Why do you like being a 'lee?

[markansas101]

Being a 'ler myself, I am curious as to what it is that makes you 'lee's enjoy the tickling.

What do you like about being tickle tortured? Do you like being tied down? Do you like the no mercy style of tickling, or do you like the lighter tickling? How long do you like to be tickled?

 

[TKLVR181]

With me it's definitely about the psychological aspect of tickling.

I mean yeah, the feeling's nice--I'm not as ticklish as some and can, under most circumstances, hold my arms up and take it. However if I'm subjected to verbal teasing, being pinned down, that kind of thing, my tolerance for it seems to go down a little bit and I get desperate.

I love that feeling, of course blush

Being a lee for me is about being 'safe and helpless'-utterly at the ler's whims and mercy but not in an actually dangerous way. The more playful and exaggerated it is, the more butterflies I get :blush If I feel like I need to prove myself, to show that I can handle it, I can--I can slowly breathe and keep from grinning, at least for a longer than usual amount of time. However, if the 'ler is playful, constantly teasing, and someone I feel like I can show weakness too I have a tendency to break down in begs that I don't expect to be listened too :lol That feeling of utter helplessness yet having the knowledge it's safe to let my guard down--that's why I like leeing 🙂

~K

 

[tklvelvet]

Being mainly Ler 60% & 40% lee gives me only part of the picture.
On the occasions when i have been lee, its been the complete and utter feeling of being helpless and at the mercy of the ler.
Mainly when blindfolded and tied, the anticipation and fear build up not knowing when or where the next tickle is going to fall.
I have found and also heard others comment that after being the lee, when switching back to ler the performance is much improved, because of the knowledge learnt.

 

[LittleBabyBlue]

I suppose for me, since I'm mostly lee, it's an arousal of helplessness deal. Ya know, like sado-masochism and sadism and the like, cept with tickling. Also, depending on the tickler, it can drive me absolutely bonkers, and I love that. I love being able to laugh uncontrollably, as opposed to say, crying uncontrollably due to certain issues I face in my personal life.

It's more of a stress relief for me that I don't feel bad for participating in afterwards when it's all done. Also, it arouses me, so there's that. Whenever I'm a ler, it's the usual of what you'd expect; the feeling of controlling another's body against their will. But personally, I prefer being a lee, though being a ler's not always out of the question.

 

[TicklishBlackGuy]

ahhh i guess its time to spill my secret that only one person in here knows (shush u). So for me a reason i like being a lee is not just about an arousal effect, because I actually cannot help that, I like the feeling of being powerless and embarrassment that comes with it. I've never truly had a tickling experience that i can keep saying this, but the thought of someone finally overpowering me a person who strength is still to be determined and being made weakened just by something so harmless and fun. Also its a stress relief as well. I tend to put alot of my friends sstress on my back on top of my own problems and let stress get to me, then add depression in the mix and i can be a mess at certain days. So being a lee helps re leave the stress I have and i forget about my troubles and just enjoy the fun.

Now as for tickle torture...another revealing in plans. I've never been tickle tortured before and wish i get to experience it eventually. I would love a girl, who has very evil intentions, long nails (that don't hurt but effective), good with weapons, verbal and body teasing.

 

[TKLVR181]

ahhh i guess its time to spill my secret that only one person in here knows (shush u). So for me a reason i like being a lee is not just about an arousal effect, because I actually cannot help that, I like the feeling of being powerless and embarrassment that comes with it.

If you were talking to me, you're SOL on the shush factor :stickout

Seriously though, I really have no room to tease because I'm the same way. The embarrassment is like a high for me. I seriously think I might technically be addicted to what I term 'good humiliaiton'--the playful kind you feel when you realize somebody is taunting the crap out of you just to see you go red wub

~K

 

[TicklishBlackGuy]

If you were talking to me, you're SOL on the shush factor :stickout

Seriously though, I really have no room to tease because I'm the same way. The embarrassment is like a high for me. I seriously think I might technically be addicted to what I term 'good humiliaiton'--the playful kind you feel when you realize somebody is taunting the crap out of you just to see you go red wub

~K

yes it at u missy 😛 and yeah we are one in the same

 

[Dr. Bill Kobb]

Most of my fantasies revolve around tickling someone in helpless bondage, but I also like to experience exactly what that feels like on the part of the lee. thus, I go to great lengths to visit my Mistress Vivian, a couple of hours away, to thrill to being tied and tickled. It's a total rush to be bound and unable to squirm away from fingertips bent on driving me crazy with laughter. Another part that I love is how much SHE enjoys it. Though usually a cruel, strict Mistress, she takes it easy on me with the pain games and concentrates on the tickling. She has such fun causing me to giggle that she often joins in, laughing herself and having a fine time tormenting me!

 

[chicag0]

Aside from the sensation, I like the anticipation as well as the humiliation aspect. There's something about the helplessness, vulnerability, and overall power exchange. And what 'lee doesn't enjoy a little banter / verbal teasing / mindfuck? lol

 

[Ticklish&InLove]

Being a 'ler myself, I am curious as to what it is that makes you 'lee's enjoy the tickling.

What do you like about being tickle tortured? Do you like being tied down? Do you like the no mercy style of tickling, or do you like the lighter tickling? How long do you like to be tickled?

I find having someone who completely removes my own control over my body to be extremely erotic. But pain would still give me the ability to dislike and therefore control the mental part of the experience. Whereas, since body finds tickling as pleasurable as it is torturous, it allows my mind to be seduced by the experience as much as my body is overwhelmed by it: being made to squeal, to smile, to laugh and giggle because of a sensation that I have no control but to love, crave and yet to find every teasing touch unbearable is the ultimate submissive experience. Plus, it is arousing to endure the tickling on another's time frame, to beg and plead and still get no mercy but to helplessly love that fact. The flirtatious nature too of the dominate Ler in the process is also a huge part if the psychology behind it....:blush :blush :blush :blush :blush

I hope that answers your question! (Can't believe I confessed all that ! LOL! I hope you don't think I'm too weird now for writing it! 😢blush