willing or non-willing, which do you prefer?

[Cheshire Cat]

Havent posted here in a while so...I know its a running theme for a lot of people, ya like the fantasy with the person being tickled against their will. For most of us not so badly, in a playful (if not VERY playful) manner but still to which they dislike being tickled. Most stories, art and videos are also geared towards this demographic. This plays into the power role of the tickler, having complete control despite the others wishes.

I personally prefer it when the person enjoys it or even desires it (which is a major turn on). Plus you get to tickle the person a hell of a lot more if they actually want it. That and personally, I have a guilty consience that is my worst enemy and if I ever go overboard on someone who doesnt particularly enjoy it, I tend to feel really bad afterwords. I know this would be easier if there were more willing ticklees out there, just wondering what others thoughts are on the subject...

Then theres the 3rd type of those who dont particularly enjoy it but "tolerate" it for the other person, usually only in strong relationships. This one has an interesting blend of aspects from the other two but some would say is the hardest to find of all....

 

[MistressValerie]

I'm love either willing or tolerating, but I could never bring myself to do it non-con. I personally love when a 'lee willingly gets undressed and gets into a submissive position for me to tickle, tickle, and tickle as long as I want 🙂 I also LOVE when someone who doesn't really like it willingly submits to it for my pleasure , since the self-sacrificial aspect is in play most strongly.

Luv and laughter,

 

[NYCity]

I also LOVE when someone who doesn't really like it willingly submits to it for my pleasure , since the self-sacrificial aspect is in play most strongly.

Luv and laughter,

I agree completely, and it still allows for a little role-play of it being non-con. The teasing and dominance and (at least illusion of) control are a huge part of it for me.

There's a HUGE differeence between fantasy and reality. In real life, I could never condone non-consentual, but my fantasies are almost all non-consensual. I also love non-consensual stories, and videos that APPEAR to be non-consnsual, but really aren't.

 

[sole seeker]

Personally, I prefer a 'lee who likes it. Not only is it an incredible turn-on, but I need feel no guilt about doing something that makes my victim uncofortable.

I write fiction about tickling an unwilling victim, but it's only fiction. I don't really want to do it.

My wife is very ticklish, and she tolerates me tickling her feet because she loves me. I'm thrilled about the gift she gives me when she submits to my tickling, but I wish that she liked it.

 

[Ticklegrrrl]

yeah

I agree with Mistress Valerie, there are plenty of lees out there (like myself) for whom tickling is something they both love and hate. You crave it and submit yourself to it but it also drives you insane, makes you crazy and turns you into a begging, pleading mass. I figure for a ler out there that gets excited by the whole control/teasing aspect this would be exactly what you're lookin for and you don't have to tickle poor unsuspecting people who actually dislike tickling.



Ticklegrrrl

 

[gr369]

Ticklegrrrl,
I couldn't have said it any better. Your words turn me on....and your picture excites me even more. I agree wholeheartedly with Val - you are one delectable babe.
Hope to connect before you move...
GR

 

[Deleted member 2452]

willing of course!

in real life i'm assuming is the question.
in fantasy i can enjoy either, as long as there is no violence, or pain. there is no room in tickling for pain, or violence!
steve

 

[Ticklegrrrl]

oh my

Well well, thank you kindly sir... heehee




Ticklegrrrl

 

[pantsonfire]

As far as fantasizing goes, it's definitely better when the tickling is non-consentual. But in reality, I'd love to find someone who liked being tickled. But you take what you can get, you know? I don't see anything wrong with a little "NC" tickling as long as you know where the "line" is with your "victim", and you don't come anywhere close to crossing it.

Pantsonfire

 

[TickledToDeath]

Definatly, Willing...but then again...

No, seriously, willing. Tickling is to cause "pleasure" to the Extreme! While a non willing ticklee(victim) sounds...inviting at first glance(second and third...😉 , however it would be wrong to do so. It could get you arrested and or hurt badly!😉


TTD

 

[BigJim]

I like a bit of both to be honest, but the day when I get any action would be a welcome change; willing or non willing.LOL