Hmm
Well, I'm not a female, hehe. But I do live in Madison, WI.
I think a meet up around the area or Illinois would be cool. I'd be up for it.
Someone once mentioned they use to have one in Chicago. They still do that?
Personally, Milwaukee or Madison...Janesville, Beloit, Rockford...a gathering in any of those area would be cool too. But, you have my vote.