today now a days its hard to find girls and woman that are into things that you are. and to even find open minded girls and woman is even harder yet. The Fetish community as a whole (ALL fetishes NOT just tickling) is way more open minded and kind. Then most normals out there (normals= people who are not into the whole fetish things and turns on and that are not open minded and not kind at all to anybody that is)

so its like a no win win sistutation


you know?

 

[ticklkitten]

It's not no win. It only sometimes win which is how all relationships are anyhow. At least you live in the time we do. Imagine have a fetish a hundred years ago? You think that in this day and age it is harder?? I think it's tons easier because so many alternative lifestyles are accepted. And if you are looking for a woman with the same fetish interests then keep yourself in the fetish community. The older you get the better you are at figuring out someone's personality ahead of time. Please take my word for truth. Lots of girls are open minded. Even when it comes to foot fetishes. 🙂 I promise.

 

[fttickler]

Ahhhh....

Kitten.. a girl after my own heart

 

[MsDivaNYC]

THEY DOOOO??

Really? I had no idea!!! Well, Maybe I don't see anything unnatural about it due to My line of work...But I LOVE a guy who wants to suck on My feet, toes, nibble on My soles, etc. Yummy! Trust me, after 5 years of being a pro-Domme, foot fetishism is by far the TAMEST fetish of all!

 

[BlackmoonDoll]

Re: THEY DOOOO??

Really? I had no idea!!! Well, Maybe I don't see anything unnatural about it due to My line of work...But I LOVE a guy who wants to suck on My feet, toes, nibble on My soles, etc. Yummy! Trust me, after 5 years of being a pro-Domme, foot fetishism is by far the TAMEST fetish of all!

Yeah and there again you may see it as normal and tame. And i do to. But most (normal girls online and in real life) don't see it that way most of the time.

But i guess thats just something us people that have a tickling fetish are gonna have to deal with and over come until we found the right guy or girl that will accept and be open minded about our fetish for tickling and foot fetish or not.

I see so many people judge and not be open minded about the simplest of turn ons and fetishes that people have. That is why i try to stay as open minded and non judge mental towards other peoples turn ons and there fetishes and things that they enjoy. Since i know what it means to be hurt and unwanted when a person says things about your fetish or turn on as being weird and freaky and odd and something that you need to seek help about. So i just try to treat people nice and with respect

 

[Maria_Rose]

I'm not a foot fetishist myself either, but I think it's kind of nice to have someone play with them. The thing I have encountered A LOT online which I don't like, is when you get someone who gets you psyched up for a tickle and then focusses only on your feet. I like my feet to be tickled, definitely, but I hate when other more sensitive areas are ignored because my partner is only interested in their own favorite part rather than the place that feels best to me. I always want to give pleasure as much as I receive, but when someone only touches MY body on the places that give THEM pleasure, and refuses to spend some time touching the areas that make me happy, it makes me feel as though I'm not being respected very much. I know very well that not all or even most foot fetishists are like this, but it could take only a few inconsiderate lovers like that to make a woman disinclined towards feet altogether. For awhile I lost interest in them myself, but I got interest back when I stopped letting people treat me like dirt. It's not fair to hate anyone though, and I think one should always give a person the benefit of the doubt. I know some really kind people who are into feet, and they are considerate to their partners as well. Just my humble thoughts.

 

[featherfingers]

Maria_Rose, I admit that I do focus on the feet alot, but in my defense, once I am given the green light, I will go wherever the lady wants me to go. I have a lady friend who likes to have her butt played like bongo drums. Do you think I'll pass that up? I try to respect the lady's desires, and at the same time, I fulfill my needs, too.
As for the topic of this thread...I once gave a lady a foot massage. Afterward, I began lightly stroking the tops of her feet. She literally melted and said, "I want you over here at least once a week." Sometimes women don't even realize you're a foot freak nor will they care as long as you're able to give her pleasure.