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Willing or victimized?

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I personally love having the ticklee willing to be tickled. It is a huge turn-on. Anyone elses opinions..? Thanx WendynPeter for the idea of this thread!
 
I think willing is a big turn on, but Victimized can be much more fun :super_hap
 
I like a combo... the victim is willing to be tied up and tickled but realized too late their vulnerabilities and inability to fight of the probing and stroking.
 
For me, willing is profoundly erotic because of the trust shown by the 'lee. It's the self-sacrificial aspect of the 'lee "enduring" tickling for my pleasure that makes it so enjoyable to me.
 
Val, we see eye-to-eye yet again. Willing partners are enduring something that makes them totaly lose control, in order to please their tickler. What could be sexier than that??
 
I'm with you all along. Causing someone discomfort has never been my thing, and it would be a total turn-off for me if they got angry or frightened.
 
I like to go with "willingly" but "victimized" can work as well. I don't get out much in the Tickling World. 😉
 
hhmm, willing is the best kind i think. But yes victimised can be kinda fun too. depends how victimised it is, aslong as it's playful victimised 😛
 
I am always willing to be tickled...but I like being held down or tied up so that my control is gone and there is a slight sense of victimization...it makes it exciting!!!! I love it...and I just bought my ler a new toy...reflexology massager that has lots of little survaces and bumps that vibrate and tickle like crazy...it's wonderful...and I'm more than willing to withstand it!!!!!!!! 😉
 
MistressValerie said:
For me, willing is profoundly erotic because of the trust shown by the 'lee. It's the self-sacrificial aspect of the 'lee "enduring" tickling for my pleasure that makes it so enjoyable to me.
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Yup. That's how I see it as well.
 
ericmartin said:
Causing someone discomfort has never been my thing, and it would be a total turn-off for me if they got angry or frightened.
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AMEN!

I think the hottest thing I can think of would be to find a lady who was as turned on by me tickling her feet as I was while I was tickling her feet!
 
sole seeker said:
AMEN!

I think the hottest thing I can think of would be to find a lady who was as turned on by me tickling her feet as I was while I was tickling her feet!
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That's DEFINATELY the hottest thing. But, even just having a girl who's willing to let you tickle her, even if she hates it, but just because she's doing it for you, is one of the best things imaginable. I happen to have stumbled upon such a girl.
😀 You'll all get a big story from me when something happens.
 
the hollywood brother like a combo sort of like what our beloved camel26 posted. what the hollywood brother means is he wants his lee to be a willing participant but then once the lee agrees, the hollywood brother likes the idea of tying up the lee and even blindfolding so that they have no control of how much the tickling is or where and when on there very beautiful body.

the key for the hollywood brother here is to remember above all us that if your lee is allowing you to tie her up then it is a very special gift being given to the hollywood brother. it is a gift given to the hollywood brother that the hollywood brother takes seriously and cherishes
 
I like willing.

Victimizing is rape. Plain and simple.
 
Ummm, NO.... rape is rape. Tickling someone against their will might be abuse, or even assault. But let's not get tickling someone against their will confused with something as horrible as rape.
 
wendynpeter said:
Ummm, NO.... rape is rape. Tickling someone against their will might be abuse, or even assault. But let's not get tickling someone against their will confused with something as horrible as rape.
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Actually, he's right. It's rape.
Rape by definition is as follows:

"The crime of forcing another person to submit to sex acts, especially sexual intercourse."

If you have a tickling fetish, and tickle torture someone against their own will, it could be classified as rape, if the victim made a claim. It doesnt have to be SEX to be rape, it can be any sexual act. To the victim, it may not be a sexual act, but to the person committing the rape, it's a sexual act. It would be less harsh than if the person were to actually "RAPE" the victim, but it could still get you in jail.

EDIT: Now that I look again at the rest of the definitions for rape...

"The act of seizing and carrying off by force; abduction."

So really, just TAKING the person would be rape, even before you tickled them.
 
Anyone find that interesting? I never thought tickling someone against their will could be classified as rape either....huge eye opener here.
 
Hmmmmmm, I too will go with "willing" but after being tied up and the lee realizes the perdicament, becomes sort of victimized and begs for mercy!

TTD
 
-Kunoke- said:
Actually, he's right. It's rape.
Rape by definition is as follows:

"The crime of forcing another person to submit to sex acts, especially sexual intercourse."

If you have a tickling fetish, and tickle torture someone against their own will, it could be classified as rape, if the victim made a claim. It doesnt have to be SEX to be rape, it can be any sexual act. To the victim, it may not be a sexual act, but to the person committing the rape, it's a sexual act. It would be less harsh than if the person were to actually "RAPE" the victim, but it could still get you in jail.

EDIT: Now that I look again at the rest of the definitions for rape...

"The act of seizing and carrying off by force; abduction."

So really, just TAKING the person would be rape, even before you tickled them.
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I think you are being completely ridiculous. Try to get a prosecutor to charge someone with rape for tickling an unwilling victim.

Worse still, try to sell that definition of rape to a victim of rape.
 
wendynpeter said:
I think you are being completely ridiculous. Try to get a prosecutor to charge someone with rape for tickling an unwilling victim.

Worse still, try to sell that definition of rape to a victim of rape.
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What I was getting at is it'd have to be more severe than randomly tickling someone on the street or something. You'd have to force them into a position and/or tie them down and such.
Besides, I wouldn't expect someone to claim rape from that, or win a case like that for that matter. It was merely speculation.
 
wendynpeter said:
I think you are being completely ridiculous. Try to get a prosecutor to charge someone with rape for tickling an unwilling victim.

Worse still, try to sell that definition of rape to a victim of rape.
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I see my mistake. I didn't explain well enough.

When I likened the aforementioned situation as rape, I didn't mean it in the criminal sense as you have termed it. I was referring to the situation as we in the tickling community see it.
What I'm saying is that in referrence to the act of victimised tickling, it is an act of degradation and humiliation. Also, it is a form of torture. Goofing around by unplanned tickling is one thing, but when you do it to someone for the sole purpose of making them lose control for your own amusement, then I must concede that it is a form of rape in the tickling community.

I apologise. I didn't really think about the fact that some people might feel that my use of the word would be out of place. Perhapse rape is too strong a word.
Sorry.
 
lmao, guys, guys, let the whole rape thing go. lol, its done
 
I have to say i have always *adored* tickling my girlfriends against their will lol, its the fact that im about ten times stronger than her and can pin her down and there's not a damn thing she can do about it while I tickle her like crazy that turns me on, hehehehe. Obviously in a bondage situation i get their agreement first, but if they don't start to wish they hadnt agreed, then a lot of the attraction of it is lost on me lol. What can i say, I'm an evil bastard 😀 I can understand the trust side of others peoples attractions though... I just get that from other things i guess.
 
Whenever I've been tickled, whether it's been by a girlfriend, friends, or colleagues, it's always been over my protests and beseeching pleas; indeed, the very fact that it was against my will had everything to do with why they were tickling me in the first place, and why they kept tickling me; if I had indicated that I enjoyed it they no doubt would have stopped.
 
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