Why Tickling 0WNS

[Sunday_10pm]

• The vast majority of people can easily find it really romantic, so its very easy to indulge in.
• There is a plentiful mix of 'lees an 'lers
• There is also a healthy mix of ladies and gentlemen here
• This is an extremely diverse community
• It is above all, a very peaceful and close community
• You are different, and despite tha bullshit many of us are subconsciously fed through the media and school etc. that is not a bad thing

And also, consider this: Most people would view the fact that tickling is not widely regarded as a really sexual activity as a disadvantage - I dont think so: If you are an ashamed, repressed tickler (as many of you are - and i was once) you need to WAKE UP! and come to realise that the rest of the world spins in a slightly different direction. ie. you can playfully tickle a friend and the chances are they will take no offence whatsoever, they are more likely to enjoy it. Could a "mainstreamer" go and grope anyone he wanted and expect to stay friends? - no - catastrophe. You can take advantage of this and get the best of both worlds fs! Tickling your girlfriend can easily be romantic, in the right mood. I have often sparked off some serious loving with playful tickling - how is rolling around tickling each other not romantic eh? you dont need to come out and say "I have a tickle fetish baby!" It works without that. Just get over the way you think: you are not sexually unhinged fs. Realise that others dont think that way, then realise it is to your advantage! Just make sure to let go of your dark fantasies in rl, and you can easily indulge yourself without anyone even having to know.
I know its not so simple in many people's lives, but please try. Opression is evil, and you are a victim

 

[Spotman C]

thanks, I needed that.

I really appreciated seeing this post today. It has been a tough one mentally. It was truly warm for the first time in a long time, sun shining all over the place. The ladies in the area didnt seem to think it was warm enough for shorts, so jeans and pants were everywhere, but so were sandals, flip flops and those maddening backless sneakers.(So you know jeans were worse to try and handle) I usually love this time of year but today I was pretty down on myself. I realized there were at least a dozen times that I saw a woman breaking out the summer foot wear and each time I went nuts.(I work in sales and I go to a lot of places in any given day.) At one stop I went to the bathroom three times just to check out a pair of feet that werent that great. When my client said something, I just blew him off, but when I got to my car I realized that normal people dont go through that. It just reminded me of how "different" I always have felt I am. I am rarely alone but I always feel lonely even with a very understanding wife.Ive never been able to talk about this to anyone but her, thank God for this group. So thanks for the post, it really helped. I just cant believe it was here today, it speaks to the feelings Ive had all day. WOW, mysterious ways, eh?

Spotman C

 

[Sunday_10pm]

This is it. Some people are so sexually driven by thoughts of tickling that they convince themselves that its as socially unacceptable as pinching bums or having a quick sqeeze of your friend's breasts. Its not, and the sooner you learn it the better off you are. I'm only 18, and still at school: so at this age, i seriously dont want anyone to know of my little kinks (not even my gf). Although she's outside the school, and we're really close, its still not something i would like to talk about. The thing is, its not something you have to "come out with" as such: its not like you need to tell your partner about your urges before you tickle her, as if you need permission or something. Thats why its so amazing, you are enjoying on an unbelievable level, what everyone else views as simply play. Now i'm not planning to go my entire life keeping it a complete secret. When i tell my gf, i certainly wont use the word "fetish" because its a shit word. Its a way for all those perfectly normal people to brand you, classify and categorise you, and anyone else who is different to them. I'm sure most people find the idea that they have a fetish embarassing. You don't have to have a "fetish", and you don't ever have to admit it in that way. How much nicer does it sound to simply say that you find your partner's squirming when you tickle them amazingly sexy, because that is at least as blunt as saying "fetish" but just not as scary. Free yourselfs of this fucking word ffs! I'm gonna put up a thread about this at a lat0r date, because the more i write the more pissed off i get....
Anyway, whenever you get the urge to tickle, just try to look at your behaviour through the eyes of the average person, and you'll soon realise how fun the tickle "fetish" is, and the freedom it can give you if you open your eyes.
Once you get over it, its funny. You can basically just be messing around (or so it would seem) and be getting kicks that anyone else could not dream of. Free love baby! (but noone even knows). Its immense. Dont go nuts though.

 

[Dave2112]

I agree that tickling isn't as rare an occurance as many believe. It's just talking about it that seems to be rare. Tickling is a very common form of foreplay, and it's an easy excuse to "break the ice" with someone without getting all "gropey". You can always say you were just screwin' around, right?😎

 

[BigJim]

This is it. Some people are so sexually driven by thoughts of tickling that they convince themselves that its as socially unacceptable as pinching bums or having a quick sqeeze of your friend's breasts. Its not, and the sooner you learn it the better off you are. I'm only 18, and still at school: so at this age, i seriously dont want anyone to know of my little kinks (not even my gf). Although she's outside the school, and we're really close, its still not something i would like to talk about. The thing is, its not something you have to "come out with" as such: its not like you need to tell your partner about your urges before you tickle her, as if you need permission or something. Thats why its so amazing, you are enjoying on an unbelievable level, what everyone else views as simply play. Now i'm not planning to go my entire life keeping it a complete secret. When i tell my gf, i certainly wont use the word "fetish" because its a shit word. Its a way for all those perfectly normal people to brand you, classify and categorise you, and anyone else who is different to them. I'm sure most people find the idea that they have a fetish embarassing. You don't have to have a "fetish", and you don't ever have to admit it in that way. How much nicer does it sound to simply say that you find your partner's squirming when you tickle them amazingly sexy, because that is at least as blunt as saying "fetish" but just not as scary. Free yourselfs of this fucking word ffs! I'm gonna put up a thread about this at a lat0r date, because the more i write the more pissed off i get....
Anyway, whenever you get the urge to tickle, just try to look at your behaviour through the eyes of the average person, and you'll soon realise how fun the tickle "fetish" is, and the freedom it can give you if you open your eyes.
Once you get over it, its funny. You can basically just be messing around (or so it would seem) and be getting kicks that anyone else could not dream of. Free love baby! (but noone even knows). Its immense. Dont go nuts though.

Sunday, you are wise beyond your years mate. I wish I'd been as "mentally liberated" as you, when I was your age. (Ha-I sound like an old man, but I'm only 23!)

You've got some serious words of wisdom in you mate, don't ever forget it.🙂

 

[Sunday_10pm]

cheers m8

 

[drew70]

I agree with your views, but I'm having difficulty understanding your subject line: "Why tickling 0WNS" Owns what? Exactly how does ownership come into play here? 😕

 

[Ayla ny]

drew, I think it's a plot to make us feel old. (nope, no smiley with a cane in one hand and a feather in the other)

 

[drew70]

So, it's just slang then? Kind of like saying "Tickling ROCKS" or "Tickling RULES"? I've never heard that expression before. Maybe it's a Brittish thing?

 

[BigJim]

So, it's just slang then? Kind of like saying "Tickling ROCKS" or "Tickling RULES"? I've never heard that expression before. Maybe it's a Brittish thing?

Not British as far as I know; but I get the sense that it means the same as "TicklingRocks" etc. Anyone agree?