Words that we couldn't say

[Cyrano]

I met a girl, actually, I've met her before, but about a week ago, I had my first intelligent conversation with her. We really hit it off. We had dinner with a few friends throughout the we week. On Friday, I attended a party with her and found she was extremely ticklish as well. She's very intelligent, witty, funny, fun, and she's also the most beautiful person I've ever met, on the inside as well as the outside. Unlike most girls around here, I definitely get the vibe she likes me back.

Too good to be true? Bingo. In two weeks, she leaves for college. I desperately want to tell her how I feel about her, but when do I do so? It might make things ackward, ruining what has so far been the best week of my life. She's incredible to me, I feel like a different person, with a more positive outlook than I've ever had. I've been able to forgive people and myself for things we had no control over. Just her friendship has done this to me, and I'm afraid to do anything that might change it. If I was positive it would change it for the better, I'd tell her as soon as I could.

I want to tell her tomorrow, but it might mess up the remaining two weeks. I'd tell her how I felt right before she left, but perhaps we'd have a chance for a distanced relationship, a two hour drive, not too bad. We might have a better chance if I told her sooner. So, I'm asking for some advice, as I said, most girls around here don't want much to do with me. My romance experience is in far off lands with girls I don't know for more than a day. I can be very loyal, but I don't know how to play this one. Do I lay my hand down, or do I throw a few cards down and see what comes up?

 

[Deleted member 2452]

if you are having trouble saying the words

put it in a letter. don't say anything till just before she leaves.
then either say to her exactly what you posted here, or put your words to paper, and give it to her with a rose.
2 hours is nothing if she's the right girl.
steve

 

[Dave2112]

I'm with Steve on this one. Two hours isn't that long a trip for a little while if this is the right girl. I think I'd rather know one way or the other than spend the rest of my life wondering. Sometimes you just have to grab the rekk by the horn.😎

 

[CDFGA]

..Only thing is, if she's leaving for college, she is about to experience a whole new world to her. I doubt you will have much luck with her if she's going any distance to college. ...Maybe when she comes back....
...But that's just my experiences.

 

[Cyrano]

You can bet that I will tell her, I'm just wondering when to tell her. I'll probably sing the words to her, I'm working on the song now. However, if I do tell her just before she leaves, I'm afraid it might be too late to start up a long distance relationship. Then again, I don't want to tell her too soon either. One thing is for sure, and I've been sure about it for quite some time now, I will tell her. Regrets, they're not my style.

CDFGA, I'd agree with you with most girls, but not this one. She's like nothing I've ever experienced. I don't know how to explain it, other than she's made me a different person. I don't see how I ever fell for some of the other girls around here. Perhaps 'tis the first time I've ever loved a girl. Who knows, but I do know she's like nobody I've ever met and I don't think she'd have a problem with a long distance relationship, if you can call two hours long distance.

 

[kurchatovium]

I sort of was in this situation and all sorts of people were telling me what to do. They were saying you can't tell her to soon because you'll scare her off. Or you should have an argument with her to show your passionate, that one sounded really dumb. In the long run I think perhaps I waited too long and maybe missed out on a very sweet woman. My advice is if you love her, tell her. Good luck, my friend.

Of all sad words of toungue or pen, the saddest are these: "It might have been!"
--John Greenleaf Whittier

 

[mabus]

Okay, Cyrano, he's another reality check, and a positive one. I have a friend who was dating a girl down here in South Louisiana. He moved to New York City to work for NBC. She stayed down here. They dated, like that, seperated by I don't know how many hundreds or thousands of miles. They dated for THREE years. They just got married about a month ago.

Don't worry, it can work out. Go for it.

Good Luck in love.

 

[Cyrano]

Thank you Kurchatovium, for the wisdom. Thank you Mabus, for the confidence. My plans are being set now, I must admit I'm a bit nervous, anxious, what have you. Funny, isn't it? Games our minds play.